u/flanker_123

Which colleges in Mumbai Pune can I get
If preferably opt for govt colleges!
Please list some with cutoffs and if possible spot is feasible too!

Me currently 163 cm M am wanting to increase height by atleast 8-10 cm
I’m in my 19s so can anybody suggest what can I do for it?!?!

I have currently joined a gym for physical activity (I do hanging for 15 sec 3 times)
Also am joining swimming membership soon

Please suggest what I’m missing up on guys!!!

So I’m going to chor bazar early morning from grant road stn
What all should I take care about nd what all should I avoid

What all should I definitely look upon and further any other advices are welcomed

Years ago, I was in a relationship with a close friend, whom I had known for three years. It was a mutual, consensual, and happy relationship, but it ended abruptly and traumatizingly. Her father discovered our messages and didn't just tell us to stop—he called me for a face-to-face meeting and threatened to file a police complaint if I ever contacted her again.

As a young guy, being threatened with legal action for a consensual relationship was surreal and terrifying. We were forced apart not because we stopped caring, but because of genuine fear.

The Aftermath & The Pact-
At the time, we managed to get one last message through a mutual friend. The sentiment was that we’d try to find our way back to each other once we were older and finished with high school. The response I got from her back then was full of regret and helplessness. It felt like we were both just waiting for the clock to run out so we could be free.

The Current Conflict-
Recently, I finally tried to send a message to see if she was okay or if she wanted to reconnect, now that the "high school" era is long over. I used a secondary account to be discreet and avoid causing her any trouble with her family.
However, I’ve received no response. Since she knows my main social media handles, I’m struggling with the silence. My mind is stuck in a loop: Is she still being monitored? Is she still afraid of her father's past threats? Or has she simply moved on and forgotten the promise we made when things were falling apart?
I’m not looking to "hunt her down" or force a connection. I’m just spiraling because this sudden memory has resurfaced, and I don't know how to interpret the silence.

My Question:
For those who have dealt with "forced" endings or family interference involving threats: how do you distinguish between "she’s still scared" and "she’s just not interested anymore"? How do you move on when you never actually got to say goodbye?

TL;DR: My past relationship was ended by her father’s threat of a police report. We had a plan to reconnect years later, but my recent attempt at contact has been met with silence. I'm struggling to find closure.

My friend F who was w me since 3 yrs in school, later on we mutually developed love for each other and had relationship for a few months

How this ended- her chats were seen by her dad and we knew we fucked up. That day I didn’t even thought that it’d end like this!
There was a call to me and was asked to come and meet. Asked to stay away hence or would file a complaint, like what, really!!??? For what - we both being in rs by our own consent?

That was most fucked up part cuz I didn’t know hence how to start it again or should I even start or not!

Hence I contacted via a common friend that we after completing high school would try coming together again! And even that reached her successfully!
In return there was a heavy voice of regret and helplessness! I was broken but it was only option!

Hence I did contact her by a different ig id like I promised earlier… but yk that maybe didn’t mean much to her or maybe if what she thought and what exactly was on her mind!
I kept a me away but even she knew my original ig-
So hence if she even wanted to contact she would have done it then?

Or might be even she be thinking that I’m under surveillance!?
I’m confused and dk why this struck suddenly outta nowhere in my head!?

Hey there! I’m a 19-year-old guy from Mumbai, currently navigating the world of BTech while keeping my eyes on the ultimate prize: a career in the Armed Forces.
I’m a former NCC cadet (C-certificate holder) and have a few SSB attempts under my belt.
That experience has shaped me into someone who values discipline, physical fitness, and a "never back down" attitude.

I’m 5’5, keep myself in decent shape through regular exercise, and I usually switch between a bearded look or a clean-shaven one (with the mustache staying, of course).
someone passionate, honest, and supportive.

I want a partnership where we push each other to be our best versions.
I’m looking for someone who values real conversations over small talk.

If you’re looking for a guy who is grounded but ambitious, let’s chat.