is this my post partum anxiety or is this weird

my MIL was rubbing/grabbing in a playful motion on my sons diaper saying “do u need a diaper change” , “do u need a diaper change” hand was on his private location of diaper. she is of different culture and sensitive so i was just looking in disgust and she noticed but i didn’t say anything and haven’t told my husband bc idk if im being too much ?

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u/bd2000chi — 7 days ago

my mil wants my son to call her mama gi

hi i am not desi but my husband is and they’re from hyderabad. is that normal that she wants my son to call her mama gi bc im uncomfortable

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u/bd2000chi — 8 days ago

Shawn’s apology on IG

Not to be parasocial or anything but has anyone else seen Shawn’s IG post? this apology is corny asl. it’s also really uncomfortable how he is still trying to take control of every situation. sometimes it’s best to just stay quiet. it’s honestly starting to feel hard to watch their scenes and it’s bc of Shawn. I hope Nikki meets a good man bc i would need heavy therapy after this shit

u/bd2000chi — 8 days ago

are your babies eating/drinking less with teething?

my baby is just under 20 pounds and only had 22oz of 22cal formula. yesterday i think he only had 26. with solids, its give or take but today he only accepted one serving of fruit which was about 50 calories. is anyone else dealing with this?

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u/bd2000chi — 15 days ago

Sincere and Mel lost me when sincere didn’t offer to sleep outside instead

It was at this moment where i was like she looks pathetic and this relationship is actually abusive. i don’t want them to stay as a couple, i don’t want them to win, i don’t even want fame to happen for them because we watched sincere manipulate and gaslight her to the max and she pouts and cries yes i believe she’s hurt and a victim but it’s also bc she knows she’s going back to him also she knows she’s on TV why not make this into an opportunity to inspire women to LEAVE EVEN WHEN ITS HARD. like he’s not worth it no amount of charm can be worth it ESPECIALLY after he let you sleep outside. ultimate ick and melanie if u want to continue with sincere go ahead but im done giving you screen time i’ll be fast forwarding their scenes

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u/bd2000chi — 2 months ago
▲ 4 r/Diary

i can’t stop thinking about him

this is a hard post for me to make. i’m truly feeling a lot of emotions. making this post for genuine advice.

Also my moral compass is not corrupt. i’m aware this is bad i dont think my feelings are good. i just can’t stop thinking about him.

Back in April, my son was admitted to the ER, he’s now 7 months, and thank god it was for something minor and he is doing great now. However, in April, for about 4 hours, my son has a ER hospitalist that I didn’t realize i had a crush on until after he left.

When he first walked in he immediately asked “where’s dad” I told him he’s out of town (my husband was on a trip with his friends, he told me it was to watch a UFC fight, i later found out it was a lie). He then asked me if i had anyone to help with my son at home, i told him I have my mom too but she’s also out of town. He made a joke: Are your mom and husband on vacation together? i was like no, explained why.. etc. This doctor stayed in my room for about 35 minutes, just chatting with me. small talk. he is married with a 2 year old son, he shared with me his first name bc it was relevant to what he named his son. He kind of made fun of his wife, said she looks like the nanny but at the time i did not realize there could’ve been flirting bc truthfully i was worried about my son at the time.

I noticed the nurses lowkey looking like why is this doctor still in here? he was asking relevant questions, i enjoyed his company and advice. but in between there was banter and friendliness. felt very comforting.

maybe 2 hours later, I had to step out to get food bc we were in triage for like 4 hours before getting a room, it was 10PM at this point. The doctor came in, the lights were closed because my son was sleeping, it was very dark and the doctor came in literally right 40 minutes after his shift ended to tell me about my sons blood results which to be honest were mild, and a nurse could’ve told me this update. i mean right? he waited 20 minutes for me to come back and tell me about these results. in hindsight he was nervous when speaking to me but overall professional.

The next day after we were discharged and things settled i started to think about him, and it was bad bc i felt like i really liked him. 4 days later i submitted a complement of service to patient relations. i don’t know if he got it or what but i just wanted him to know i was thankful for how he handled it.

3 weeks after i saw him, i google searched him and found his linkedin. I went back and forth on whether to connect with him or not. i impulsively submitted a request and realized i couldn’t rescind it or i didn’t know how to so i deleted my linkedin account. literally 10 years of history on that account deleted. i vowed to never search him again and try to move on.

Now we are in the end of June, i googled him again. His linkedin is COMPLETELY UPDATED. it was not updated since 2018 when i first searched him but now its fully updated with a new bio, his account is also now public, there’s an option to message him which before there wasn’t and his profile picture is also updated.

Is this a coincidence? am i delusional? i know we are both married and i don’t even want to break our marriages up i just wanted a second conversation? i dont even know what i want but i think we had a connection, i wonder if he felt the same, i really dont know.

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u/bd2000chi — 2 months ago

can you guys just be happy

i’ve been watching love island since UK season 5 based in the US and i’m 26yo female and i just wanna say HOLY SHIT you guys are NEVER happy with anything whether it’s the new after sun, the challenges… too much kissing… not enough intimacy or this should’ve been an OG this should’ve been a bombshell i’m DECEASED.

this season is better than last season and i’m very well entertained. YES people can have different opinions but holy shit NOBODYS HAPPY ABOUT ANYTHING like damn it’s annoying

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u/bd2000chi — 2 months ago

Are we giving our babies motrin or tylonel for teething?

hi what are your teething remedies? I’ve been doing teething crackers, frozen fruit passifiers from the freezer, camomille drops, chilled teething toys from the fridge.. orajel, i’m kind of nervous using tylenol or motrin but there are days where i feel like i have to then i feel bad about it… what are u guys doing?

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u/bd2000chi — 2 months ago
▲ 175 r/rhori

Victim Complex Liz posts a video tagging Andy

the only people who liked this so far are Rulla and Jo Ellen, it’s been posted for over 12 hours.

in essence, Liz is just saying how she’s seen all the hate about her being a drug dealer, vile, rude, mean… etc and that it’s not who she actually is.

I feel like all season Liz has been trying to like “clear her name” from being a mean old hag, including the menopause thing (which i 100% support) but bc shes so “this isn’t who i am” and the “im kind” persona that she tries so hard to speak into existence fails every time it just comes off as performative.

i don’t know why im sensing her marriage is kind of struggling which is why she’s been so scattered. what do u guys think?

also when is this reunion?????? i feel like they filmed it way too soon bc there’s so much drama STILL happening lol

u/bd2000chi — 2 months ago
▲ 461 r/rhori

JO ELLEN 😂😂😂😂😂

i need the reunion IMMEDIATELY

u/bd2000chi — 2 months ago

Ian appreciation post

Has anyone else noticed how funnier Ian has been this season? he’s usually funny (or annoying to be frank) but this season his commentary is actually hilarious lmfao

u/bd2000chi — 3 months ago

how do you think dyuti and iryna met?

i’m not gonna say what i’m thinking. but if you know dubai, then i think ur thinking what im thinking.

l

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u/bd2000chi — 3 months ago
▲ 0 r/help

reddit charged me $21.99 twice when they were only supoosed to charge me 1.99

how do i resolve this charge they charged me twice and it was supposed to be the 1.99 highlight vote

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u/bd2000chi — 3 months ago

bad dreams

hello i don’t want to go into too much detail but basically i’ve been having bad dreams of a demon after me. yes i have been under high stress and i have not been sleeping well. this is maybe the third time in 2 months

is there any islamic context about this?

when i wake up i remember what happened, but after a few days i do not

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u/bd2000chi — 3 months ago