u/jkastoras

Question: Do ugly women not travel abroad?

Im vibing in the national park of Athens, Greece. There are many foreign tourists, and like, most of the women are stunning, beautiful or good looking. A few of them are average. But almost noone is less than average.

Where are the ugly women?

I switch the TV on. First channel I bump into plays a reality show called first dates.

First woman that enters the restaurant, she's asked which type of man she's into. Her answer: not short, not very tall.

The second woman answers: I want him to be tall and have broad shoulders, to feel that he's a "real man"

🤡

I thanked the pop culture for reminding me I'm sexually undesirable by the society and switched the TV off

Σκεφτόμουν οτι οι Κύπριοι έχουν δυο ταυτότητες. Η μια ειναι η Κυπριακή, και η άλλη η ελληνοκυπριακή.

"Κυπριακή" είναι η επίσημη, ορατή, νομικά κατοχυρωμένη πολιτειακή ταυτότητα. Είναι αυτή που εμφανίζεται στις ταυτότητες, στα διαβατήρια, στις απογραφές κλπ.

"Ελληνοκυπριακή", απο οτι έχω καταλάβει, είναι η "εθνοτική" ταυτότητα ΚΑΠΟΙΩΝ μόνο Κυπρίων. Είναι πιο ανεπίσημη, και σχετίζεται περισσότερο με τη συνείδηση, τη παράδοση, τη καταγωγή κλπ. Δεν είναι τόσο νομικά ορατή. Είναι περισσότερο συναίσθημα παρά νόμος.

Ερώτηση: αν ενας άνθρωπος γεννηθεί στη Κύπρο απο πχ Ρώσους, Σουδανους ή Τούρκους γονείς είναι 100% Κύπριος. Έχει λαβει τη Κυπριακή παιδεία, έχει την Κυπριακή ταυτότητα, εχει υπηρετήσει τον κυπριακό στρατό. Είναι όμως και Ελληνοκύπριος? Ή ειναι απλά ενας "Κύπριος Ρωσικής καταγωγής?" Γιατί σε αυτη τη περίπτωση, η εθνότητα αυτου του ανθρώπου ειναι η ρωσική, όχι η ελληνική (ωστε να θεωρηθεί Ελληνοκύπριος)

Μπορεί λοιπόν μια πολυπολιτισμική Κύπρος οπου οι Ελληνοκύπριοι είναι μόνο ενα 50%-60% να θεωρηθεί μια "Ελληνοκυπριακή" κοινωνία?

ΥΓ: Το AskCyprus είναι άδειο μάγκες. Οπότε το AskGreece είναι το καλύτερο sub για αυτη την ερώτηση... νομίζω.

So it's that fat balding socially awkward virgin dude who works for his mom's diner in some dead end American rural place.

Then mom hires a stunning college dropout (why she has to be so beautiful? It's unrealistic). He falls for her. She is in a relationship with a charming guitarist though.

He also binge eat and has some hallucinations or something.

Yeah, a good 1:45h long cope

Και αυτό που δεν μου αρέσει ειναι η παγίωση της εικόνας του ΠΙΘΑΝΟΥ θανάτου δύο ανθρώπων, οι συγγενείς των οποίων - οι γυναίκες και τα παιδιά αν έχουν - είναι αναγκασμένα να το βλέπουν ξανά και ξανά. Το footage του τρόμου, που δείχνει τη στιγμή που ο πατέρας ΣΟΥ χάνει τη ζωή του.

Μπορεί απλά οσο γερνάω να γίνομαι πιο ευαίσθητος, αλλά νομίζω θα έπρεπε να απαγορεύεται να δείχνουν οι τηλεοράσεις τέτοιες σκηνές που μπορεί να περιέχουν απώλεια ζωής.

Και γενικά ζούμε στην εποχή της υπερ-καλυψης και υπερ-παρα-ενημερωσης και της 24/7 μετάδοσης και της τρομοκρατίας και των δραματικών επικλήσεων και ολα γίνονται για τη τηλεθέαση.

Στέλνουν κοριτσάκια 25 χρονών εκει να κάνουν δημοσιογραφία και πλησιάζουν τους ανθρώπους και τους ρωτάνε αν είναι καλά και τι βίωσαν, και ξέρουμε πολυ καλά πως ολο αυτό ειναι performative και όχι αληθινό νοιαξιμο, ποντάρουν στο πόνο και στη κραυγή αγωνίας που μπορει να βγάλει κάποιος απο αυτούς - βασικά ελπίζουν να το κάνει - για να κάνουν τηλεθέαση, γιατί ζούμε στην εποχή του εμπορευματοποιημενου πόνου και της επιπλαστης αντιπαράθεσης και του δακρυβρεχτου ρεπορτάζ.

Κάθονται οι άλλοι ιδρωμενοι με τις φανέλες και ρίχνουν νερό τα πρόσωπα τους μέσα στη μουτζούρα της σκόνης και σκάει η μακιγιαρισμενη περιποιημένη αστική κοπελίτσα με το μικρόφωνο του όπεν ή Σκάι αν χείρας του το βάζει στη μάπα και λέει "πως νιώθετε που κάηκε το σπίτι σας?"

Λίγη ανθρωπιά ρε!

Ας πάμε να δούμε τη σκηνή έκρηξης του ελικοπτέρου άλλες 145 φορές τώρα γιατι Ο θάνατος πουλάει και μέχρι να πουλήσει πρέπει να τον καταναλωσουμε πολλές φορές.

