19M, wanna connect w a F friend

Hey everyone!

I'm looking to connect with a girl someone with whom I can share my day-to-day moments with and, more importantly, be there to listen to yours.

Ideally, I’d love to find someone to spend some quality time with if we vibe well. No heavy pressure or expectations right off it, just looking for good conversation and a solid connection.

Drop me a DM if you’re open to chatting!

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u/flanker_123 — 2 days ago

19M looking forward to connect w a F friend

Hey everyone!

I'm looking to connect with a girl someone with whom I can share my day-to-day moments with and, more importantly, be there to listen to yours.

Ideally, I’d love to find someone to spend some quality time with (btw Mumbai guy here) if we vibe well. No heavy pressure or expectations right off it, just looking for good conversation and a solid connection.

Drop me a DM if you’re open to chatting!

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u/flanker_123 — 3 days ago

Learn new language

Hello so I am going to take admission in FE in Mumbai

I am now free for next 2-2.5 months so am planning to join a course to learn new language

What all options do I have in Borivali area for this? And if possible pls mention fees and duration too!

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u/flanker_123 — 4 days ago

Study Material Help

Hi everyone… I am currently preparing for the CDSE and am looking to acquire comprehensive study notes and reference materials.

I prefer using physical notes over YouTube-based study methods….

If you have any updated materials you are willing to share or sell, please reach out… I am based in Mumbai and am happy to travel to a nearby location to collect them.

Please DM me with details and your expected price.

Thanks!!

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u/flanker_123 — 5 days ago

Dicey zone what to do

Slightly below the req of govt clgs Mumbai,Pune

Interested in ENTC,EE or if top govt college even Mech is fine
Suggestions welcomed

u/flanker_123 — 16 days ago

Missed connection

I was at the public pool at Dahisar last evening. A girl and I had some, rather quite frequently eye contacts during we were at the edge of pool. I caught you staring a few times from my peripheral vision, and we kept locking eyes at the pool. I wanted to start a conversation, but I got froze up and missed the window.

Since the pool is down for some time hence, I’m posting this on the off-chance you're on here. If you're that girl and you remember the guy who kept looking at you, send me a DM.

(Please include one specific detail about what happened or what we were wearing so I know it's actually you!)

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u/flanker_123 — 18 days ago

Missed connection

**I was at the public pool at Dahisar last evening. A girl and I had some, rather quite frequently eye contacts during we were at the edge of pool. I caught you staring a few times from my peripheral vision, and we kept locking eyes at the pool. I wanted to start a conversation, but I got froze up and missed the window.**

**Since the pool is down for some time hence, I’m posting this on the off-chance you're on here. If you're that girl and you remember the guy who kept looking at you, send me a DM.**

**(Please include one specific detail about what happened or what we were wearing so I know it's actually you!)**

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u/flanker_123 — 18 days ago

Dating app suggestions

Finding someone as i am not that good to speak directly to a girl for rs stuff
Or else any ideas are appreciated
Currently 19y M fy engg Bom

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u/flanker_123 — 19 days ago

Share goods and bads of engg colleges you know MEGATHREAD

Tell good and bad things of colleges you know from all over Maharashtra so that aspirants understand it solely

Seniors may help🙏🏼

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u/flanker_123 — 19 days ago

General category

I drafted this for gopens of 2025 who are interested in core and govt colleges
Took official data from cetcell

u/flanker_123 — 19 days ago
▲ 3 r/MHTCETard+1 crossposts

Accommodation guidance

I got 98 in cet and have shortlisted some clg

  1. Coep - EE or Mech
  2. Vjti- EE or Mech
    3.Spce- EE
    I’m in confusion that if I get admission in any of these will I get hostel or not

If not then please suggest other better options
Also suggest travel

I stay in Mumbai suburbs

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u/flanker_123 — 20 days ago
▲ 4 r/MHTCETard+1 crossposts

I’m in confusion advice required!

Got 111 marks in MHT-CET and hoping for 96+ %ile
But I want to do justice to my marks and secure a good college in Mumbai or Pune

As per my friend opinion- thadomal (extc) and spce (electrical) are options cuz I wanna do BTech in electrical or entc
If I get spce I may even accept mechanical

I want more opinions and colleges that I’d get on this much marks and even advice me if my approach for these 2 clg is good or not!

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u/flanker_123 — 2 months ago
▲ 2 r/MHTCETard+1 crossposts

Mhtcet Apr ‘26 - 20s2 - 110

Which colleges in Mumbai Pune can I get
If preferably opt for govt colleges!
Please list some with cutoffs and if possible spot is feasible too!

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u/flanker_123 — 2 months ago
▲ 5 r/entirebodyexercise+4 crossposts

Needing advice to increase height

Me currently 163 cm M am wanting to increase height by atleast 8-10 cm
I’m in my 19s so can anybody suggest what can I do for it?!?!

I have currently joined a gym for physical activity (I do hanging for 15 sec 3 times)
Also am joining swimming membership soon

Please suggest what I’m missing up on guys!!!

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u/flanker_123 — 2 months ago
▲ 2 r/mumbaisocial+1 crossposts

Heylo, want tips for chor bazar

So I’m going to chor bazar early morning from grant road stn
What all should I take care about nd what all should I avoid

What all should I definitely look upon and further any other advices are welcomed

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u/flanker_123 — 2 months ago

Years later, I’m wondering if the silence is my answer

Years ago, I was in a relationship with a close friend, whom I had known for three years. It was a mutual, consensual, and happy relationship, but it ended abruptly and traumatizingly. Her father discovered our messages and didn't just tell us to stop—he called me for a face-to-face meeting and threatened to file a police complaint if I ever contacted her again.

As a young guy, being threatened with legal action for a consensual relationship was surreal and terrifying. We were forced apart not because we stopped caring, but because of genuine fear.

The Aftermath & The Pact-
At the time, we managed to get one last message through a mutual friend. The sentiment was that we’d try to find our way back to each other once we were older and finished with high school. The response I got from her back then was full of regret and helplessness. It felt like we were both just waiting for the clock to run out so we could be free.

The Current Conflict-
Recently, I finally tried to send a message to see if she was okay or if she wanted to reconnect, now that the "high school" era is long over. I used a secondary account to be discreet and avoid causing her any trouble with her family.
However, I’ve received no response. Since she knows my main social media handles, I’m struggling with the silence. My mind is stuck in a loop: Is she still being monitored? Is she still afraid of her father's past threats? Or has she simply moved on and forgotten the promise we made when things were falling apart?
I’m not looking to "hunt her down" or force a connection. I’m just spiraling because this sudden memory has resurfaced, and I don't know how to interpret the silence.

My Question:
For those who have dealt with "forced" endings or family interference involving threats: how do you distinguish between "she’s still scared" and "she’s just not interested anymore"? How do you move on when you never actually got to say goodbye?

TL;DR: My past relationship was ended by her father’s threat of a police report. We had a plan to reconnect years later, but my recent attempt at contact has been met with silence. I'm struggling to find closure.

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u/flanker_123 — 2 months ago