bleeding from clitoral stimulation, should i see a doctor?

lately i’ve been seeing discharge a while after clitoral simulation (always thought my period cycle is getting messed up but turns out i’m not menstruating)
i’m not sure why it’s happening even when i’m not being too rough or doing it too frequently? i have vaginismus so i’ve only ever used my clit and i have spotted some light bleeding but it would be once a month or two. but now its there after every session ¿
is it something dangerous? i dont feel pain down there unless ive overstimulated it and also it ALWAYS hurts when my partner tries to rub me. wtf do i do. should i see a gynecologist?

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u/ajeebdastanhainye — 6 hours ago

any foreign internships/research programmes (summer 2027) for an indian student?

myquals: third year student majoring in finance and management, giving cfa feb 2027. will be doing 4 years honors degree so next summer i can take up another internship. i would like to travel and work with people beyond india, in a bank or a consulting firm.
do any countries or companies have any such programmes? willing to pay all the costs associated with it. kind of like a foreign exchange program but in a work setting xD

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u/ajeebdastanhainye — 3 days ago

what insecurities could this chart suggest?

i had a turning point 2 years ago when i first read the gita and it gave me immense strength to be a better person and live morally.
lately ive felt the need for that discipline again. for a very long time. i know the logics and what’s right and wrong but i cant get myself to take actions consistently. one of my friends suggested that the reason im unable to absorb this strength and support is because maybe i have some part of myself, some insecurity that doesn’t want me to let go of it. something that is scared of being faced or acknowledged. i wonder what that something could be.

u/ajeebdastanhainye — 4 days ago

any foreign internships/research programmes (summer 2027) for an indian student?

myquals: third year student majoring in finance and management, giving cfa feb 2027. will be doing 4 years honors degree so next summer i can take up another internship. i would like to travel and work with people beyond india, in a bank or a consulting firm.
do any countries or companies have any such programmes? willing to pay all the costs associated with it. kind of like a foreign exchange program but in a work setting xD

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u/ajeebdastanhainye — 4 days ago

cfa scholarship audit?

one of my friends faked her scholarship application wrt finances and received the scholarship for august. she has not received the scholarship audit mail. is that also luck based now? 💀

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u/ajeebdastanhainye — 5 days ago

how do i bring this back to life?

this belongs to my mom and it’s been her favorite go to bag. definitely had its own share of wear and tear. we have no details about the model since it was gifted to her from the US. it’s her birthday soon and i’d love to repair this bag for her so she can start carrying it again!:)

u/ajeebdastanhainye — 12 days ago

how do i bring this back to life?

this belongs to my mom and it’s been her favorite go to bag. definitely had its own share of wear and tear. we have no details about the model since it was gifted to her from the US. it’s her birthday soon and i’d love to repair this bag for her so she can start carrying it again!:)

u/ajeebdastanhainye — 12 days ago

how do i bring this back to life?

this belongs to my mom and it’s been her favorite go to bag. definitely had its own share of wear and tear. we have no details about the model since it was gifted to her from the US. it’s her birthday soon and i’d love to repair this bag for her so she can start carrying it again!:)

u/ajeebdastanhainye — 12 days ago

i think i have depression and have no idea how to articulate it.

i turned 20 last month. i barely have any memories from my childhood. my parents weren’t abusive but they were absent for a while during my early years. my first memory of prolonged anxiety is from 4th grade, had terrible reactions to it from everyone else so i kinda just learnt how to mask it and it still resurfaces time to time. i’ve always struggled with friendships. i don’t think i have a single long term childhood friend. i dated a guy at 17 and that completely altered my brain chemistry and now im scared of falling in love again and hate not being able to love at the same time. also a lot of sa history from childhood. last night i tried opening up to my father about all of this (he has an idea about these stories) but he just can’t take me seriously because he can’t have me slip up emotionally. my mom laughs at my emotions and my dad screams at them. ive recognized a long term depressive feeling inside of me since i was 14 and it doesn’t seem to go away sometimes it’s less that i can’t notice it and sometimes it’s too intense that it makes me physically sick. i don’t want to end myself. i genuinely want to make my life better because ive experienced love once and i know it’s out there but i feel so weak to reach out for it or even accept it. my parents won’t send me to therapy ive been trying since i was 16. please help me out.
and my friend says i can’t have depression if im not suicidal but for the longest time i have been. for a decent 1-2 year period of my life i wasnt but now im slowly starting to lose strength again, not implying that i want to kms but i dont think i can healthily function.

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u/ajeebdastanhainye — 16 days ago

wanting to sell schweser 2026 L1 books QYOP.

i had initial plans of giving my attempt in august 26 but due to unforeseen reasons had to push it to february 27.
the curriculum has been updated so these books aren’t of much use to me. so if anyone’s yet to start with their prep for november attempt, drop me a text/comment. we can discuss the price.
bought from m@hakali for rs 1300. based in mumbai. shipping will be extra.