ΥΓ: Μακάρι να είναι καλά οι άνθρωποι μέσα σε εκείνο το ελικόπτερο!!

So some anarchist collective organised a music night in a local park with a band, yesterday night. In my effort to get out of my house and become less of a shut in, I attended... and I felt terrible.

I was the only one who was fat, ugly and lonely asf. Everyone there was talkative, either with their friends or their girlfriends, most 20s-30s kinda good looking and taller than me (5'7) while I sat alone like some exiled weirdo while everyone laughed and sung along and the only thing anchoring me there was the actual music which I enjoyed and the fact there was another lonely guy there (who was probably waiting for his friends).

I stayed for another hour and then I left but I think outings aint worthy if you are lonely and have no friends.

So some anarchist collective organised a music night in a local park with a band. In my effort to get out of my house and become less of a shut in, I attended... and I feel terrible.

I am the only one who is fat, short and ugly asf. Everyone here is talkative, either with their friends or their girlfriends, most 20s-30s kinda good looking and taller than me (5'7) while I sit alone like some exiled weirdo and the only thing anchoring me here is the band playing the music and the fact there is another lonely guy here (who's probably waiting for his friends).

I have decided to leave. I think outings aint worthy if you have no friends.

First stare ❌

First crush ✅

First time flirting ❌

First rejection ❌

First touch ❌

First giving someone your number ❌

First hand holding ❌

First asking/being asked out ❌

First date ❌

First "I love you" ❌

First kiss ❌

First anxious visit to her house ❌

First romantic sleepover ❌

First relationship ❌

First sex ❌

First breakup ❌

First serious relationship ❌

Living with the partner for the first time ❌

Engagement ❌

Marriage ❌

Having children ❌

Being a 35 yo virgin joke ✅

If God exists he's probably munching on pop corn and drinks a large soda sitting comfortably in his heavenly chair looking down at me and laughing at the ridiculous "man" he created just for the laughs

Recently we had a series of short redditors uploading their short handsome muscular faces and bodies and earned praise and admiration and comments such as "I would rather date a short guy with a lethal face card than an average tall one" bla bla blah.

Therefore, I humbly believe that in sex/dating, what matters the most is facial attractiveness and not height

If you are a short but handsome or good look guy, you will generally enjoy many hookups and/or relationships in your life. Shortness is negated by looks.

If you are average height but ugly - not average just ugly asf - you will barely stand any chance.

If we could devise some sort of ranking on what counts the most for hookups and dating, it would go like this:

1: facial attraction

2: body attraction (not be obese)

3: charisma/talkativeness/humor

4: good finances (not applicable for hookups)

5: height

6: hair

PLEASE don't take this as an assault to the shortness problem, it isn't, im 5'7 myself (average for some countries, short for others). Remember this is my personal take on dating and hookups not about life in general as shortness can be pretty destructive when it comes to life in general (e.g. lower chances of getting promoted etc)

I think most of us are not just normal functioning adults who work 9-5 and have friends and hobbies but just can't find a relationship for some mystical reason, am I right?

Or...am I captain obvious?

Imagine living in Greece. Hot looking tourists with bikinis all day. Roaming Athens with their beautiful faces and cleavages and skirts. Native Mediterranean beauties all tanned and shit doing the same. Ugh and ugh and ugh all over again.

I visited one of those "uglyrateme" subreddits. 1/4 posts are good looking women like wtf. I felt depressed, I wanted to see ratings of ugly men and ended up seeing hot chicks. They are everywhere.

Seriously I can't. Being an ugly 5'7 fatso sucks. I feel manlets like me shouldn't exist. That any chance a woman would ever give me is a chair in the corner of her bedroom.

Once you become conscious about life and attractiveness, it becomes unbearable. I would prefer to be an ignorant asexual.

In a previous post I said I'm having an interview after 9 years of being a shut in (2017-2026 premium life waster right here) and I would test your theories on whether ugly people get treated badly and are mocked/insulted or not. So:

1: In the bus: two ladies kindly guided me on how to pay the bus fare. They were kind and chatty, bus driver interfered to ask me something. All good. Later on, a guy kindly asked me why do I not sit down. I said "that's a really question" and chuckled as I sat down. He said: "this has an answer: it's anxiety". I agreed, we exchanged some smiles, he caught wind of my social anxiety. It seems he wanted to converse more but was discouraged by the fact I stopped looking his way because I felt a little anxious indeed.

2: in the interview: The receptionist was okay and guided me to the waiting room herself despite the fact I was supposed to go there myself. The interviewer was kind albeit a bit firm, but this has more to do with her position in the HR than her personality. Towards the end of the interview, I swear I saw her lips twitch slightly, as if she barely suppressed a laugh. :( Her eyes darted at my belly more than twice at that time, maybe she wanted to mock my obesity?

3: Post interview: Initiated casual chat with a lady from Africa (probably an immigrant) ^ ^ a huge breakthrough for me. She turned to look at me and smiled, we chatted less than a minute about how hostile the traffic is, then the red light became green and she walked away faster than I did. Initially I thought she thought I wanted to hurt her or stalked her, but l noticed she was just in a hurry.

So far so good! Noone treated a fat short ugly fuck like me pretty badly. Sure, none of those sexy tourists I saw offered themselves on a plate to me like It would happened if I was tall and muscular - virgin forever I know - but at least when it comes to being functional and being able to interact with the society I feel I was treated pretty neat and equally. Save for that moment where I felt like the interviewer wanted to laugh at my fatness