u/blueberryfieldss

It’s so hot (I’m in Germany) and I keep washing my hair bc I keep sweating. I also wet my hair a lot to cool me down so it gets wet constantly. Of course this causes the dye to fade super fast. I refuse to re-dye at the moment bc it’s a waste of money but sometimes I miss being blonde when you couldn’t tell how often I washed 😂 faded hair makes me feel ugly

Dünne Decken haben einfach nicht das richtige Gewicht und geben mir nicht die richtige Geborgenheit. Eine Freundin meinte “Decke ist doch Decke”… Aber nein. Hier werde ich vielleicht verstanden.

Jammern Ende 🥹

I can’t remember how it feels to not have a weirdly sore spot on my tongue. It’s more annoying than actually having screws in the bone.

Two lower teeth hurt due to the ones above shifting (which is wanted) but they now hit each other awkwardly and I can’t do anything but wait it out until braces pull them into position. But I still need time with the distaliser/beneslider that creates space between teeth before they add braces and pull them all into the right position. I wish I was done

*maybe you’ll end up loving it and think it’s dumb you ever thought of not wanting this*

If I had an Euro for every time someone told me this… as if a child’s life is a gamble. Yeah I’ll have a kid and if I find out I indeed hate it we’ll just tough it out. Or I’ll do the same as my mother and just leave the kids to go on live free, traumatising everyone just to say “I DID try it!” 🤪

It’s like I don’t see people in my life who have kids be miserable. Like I’m not an adult who’s been around kids enough to know what the care entails and that I definitely cannot do that. As if I don’t know my medical history and know that I’d rather suffer through that alone and not have someone depend on me and also possibly INHERIT it.

Why can’t they trust my judgement. And 10/10 times it’s someone who’d never help me if I did have a kid.