u/ghacharghochar1

I am looking to hire a tutor who can come home everyday and sit with my kids. They can study and also help teach in between. 2hours a day for 5 days a week. I'm thinking of paying 6k. Your role is to just make them sit with you to enjoy the habit of sitting in a place and write homework or indulge in some light reading for 2 hours.

Any other suggestions are welcome. And if your goal is to criticize/judge, please be a parent of 2 kids, working, managing a household, taking care of parents, cooking when cook is not available which is twice a week on working days, and plenty of other things that a parent does. Thank you.

I have older children. They're 11 and 7. Today we went out with family for dinner. Their cousin who is 9 joined us as well. My sil and I have collectively decided that henceforth no more dinner outings with kids.

First both the younger ones started running around the restaurant. They refused to listen and were just wholesomely disruptive by running and playing around. My elder son started complaining from the minute we sat down about everything and then proceeded to remove his hands from sleeves and put it inside his t-shirt. Then he was surly throughout. My younger son and his cousin were fighting over salt, they poured salt in all our drinking water and fought over food and kept shouting.

The service on Saturday evening was very slow and so the time between the orders were delayed which led to my mom passing comments over how I'm always scolding my kids.

I lost it at that point. I wanted to get out and take a rickshaw back home to go to sleep, but I held on. The kids all ate like mice nibbling on food and said we are done and complained that they were hungry on our way back home. I argued so much, it was a losing battle. The argument leads to only frustration cause they end up crying and complain that I'm scolding all the time.

So the point I'm trying to make is, enjoy the baby period.

Im in the meh mood. I wanted to watch odyssey. And none of my friends matched my timing, and I was not in a hurry to watch it. Wanted to sit in a good seat and have better movie watching experience. Asked husband to come with me, he said, "naah ill pass". So I woke up this morning, called my mom and asked if she is upto watching it, she said no and then she said yes.

So im going for odyssey with my mom. She is 65, Im 38. Its a movie date. I dont have to share my snacks cause ill get her her share. And I dont have to worry about leaning on my left cause I occupy the armrests a lot.

Thats all. I havent gone to the movies with her in a long time. She just got her cataracts done in May and has been homebound since. I think she is excited. I am more excited that I get to see Matt Damon.

Why?

My impulsiveness was the reason how we met. But I did not deserve what happened to me.

Why would you think that what you did was okay? You're a grown adult. Sane, misogynist, every other man. I expected basic kindness and decency.

Did you fashion yourself as some romantic hero swooping in to save damsel from herself? I hope you suffer the consequences of your action the way I did. I hate you with every last ounce of my breathe.

Hi, does anyone know if LePondy has a good spa??

Editing to add: I wonder if people never make mistakes or even believe others naively ever? Everyone is ready to jump into the bandwagon and laugh at someone just cause they showed a semblance of vulnerability and believed someone. The post and the question was to ask why people think it's okay to ask money and never give back but the lesson I'm taking away from this is, people will scam and they'll laugh that you got scammed.

Rapido guy said something along the lines of ID block and he wants some 100bucks and he will gpay the same back once ID is working.

I'm super pissed off as he hasn't sent it back still. It's not about 100bucks. But it's the attitude that they can ask a random stranger for money and take advantage of their kindness. He is making it seem as if I'm the villain for asking him back for the money.

I sent him this message, "Just because I seem to be living somewhere doesn't mean I hand out 100bucks to every stranger who asks for it, send it back or I'll have to raise a complaint on rapido"

Why do they think it's okay to ask for money and not give it back? A person who works near here who I keep seeing everyday asked me for 500bucks. I thought he was asking for a loan and will pay back, but he hasn't once spoken about the money.

I am frustrated with people thinking it's okay to do this. I work 8 plus hours a day some days hustling hard to make that money.

Same as the above. Some nice place where I can spend 4 hours?