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1 month ago (1-4) and today (5-9). tail tip (1 cm) fell off 2 weeks ago
2 year old rock iguana.
1 month ago (pics 1-4) the tip of her tail looked dead. I posted it here and many people told me it was already healed, including my reptile keeper girlfriend.
2 weeks ago, the “dead” tip (1 cm) fell off. This is what it’s looked like ever since
I’m guessing it was just dead and uninfected tissue that fell off naturally. We saw it slowly fall off over the course of 4-5 days. After it fell off it looked like this.
My girlfriend’s theory is that they closed the enclosure glass on her tail in the pet store, because there’s a damaged segment near the tip, so the circulation is cut off and the tissue died. Which means it isn’t tail rot?
I just wanted to see what some more experienced keepers think about it
I am not asking for a diagnosis. I am just asking if people have seen it before and if it’s normal.
Fashion advice?
I included a variety of the ways that I like to dress. Anything other than a t shirt is me dressing up lol.
Not sure what I want to go for but I’m open to any ideas for improving my dress
He/they, more comfortable dressing masc, but wanting to explore fem
Mis errores comunes y como corregirlos - dame consejos!
Primera lengua: inglés
He practicado mi español en mi nota; escribo una historia o una idea en las mas oraciones que puedo, y corregirlas con Chat GPT.
Chat GPT dije que mis errores comunes son:
• verb conjugation en el pasado y el futuro
• pretérito y imperfecto
• artículos como la/le/de
• expresiones naturales (he visto videos de Dreaming Spanish y YouTube por eso)
Sé que si yo practico más, los problemas pueden resolver. Pero necesito ayuda más específica que Chat GPT. Hablo con hispanohablantes en mi trabajo a veces, y ellos pueden entenderme, pero dicen que me uso algunos palabras incorrectas.
¿Hay algo que puedo hacer para mis errores? Escribí esto post con solo mi mente entonces te puedes ver a mi nivel de español. Creo que mi nivel es alto A2 a temprano B1.
Muscle stiffness help?
Hey all, I 22X have been diagnosed with fibro for two years and was diagnosed with AMPS at 12 years old. I have been disabled by fibro my entire life. Im so sick of being a victim to this. I want to be able to be somewhat normal.
These days it’s hard for me to walk on flat ground. If I sit for more than an hour my muscles get extremely stiff.
The muscle stiffness and soreness is what gets me the most.
I’m waiting to get into a rheumatologist. For now I just get leg massages from my gf.
Anything I can do to help the muscle stiffness?
Fem fashion and confidence with saggy deflated T boobs?
I’m a little thick, and have been blessed with large breasts, but gaining weight and being on T has made my boobs very saggy and long.
I want to wear more revealing fem clothes other than my usual t shirts and jeans. I’m kind of rediscovering my femininity after finally feeling comfortable in my body. I’m actually crocheting a bralette tank top for myself right now. I haven’t owned fem clothes in years.
Having boobs doesn’t give me dysphoria, I just don’t like how gross mine are. They’re deflated bags of flesh on me. How can I be proud of that? It makes me much less motivated to show my body at all. But I’m tired of wearing baggy shirts and covering up. I want to be myself proudly no matter how I look.
Idk, this post is very unorganized, I hope someone gets what I’m trying to convey
Btw I’m on the waitlist for a breast reduction
TLDR I don’t like my big saggy boobs, what are some things I can wear to help, and how do I change my mindset on them?
Where i started vs where i ended… 11 mm, swipe for naked
Started stretching at 20g in November 2023. Been at 11 mm for a year now and I think it’s just the right size
Put a shark in my conch and it looks SO good!
I’m so in love with how well the shark fits in my conch. I’ve had it pierced for about 3 years and never thought to put something bigger than a 3 mm stud in it. The bigger jewelry fits amazingly!
The plugs are so beautiful
Not sure about the spiderweb, might buy a new piece this matches the shark, like a fish hook or something else ocean themed
So happy I’m being myself
I love the way I look. Brown curly fringe. Sick piercings. Alt clothes. This is who I dreamed of being 5 years ago
Advice needed: snake too minimalist for my style. How to talk to the artist for another session?
TLDR: I love the base but it’s too minimalist and needs more detail, what do I tell the artist to do to it?
Mark McCormick in Astoria, OR
His line work and coloring are great, and he used the reference I gave him, but I was hoping for him to add his own twist or something and add more detail. This was my first time going to a real tattoo shop so I didn’t really know what to ask for other than just show him the picture.
We did a second tattoo during this session and it came out fantastic with great shading and he added extra detail to the tattoo other than the stencil’s outline. I expected him to do the same with this snake, but he just colored it in and left it, I didn’t push further because the session had already been 2 hours and was over.
He made the lines shaky on purpose, thats what the stencil looked like, and I’m fine with the organic look of the lines.
My problem is it’s too minimalist. This was the only green color he had other than grass green. It’s so plain, it’s about 4” and there’s absolutely no detail or shading.
I want to go back to the same artist and ask him to add detail but I realize now that I need to give him more direction.
What language should I add to my portfolio for work and travel purposes?
The FAQ page with “what language should I learn” is disabled.
