My workplace is my social life. Outside of that, crickets.

And I mean at work and only at work is where I mostly talk to people and have conversations. I’m not super open with coworkers, I would never talk about sex life or anything like that, it’s more like the equivalent to talking to someone on Reddit. Similar basic interests. Nothing too deep or personal.

I work 6 days a week and it’s exhausting. My one day off I’m usually having lunch with parents, go to the gym, and nothing else really.

I have one coworker who’s really bubbly and nice, love to talk to her at work, she even said bluntly that she would love for me to be apart of her social life outside of work…

I do appreciate that so much but I know who I am and I can be draining for others and I wouldn’t want that to be a burden for her because she needs someone to match her energy, I’m not that someone. I’ve laughed it off as a joke whenever she says it but she always insists.

It also doesn’t help that I constantly look for jobs outside of California, so everything around me feels temporary and I never feel actually settled.

Just a rant I guess.

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u/brattysweat — 7 hours ago

MMW: Mamdani will be the next Obama

Evidence:

They are hating him for his "far left" views.

They are hating him for his name.

They are hating him for his beautiful marriage.

He will skyrocket in popularity like Obama.

Date: He will have the same trajectory and eventually the presidency by mid 2030s

Edit: I posted this on my lunch break, I obviously didn't research that he was not born here haha

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u/brattysweat — 2 days ago

I need to pay an average of 3k a month towards multiple loans for a span of 10-12 months before the 0% apr ends…

My ace in the hole would be a balance transfer card that can give me 6 more months

I had my retirement contributions at 25% for the past few pay cycles and now I brought it all down to 5%

Working 6 days a week at 2 part time jobs.

I’ve been using vacation time at one job to pick up shifts at the other for a few months now

Wish me luck 😆🔫

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u/brattysweat — 14 days ago
▲ 142 r/SHINee

Controversial take but Key is a stronger performer when his hair is short 🫢

Key stans know that he really fusses over his hair even when dancing. I’ve noticed during many performances he would actually avoid sharper moves where it would move his hair too much which actually lessens his performance 😆

He is so prissy about his hair, and I just know he probably cried after damaging and having to cut it recently. But honestly it brings out the beast in him when on stage!

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u/brattysweat — 17 days ago

Proximity chat would be nice

It’s too easy to never have to talk or interact with anyone in GW2. If GW3 wants the new generation to experience an mmo made for their time, I think proximity chat would be an incredibly fitting feature.

I would find it absolutely hilarious to hear 80+ people wacking at a world boss and trying to talk all at once.

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u/brattysweat — 19 days ago

Anyone in SoCal would give up low rent for more space and privacy?

I'm at 850 a month in Orange County for a room, all utilities and internet covered, laundry, and a very nice shared bathroom with a tiled walkin shower. But the downside is that I am living with landlord and her husband and baby. Not much privacy so I just stay in my room.

Discretionary income is at 15k a year although I am aggressively putting away in retirement accounts, like 25% of income is going in retirement.

Should I give up like 5 or even 8% of that retirement to put more into a more private space?

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u/brattysweat — 28 days ago

This has to be silly right? I can’t stomach buying a car brand that people I absolutely hate owns

I will never touch a bmw, nissan, or lexus.

Car brands associated with people I despise. Like to the point if I ever saw them again, I’d end up on the news.

It sounds ridiculous but all it does is trigger me.

But Nissans are so dang cheap…

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u/brattysweat — 2 months ago

Am I caring too much for a rental?

I’m the type to treat these properties like my own home. I want my tenants to live safely and comfortably.

The vermiculite wasn’t a problem a year ago, so I can just get new insulation blown over it and call it a day right?

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u/brattysweat — 2 months ago

I work two jobs. Very stable schedule. I can take time off one job and use vacation to work the other job that same day and get paid double for a day essentially.

How often do you guys do this or is this a waste of vacation time?

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u/brattysweat — 2 months ago