u/chloedarlinggg

Jessi liked a video on IG that said Mikayla weaponises her childhood SA in order to bully Taylor. Also said she has no room to tell someone else with trauma how to feel because her husband is part of her trauma and she hasn’t healed from it.

Mikayla commented on a video about Jessi liking it and made a very valid point about how they’re doing exactly what she’s accused of.

Jessi is claiming she didn’t mean to like it but I’ve never seen her accidentally like a negative post about Taylor. I’ve never seen her like a negative post about any of the cast before this and I know she sees them because she comments on a lot of negative posts about herself.

Of course the whole “we’re filming, there’s things you don’t know” excuse comes out as usual.

Also weird to me that Jessi is responding to Mikayla’s Instagram comment by commenting on a TikTok about it. You’re filming, you have her number, you have mutual friends. If you don’t want to feed into the narrative why are you arguing with her under a gossip account’s post?

I love seeing her be more open and talk about her confidence growing. It’s great to hear about the positive things going on in her life because we all know how negative the show can be.

I also think her advice about relationships is important for us young people to remember. I’m guilty myself of wanting to find love from others when I didn’t have love for myself and that’s never a good position to put yourself in.

Hopefully we hear more like this from Layla. Maybe we’ll hear more about her new relationship once the season drops because id love to hear more about her experience dating a woman for the first time.

I don’t have many thoughts but no one has posted it without the man’s face so I thought I’d share today’s TT for you all.

I will say I don’t believe that most of the neighbourhood is riding on the road in a golf cart, kids in the back without any helmets, and giggling while they rush over speed bumps.

It was awful watching her go through it with her last pregnancy so I had hoped for her sake that she didn’t struggle in the same way this time round, unfortunately she says it’s even worse.

I just truly hope she has a support network and feels loved & needed.

I don’t want to blame her but I just really can’t believe they got pregnant again so soon (their daughter wasn’t even one when she announced this pregnancy) given all that she had to deal with.

Starts off by (sort of) explaining what's going on:

• Says there’s lots of false information and false headlines out there but it doesn’t affect her because it’s not true. Immediately after this she says “Some things are true”
• Says she doesn’t need to read the documents going around because it’s like the show, she lived it so however it’s perceived or whatever is said could be accurate/not, could be exaggerated/twisted
• This is a “much serious matter”
• Says things have been misconstrued and she’s taking that up with her attorneys. It will be handled in the courtroom not online.
• She tried to have it sealed from the beginning to protect the children not herself
• Says people who think she’s had no progress in the courtroom don’t understand that it’s a very slow process. She thinks she’s made the progress she’s been aiming for which is more time with her son (doesn't mention the fact that she's used less than half of that time)
• Says the timing of it being leaked is the first day of her having her son for five day (this is the longest consecutive period of parent time for Taylor since Dakota was granted emergency custody months ago) and the leaking of info is a very serious matter and is being looked into

Directly addressing the claims alleged in the DCFS report:

therapist's claims:

• She complains about the court approved therapist. She didn’t like Taylor going into her car for their virtual sessions, Taylor says that’s where she goes to escape the noise. 
• She doesn’t care if people believe her because this is “her truth”
• She reached out to the therapist for extra support while struggling and she said she would try fit her in next week. Taylor feels she should’ve been given immediate attention.
• The therapist once asked “why are you crying” which made her very uncomfortable
• The therapist told DCFS Taylor doesn’t take her mental health seriously. Taylor says that isn’t true because she’s “a huge advocate for mental health” and it offended her
• Mentions she has a certified therapist and a life coach they just didn’t have the EMDR training required by the courts

claims about the visits

• She never forced her daughter to change diapers she just lets her if she wants to help. Says “if that is bad on me then so be it”
• She’s frustrated to hear that she ha an “outburst” during another visit. Says she remembers being emotional and taking a step outside and thinks that would be the correct thing to de escalate by going outside to breathe. 
• She would never leave someone in her home unintended (guessing she means intentionally? But she left them there regardless) (ETA: as people have pointed out, she probably meant unattended)
• She would never ask someone to lock up her house when it locks up itself (I’m sure they still had to make sure the house was locked when they left, not something they should’ve had to do”

Added comments:

• Says she’s not trying to sway anyone she just gives the ugly and the pretty. She’s not claiming to be mother of the year. She has faults but has the right to defend herself.
• She is confident that if her kids were put up on the stand they’re choosing “mom and mom’s house” every time, her kids know she loves them.

How is this not a direct violation of the protective order? I thought they were ordered not to speak about each other at the last hearing.

It’s no surprise to me that she couldn’t resist commenting on this because we all saw how hard she was raging when she found out about Dakota and Shinia and it lasted for months.

That message isn’t doing what she wanted it to do because it’s literally about TAYLOR being overly invested and it’s obviously part of a larger conversation we can’t see. All I’m wondering is what Taylor said in that conversation.

Sounds like he might have a better chance at getting full custody if he getting custody through alternative routes, I just hope the kids really aren’t in any immediate danger.

I love this trend and they look cute and happy

She posted the other day that Jace really wanted to do this hike for his birthday that they’ve done before.

I think they all have great on screen chemistry and I bet the time they spend together in their free time has a lot to do with that.

I’m guessing it’s in New York? I don’t think they’ve said as people were asking in the comment but who knows. As always they seem super happy together.

I’m so nosy I wish we could get a house tour 😭 but I know that they both know way better than that (thankfully)

What mikayla is saying makes sense to me because why would your friends like the man who lied about sleeping with you? If she truly disagrees that kinda just confirms to me that she lied because it makes no sense.

Being treated like a queen only goes so far when the person is so obviously using you for clout. I genuinely hope Jessi is in on it because if she’s not it’s just sad. If she ever spends a good chunk of time being single I think she’ll come to regret this.

Mikayla and Chase both commented on this video and I’ll put them in the comments.

Like Layla I have a black father and a white mother but I was lucky enough to grow up in an area that’s very ethnically diverse (one of the most diverse areas in the UK actually) and I still struggled with my identity for a long time because it’s very difficult being different not only to those around you but to the people you see in the media.

I hope she can continue to chase her dreams and maybe be a role model in a way to younger girls because representation really does matter.

They Sent me water instead of ice cream and won’t give me a refund which is ridiculous but they also won’t explain what policy makes it ineligible despite me REPEATEDLY asking. I only ordered because my friend and I wanted ice cream.