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u/ajeebdastanhainye — 17 days ago

looking for an accountability partner (L1 feb’27)

hi im f20 pursuing bba finance and i’ve just wrapped up with one of my summer internships and almost wrapping up with the second one. i’ve tried picking up cfa material multiple times but due to my poor health managing college and internships was itself really hard.
i have ~20 days of my vacations left before i enter my 5th semester and id like to break this inertia. i study really well in group settings but most of my friends are already on their L2 prep. hence i would love to connect with someone who’s in the same boat. thank you!:)

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u/ajeebdastanhainye — 23 days ago

first time trying project pan as someone who can’t let go of favorite scents and shades 🫶🏻

im one of those people who are emotionally attached to perfumes scents to the point i have this autumn nights body mist from bbw from 2019 and it will break my heart to include it here.
so for baby steps im going to say goodbye to some of my other favorite scents and my favorite romand lippies🥹 i just hope they don’t change the formulation in future because i loved it so much

u/ajeebdastanhainye — 24 days ago

does tira not let you stack multiple gift cards?

it was my birthday recently and i had asked for a couple of tira gift cards and now there’s this perfume i want to buy but im not able to apply more than one gift card at a time? and if i have any outstanding balance on one (around 100-200) would it be wasted? :,)
their customer care told me i can stack multiple gift cards but the app isn’t letting me do that

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u/ajeebdastanhainye — 1 month ago

(will delete soon) does tira app not let you stack multiple gift cards?

it was my birthday recently and i had asked for a couple of tira gift cards and now there’s this perfume i want to buy but im not able to apply more than one gift card at a time? and if i have any outstanding balance on one (around 100-200) would it be wasted? :,)

i’ll delete this post as soon as i get any advice or tips pls let me keep this for a while mods

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u/ajeebdastanhainye — 1 month ago

my “had zero self control this week” haul 😩

will be majoring in finance this year onwards, thought every finance girlie should have cute stationery and lippies to keep up with it🫶🏻💗

u/ajeebdastanhainye — 1 month ago

20th birthday haul 🫶🏻

everything i received on my 20th birthday, genuinely felt so loved to see the attention to detail my friends and family had put in from the glosses, stickers, hand creams to even percy jackson novels 🥺🫶🏻 it had a lot more chocolates but i ate them hehe 🩷

+ some bouquets my dumbass forgot at the airbnb, wish i could retrieve them. they were so beautiful 🥲

u/ajeebdastanhainye — 2 months ago

a note before entering my 20s

my teen self did not believe id stay alive for this long but she is so happy that i did!! before i enter my 20s i want to just say that ive absolutely grown into the person i absolutely adore and love 🫶🏻
this sub has been a major part of that journey i wont lie, whether it be breakups or fashion advice or even health related advice, ive found such a supportive community of women who are all so kind and full of love, you all have genuinely made my life easier by being my elder sisters 💗
thank you to everyone who’s ever interacted with me, or made a post/comment about my exact same situation, you’ve truly helped out this only child, i see you all like my sisters <3
im turning 20 in a few days, and even though im having mixed feelings, im excited to jump into it
🥺🩷

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u/ajeebdastanhainye — 2 months ago
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Hi everyone, I (F19) am a summer intern working closely with a director at a consulting firm in India, and we’re currently trying to find a Software/ AI tool/workflow that can help us monitor and synthesize business developments in real time.

The key focus areas are:
- DEI
- Workplace culture
- EVP / employer branding
- M&A activity
- Sales force effectiveness

Mainly across Financial Services and General/Industrial sectors.

What we’re looking for is not just a news summarizer. We want something that can:
- track daily/weekly developments
- identify weak signals and emerging patterns
- connect developments across companies/sectors
- surface trends before they become obvious
- potentially hint at upcoming M&A, restructuring, talent shifts, culture problems, etc.

The ultimate goal is to use these insights proactively while pitching to new and existing clients, ideally before competitors, and sometimes even before the client fully realizes the issue internally.

Would appreciate recommendations on:
- Software tools/ AI platforms
- custom workflows
- agentic setups
- newsletter intelligence stacks
- OSINT approaches
- integrations (Slack, Notion, Teams, CRM, etc.)
- how consulting firms / strategy teams are approaching this internally

Open to both enterprise and scrappy solutions.

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u/ajeebdastanhainye — 2 months ago

Hi everyone, I (F19) am a summer intern working closely with a director at a consulting firm in India, and we’re currently trying to find an AI tool/workflow that can help us monitor and synthesize business developments in real time.

The key focus areas are:
- DEI
- Workplace culture
- EVP / employer branding
- M&A activity
- Sales force effectiveness

Mainly across Financial Services and General/Industrial sectors.

What we’re looking for is not just a news/data summarizer. We want something that can:
- track daily/weekly developments
- identify weak signals and emerging patterns
- connect developments across companies/sectors
- surface trends before they become obvious
- potentially hint at upcoming M&A, restructuring, talent shifts, culture problems, etc.

The ultimate goal is to use these insights proactively while pitching to new and existing clients, ideally before competitors, and sometimes even before the client fully realizes the issue internally.

Would appreciate recommendations on:
- AI tools/platforms
- custom workflows
- agentic setups
- newsletter intelligence stacks
- OSINT approaches
- integrations (Slack, Notion, Teams, CRM, etc.)
- how consulting firms / strategy teams are approaching this internally

Open to both enterprise and scrappy solutions.

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u/ajeebdastanhainye — 2 months ago

Hi everyone, I (F19) am a summer intern working closely with a director at a consulting firm in India, and we’re currently trying to find an AI tool/workflow that can help us monitor and synthesize business developments in real time.

The key focus areas are:
- DEI
- Workplace culture
- EVP / employer branding
- M&A activity
- Sales force effectiveness

Mainly across Financial Services and General/Industrial sectors.

What we’re looking for is not just a news summarizer. We want something that can:
- track daily/weekly developments
- identify weak signals and emerging patterns
- connect developments across companies/sectors
- surface trends before they become obvious
- potentially hint at upcoming M&A, restructuring, talent shifts, culture problems, etc.

The ultimate goal is to use these insights proactively while pitching to new and existing clients — ideally before competitors, and sometimes even before the client fully realizes the issue internally.

Would appreciate recommendations on:
- AI tools/platforms
- custom workflows
- agentic setups
- newsletter intelligence stacks
- OSINT approaches
- integrations (Slack, Notion, Teams, CRM, etc.)
- how consulting firms / strategy teams are approaching this internally

Open to both enterprise and scrappy solutions.

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u/ajeebdastanhainye — 2 months ago