u/iamaprolol

Hi everyone, I know it sounds very weird. It has been 3 days, I hate my program. It is very far, I didn't realize because I moved to a different state where public transport sucks. Some of the other grads unfortunately. They don't even want to acknowledge my presence. I feel very unwelcomed especially during group activities.or something. I just want to know if this gets better? Has anyone ever been in this condition?

I travel 1.5 hours one way. How do you cope with this?

Hi everyone. No pervs please.

I have acne scars on my forehead. Like a lot. But it is generally not that visible unless you look close or there is certain lighting. I feel super insecure about it. Also my body has a lot of stretch marks, discoloration, keratosis pillaris and I have some scarring on my legs from childhood. I do plan on getting it looked at professionally. I have brown skin btw. I was overweight now I am actively losing weight. I don't know if I will even find someone lol.

I want to get a chemical peel for my scars on forehead but I am not sure if it is right for me. Anyone who has gotten a chemical peel as a brown girl did it work? Any tips for stretch marks. I am already moisturizing and considering microneedling. I am 27 for context.

I am planning to move out by myself and live alone for now. Marriage is something I am not interested in. I have no friends. I lived alone by myself for 2 years and it was fine. But this is permanent so I am not sure. Any girlies who live by themselves. Any regrets or anything that changed your perspective of life? How is it going ? Doe sit get lonely and boring?

I will be very honest here. No pervs please.

I have been searching for marriage since 6 years. Everything under the sky I have tried it.

In my home country I was rejected for my hijab and skin color. I moved to the west I don't get anyone who is serious. Everyone wants casual stuff. Also for many I don't feel any attraction whatsoever. If everything goes well, my parents don't agree for some demographics, I know. It is getting harder for me every single day because I am getting approached my non Muslim men all the time. Some of them are committed 🤢.

I try to not let it get to me but I cannot help but feel gross. I am a Muslim and I would never indulge in anything like that but their audacity makes me feel like I did something wrong. I am a hijabi and modest. I know some people will comment about f*tishes which I agree. but this is too many people lol. I have no support whatsoever, financially yes but not in other aspects. I would rather want to live alone now.

I also see so many single women and men, divorcees at young age. I wonder what went wrong. Also how do I cope with people like that? I feel sick.

Assalamualaikum everyone. I am going to one joke of gym. There is this man who constantly stares at me, tries to get close to me and so on. I have avoided every single one of his advances. He has a gf who goes to the same gym. They used to come together then he suddenly stopped bringing her at times when I go to the gym. I ignored it. Recently however his gf did come to the gym. Last 2 times I saw her she has tried to intimidate me or looks at me like I ruined her life. I have not done anything. She is besties with gym staff and now they all look at me like I am a monster. I come here with my brother. I wear hijab and everything. There is no women only gyms either. I am planning on going to another location soon which will be 10 times harder for me as I have no car but I cannot take it anymore. I feel sick, gross and disturbed. I didn't even do anything. I don't even feel like working out. Just wanted to rant. I legit wanted to make friends and socialize, but now I don't even want to talk to anyone. Thank you.

Assalamalaikum everyone, here is my profile:

Age: 27

Gender: Female

height: 5 feet 5 inches

Location: Australia (city will be disclosed later)

Ethnicity (optional): Southeast Asian (Indian)

Marital status: Single never married

Religious practice level: Religious, I wear hijab and abaya, I do plan on wearing the niqab. I pray 5 times a day, on my journey to memorise the Quran also learn and understand what is says. Insha Allah I want to focus on centering my life around the Quran.

Education/Profession: I work as a registered Nurse. I have completed my bachelors in life sciences and Masters in Nursing.

What I am seeking in a spouse:

Age: Max 35 (Negotiable)

Location: Australia, I will not relocate. Preferably Melbourne and Brisbane only.

Ethnicity (optional): Any

Marital status: Single, never married and I am not open to polygamy

Religious practice level: Should do the obligatory and I am open to reverts.

Education/Profession: Any. As long as he is ambitious and strives to make his living in a halal way. I will work after marriage (I am happy to discuss this)

NON-NEGOTIABLES:

1. Must have empathy, kindness and understanding towards me.
2. Not consume red pill or misogynistic content.
3. Not speak poorly about other people, whether men or women, online or offline. Should be able to handle disagreements in a respectful manner. Keyboard warriors I am looking at you.
4. Hygiene and self care.

JazakAllah khair. May Allah make our searches easy. Aameen.

I have an informal morning tea at my workplace where I will start work soon. What do I wear? Thank you.

Assalamualaikum everyone, I want to attend a padwork boxing class in my gym with my brother. It has 2 male students and a coach also a man. It is usually done in pairs. I want to be paired with my brother obviously. The pad work consists of one person holding the pads and another one punching those pads. There is no physical touch. I am concerned that the coach might rotate us and pair us with others, I plan on asking him and talking to him about it. How do I approach this? What if he doesn't agree? JazakAllah khair.

Ps there is no women only facilities anywhere I live I also gave up swimming because of this.