I want to move to Europe someday and plan on visiting many countries there.
I’m B1 in Spanish and I use it every day at work. I plan to continue to improve until I reach C1.
I used to be high A1 in German (TL) but I stopped using it and I’ve forgotten a lot of it. I can easily pick the basics back up. It’s also useful in Central Europe since multiple countries speak it.
I’m low A1 in Dutch, Vietnamese, Japanese, and Portuguese. I want to commit to something and stop language hopping.
I am in the marine biology field. If I had to choose right now where I’d move to, it would be Spain, Italy, or the Netherlands.
I want to learn the most optimal language next.
Iguana became picky… help?
Juvenile lewisi rock iguana, following vets care instructions to a T.
She used to (4-6 months ago) eat so much food when I first got her. Like anytime she saw food she would get super excited. She always wanted to eat more.
Recently (past month) she’s started slowing down her eating. She doesn’t finish all her food. She doesn’t seem hungry and I leave greens out all the time for her but she ignores them. No signs of stress, she is normal otherwise and is free range (room is kept warm) and has lots to do and climb on. Seems healthy overall.
I just moved and had to switch from her usual organic Asian farmers market greens to regular collards and mustard greens. I recently was able to find some dandelion greens as well. Maybe she’s just picky about changing her diet? She used to eat collards all the time before I found the farmers market. I know collards are kind of bitter so maybe she’s doesn’t like going back to them once she had the good stuff.
I’m worried about her getting underweight with how active she is and how little she’s eating. She eats about 1/2 cup of salad a day, sometimes 1 cup, so it’s not like she’s dying but I am concerned about her behavior change. She used to be a little overweight and she’s a healthy weight now, but I don’t want her to start getting too skinny.
My girlfriend says she’s probably just maturing and doesn’t need as much food.
What to add to my setup (swipe for R)
Current setup is too minimal. Going for a masc/alt look. Want to add 3-4 per ear. I like some symmetry but not perfect symmetry.
Planning on changing the daith jewelry to something slightly chunkier and more masc. I have other stretched jewelry that I wear out but the skins are my dailies. I adore the small Huggies in my second lobes.
Current ideas:
• One stacked lobe above the small hoops with small opals or colored gems (L&R)
• A conch below the first one, with hoops in both once healed (R).
• Low helix (1-3) working up the rim of my ear, unsure about placement or quantity, I don’t know how good a stack would look on my ears (L&R).
• Double helix with small hoops once healed (L or R, help me choose).
• Stretch further, unsure about goal size (current 11 mm) (14-16 mm goal?).
I don’t want:
Tragus, forward helix, another daith, rook, hidden helix. Personal preference or have had them before and they didn’t work out.
I love helping other people with their setups. I want everyone’s ideas and opinions!
Any good surgeons in PNW for big boobs?
I have very saggy, flat, DD cups. Been on T for a year and they’re just getting more deflated as time goes on. I have a lot of underarm fat that I want removed too. I’m unsure if I want nipple grafts or tattoos.
I live in Oregon and I’m looking for a good surgeon nearby that does good on large breasts.
Injury from pet store - how to fix?
Damaged segment ~2 in from tail tip, skin damage at tip
Her stats: basking 120-125°, cool side 85-90°, house 75° (optional free range 4-8 hours a day, basks every hour),UVB 10.0 bar light, UVA 2x 150W halogen bulbs, humidity 60-80%, diet collard greens, mustard greens, zucchini, yellow squash, cucumber, treats apple, blueberries, raspberries, daily supplements Reptivite without D3, calcium with D3
We got her (2ish year old Lewisi rock iguana) in January from a pet store and her tail looked like this when we got her. It hadn’t gotten worse or anything, it just hasn’t gotten better. Is there anything we can do to keep this from getting infected? Can it heal on its own, or is it as healed as it’s going to get? Precautions?
Best insurance for FtM trans young adult?
I take 7 pills a day, one of which is $1200 a month out of pocket.
I make too much money to qualify for OHP.
I want a plan that covers some or all of top surgery. Best case scenario, they also cover FMS.
Clearly I need something low-deductible. I’m thinking Providence Silver or Regence Silver
Any thoughts?
Good lesbian spaces in Portland?
My girlfriend and I are moving to Astoria and want to spend our days off in Portland for fun. We’re both queer lesbians and would like to know if there are any LGBTQ spaces dedicated to lesbians, like a lesbian club/bar. Other queer spaces you can recommend works too.
We’re both from Utah, so we’re excited to come to a place where being queer is more accepted. She is 20 and I’m 21, so if you have any recs for queer spaces that are age inclusive, let me know!
I think I’m a agender butch lesbian
Hey everyone, I’ve identified as non-binary since I was 15. I’ve been on T for a year and I’m loving the changes and intend on transitioning most of the way male.
The label I identify most with is agender/transmasc.
I’ve seen a lot of hate on he/him lesbians. I use he/they and don’t identify as a man. I definitely prefer women, if not only like women. I identify with butch lesbianism, I’ve done research on the history and butch lesbianism does include transmascs from what I can tell.
TLDR I’m not a man but I use he/they and I feel like a agender butch lesbian