u/bekamaro

Hello! I got gendered correctly by the random people (with no intention to be nice) for the first time ever today:) and it made me so happy!:) I must say I have almost zero social interaction from day to day and when I am outside I am always in my headphones, but today I was in the hospital and the nurse called my name by saying "Herr mysurname" which is the German equivalent of Mister. When I got up and approached her, I saw her eyes shocked and she very quickly said "Frau Frau mysurname" (which is equivalent of Miss) and she was apologizing and blaming the computer that it sometimes shows the wrong info about the patients. At that moment I was just smiling and looking at her (and didn't want to use my voice, because you know...). Then I had to give urine for the analysis, so she gave me the little jar and pointed at WOMEN'S BATHROOM!!! The men's and women's bathrooms were opposite to each other on the different sides of the hallway and she was pointing at the women's bathroom telling me to go there to take the samples😭😭😭. I must say I always try to avoid using public bathrooms or go to the family bathrooms if I really have to. But this time I didn't have a choice:) I was told to:) I was so happy and wanted to thank that nurse,but I was just smiling and nodding trying not to use my voice:( She probably thought I barely speak the language, so she was fine with that:) Then I was directed to a different waiting place where there were a lot of people waiting for their appointments. And then another nurse came out screaming "Herr mysurname" and I went to her approaching her face literally,but she ignored me and screamed through me again "HERR MYSURNAME". I told her it was me, and she looked at me with a super shocked face and invited to the room and said she thought I was just a random woman trying to annoy and disrurb her with some questions. This made me so happy. I don't know, it was just a different and warming feeling. Those people didn't have to be nice to me and apparently I was passing so well in their eyes. Even though I have never actually been super open and representing my inner self, mostly boymodding and I thought I was reading as a male even at this day, but those two nurses made my day:)

I took some pictures to capture the moment and my look. I wanted to share this experience with someone, so that is why I posted it here:)

Thank you so much for reading💕

Hello. I have been always wearing the same clothes because I was so scared to experiment and trying something new. Now I want to change everything and look nice and be happy about my appearance:) I made a budget and went online to buy some new clothes and become a new version of myself! But then I realized - I have absolutely no idea what could suit me and what styling clothes is. I figured out that unless you have experience and now your proportion and what looks nice on you, buying new clothes is useless. So of course I will have to gain experience,but I was thinking maybe I can get some recommendations and advice from people, who are already experieced and could direct me! But unfortunately I have no one to ask, so I decided to pist here:)))

I am a trans woman and that is why it's especially difficult for me, because again as I said I was sad in my "previous version" of myself and didn't like anything and didn't gain any experience and knowledge, but now is time to change!!!

I will appreciate any advice, thought, recommendations!!!

Thank you so much in advance!

Both of my feet have these dark lines all around that area. It's been more than a year, sometimes they are darker sometimes lighter. They don't hurt or itch. It's only visually bad. Have you maybe experienced something like this or maybe familiar what the reason could be? I would appreciate a lot if you could share some information. Thank you in advance!

Hello I would be happy to hear some honest opinion!:) I come from the places where people never smile, however, I am trying my best to unlearn this habit and stop being so grumpy all the time:) If you could also share some advice, I would appreciate that a lot:)

I am a total beginner at makeup and I want to learn everything about it:) I am only using bb cream, brow gel and some lip balm with colour. Recently I used mascara for the first time, but I think I still have to learn to apply it correctly:) I would really appreciate it if you could share some advice, what I could do or what I shouldn't do. If you could share some learning materials that you found useful I would be super glad as well!

Thank you so much for reading💕

I am used to using some bb cream and balm with colour on my lips, but using mascara always seemed so scary to me. I don't know why, but I had to force myself to go out looking like this, because I was so scared and embarrassed. I thought I would like a man with makeup on (I don't have anything against it, I just don't want to look like a man😭). In the end everything went well:))

Hey! I would be super thankful to get your opinion or advice about my pass. I have been boymodding since I started my transition, however in the recent months I feel like I have to change that. I still see myself as a super manly and ugly person, which makes me anxious to try something new, because I think I don't pass even a little. I am very tall (180 cm) and my voice is not trained yet. I can't change my height, but I can change my voice. So I understand that I will have to work on some things and others I will have to accept. Because of the chaos in my mind regarding my appearance, it's really difficult for me to see myself what are the things that won't let me pass. I have no one to ask for in real life unfortunately, so I will really really appreciate if you could tell me your opinion. Please be as direct and honest as possible:) If you could share some advice that would be wonderful!!! I feel like I need it a lot at this point!

Every time I need to use a bathroom in public and there is no family bathroom, I don't know what to do😭 I feel like I am too manly and will make everyone uncomfortable in the women's bathroom, but I also don't want and feel super uncomfortable to go to the men's room. How have you managed this and what is your story? When and how did you feel that now you can't use men's bathroom anymore and should be using the women's one?

Thank you so much in advance for your answers and for reading💕

Hey everyone ✨

Can you please tell me if I pass or have the potential to pass? I have been boymodding all this time, but I want to change that. So I would appreciate any feedback and advice. What gender would you think I am when you see the pictures? How old am I? And a question I have been asking myself more often recently, what bathroom should I go to? I try to avoid the men's bathroom at all costs, but going to the women's feels like I am going to make everyone uncomfortable and I feel super scared.

I have also recently been to a GP and he was surprised that I am a trans person. I mean he saw my data and started to address to me as a man and when he asked me about medications I take, I told him about hrt and he was like "so you are changing your sex?¿?¿ Oh wow, hmm, wow". I don't know why he was so surprised 😭. I mean I know I don't pass, but I don't think I look like a 100% male and me being trans shouldn't surprise people that much. That situation made me think even more about what are the things that don't let me pass. It's really difficult to see it myself, because I am being super critical of myself. However if I had some idea, it would be easier for me to figure out if I can change that or I should accept it. I am very tall at 180 cm, which I can't change unfortunately and my voice is masculine, which I can train and want to prioritize in the upcoming months:)

I have no one to ask about the appearance, that's why I would be super thankful if you could share your honest thoughts and advice!:)

Thank you so much for reading it and I wish you a good day or night!

Hey everyone, would you please tell me if I have a potential to pass and what is something that won't let me pass. I know I don't really pass however it's super difficult for me to see myself what are the reasons. I would be super thankful if you could share your opinion, so I could figure out if I am able to try to change that:) I am tall (180 cm), but I can't change that, my voice is deep and I am trying to change that. I have been boymoding all this timez which I want to change slowly as well. I have no one to ask for an advice or to share their honest view. Thank you so much for you response in advance 💕✨

Hey! I would be super happy to hear some honest and fair opinions about my appearance:) I know that I am not beautiful, but am I ugly? Would also appreciate any advice!:)

Hey, I would be super happy to know what the things that don't let me pass are. I know I don't really pass, but if I knew exactly what makes it so, it would be easier to either accept it or work on it. I would appreciate any advice as well. I want you to be super honest and direct:)

I had a weird situation recently when I went to a new doctor and he asked me if I took any medication. I said that I take hormones and he was like why? I answered I am doing hrt mtf and he was surprised saying oh, so you are trans. I mean yes I don't pass as a woman, but he was even surprised I was a trans person 😭. That situation made me think if I don't even pass as a trans person(?) and people see me as a 100% man😭

Thank you so much for your feedback and advice in advance 💕