I am 27 F. I achieved quite a bit academically and achieved a residency of another country. I am a nurse now and I am starting work soon.

However I feel some aspects of my life are not great:

1. I want to lose weight I have been trying for a long time but I gain it all back. However, I am looking into personal training.

2. I don't have any savings. I start work in Aug

3. I suck at social skills and I never really had friends. I want to talk to people at my gym but I am so scared. I am planning on exposure therapy.

I feel like at 27 I am so late at many things. I never had a partner either. Please let me know how you changed things. Thank you.

Hi everyone, I am 27 F and I have really bad anxiety when interacting with people. When I am at work it is easier, however, when I go to other places I am so scared. I don't want that. I cannot even make eye contact. I think this stems from bullying and a lot of degradation I had to face when I was younger. I moved to a different country but I am still scared, I will be judged or mocked.

I want to interact more socially. I am going to start trying to be more friendly and approachable but I feel not normal sometimes.

I am 27 and have been an introvert all my life. I don't interact much with the opposite gender as in the past my approachability has been misinterpreted. Now I am concerned I am not social enough after moving to a new country. People assume me and my brother are a couple which really bothers me and I want to clear the air. I have trouble with making eye contact and I feel shy and intimidated by both men and women. How do I approach people and make friends? Has anyone had similar experience? Thank you.

Hi everyone. I and my sibling are pr holders here. I want to bring my parents here as they are old and I want them to stay with us as it is not very safe in our home country.

Someone gave me an option of having them here on tourist visa and then applying for 804 so they get a bridging visa.

Has anyone applied for it? any good migration agents that can help me with this?

Hi everyone,

Got my 189 pr granted by the mercy of God.

Occupation - rn nec (onshore)

Points - 80

Eoi submitted - Dec 20 2025

Invited - June 4 2026

Lodged - June 6 2026

Granted - July 20 2026

I had to upload my overseas pcc on July 16.

Thank you to everyone who answered my questions. I wish you all the best to those waiting.

I am happy to answer any questions regarding what I did.

Good luck!

I am 27. I reached one of the biggest milestones in my life. I moved to another country and got my residency Alhamdulillah. Allah swt helped me all the way.

I moved away from my family, lived alone for 2 years and that was the best time of my life. My brother also lives in same country so my parents forced me to move with him. I am miserable. Since I got my residency yesterday, I was very happy. However my brother was extremely rude to me because apparently he didn't have enough sleep? I don't have friends either since I moved here and I don't know anyone. I feel like every situation in my life I navigated alone whether it was happy or sad.

I just want to live alone. I don't even want to get married now because I don't want to have to emotionally bear another person again. I know moving out will cause problems.

I don't know how to get over this feeling. I was happy but now I am literally sobbing.

Assalamualaikum girlies. I currently reside in Brisbane Australia. I am new here and I am looking for a muslimah to be friends with. Any girlies from here?

JazakAllah khair.

Hi everyone, I have applied for Indian pcc in early june. My police station has received my details but they are yet to verify. The vfs services have been suspended. I want to know,

1. If this will affect me getting pcc? I have given my passport too.

2. Can I upload my old pcc from 2023? It was for education purposes but I have not been back to India since then.

If anyone has been in a similar situation please let me know. Thank you.

Assalamualaikum girlies. I was approached by the man of my dreams. He was everything I wanted except he was not a Muslim. So I never interacted with him or took anything forward with the fear of something haram happening. However, some days I feel like maybe if I reciprocated something halal would have come from it? I know it is a long shot and that if something is written for me it will not miss me. I just want to know how to deal with these feelings. Provide me with reassurance or words from Quran.

Ps. If you are a man please don't DM me. Thank you.

Hi everyone, I graduated in Melbourne. I moved to Brisbane and got a private offer for grad program. Is it possible that I can move back to Melbourne after 6 months of it and get a job? How is the job scenario there? I really want to move to Melbourne as my living situation here has drastically impacted my mental health.

Hi girlies. I am turning 27 tmrw. Yayyyy!!! I am not married yet despite my efforts. I see a lot of girls attaching their value to marriage here and hence wanted to make this post.

I am so happy and grateful to Allah swt for seeing 27 in full health, peace and safety. I am happy that I am still a Muslim and I am able to worship Allah swt. I have come a long way in last 3 years. Yes I am not married and sometimes it feels like a void but I trust Allah and His plans and enjoy what I have now because marriage also comes with its own challenges and maybe I am not ready for it. May Allah grant everyone good health, independence and imaan. Aameen.

Hi girlie pops. Assalamualaikum. I am a hijabi and I live in a place where there are not any Muslims. I have always been treated with respect and never felt racism. However, I am having trouble fitting in. Like I don't feel like I belong and I know this is internal but I avoid talking to people sometimes because I feel I will be judged by them or I am being an inconvenience. I am trying to step up and be a bit more social but I still feel anxious and over think everything. Has anyone been through this? What do I do to get better?

For context I am a nurse but at my job I am very social because I need to be. However outside I just cannot. No like I want to but I feel like I will be rejected and stuff.