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where are the adhd girls who DIDN’T get straight A’s?

I see posts all the time from people who did exceedingly well in school who turned out to have adhd. I can’t be the only person here who didn’t have that experience, right? Did anyone else do pretty bad? Did anyone else lose literally all their papers and worksheets and always turned in a wrinkled paper because it was stuck in the bottom of your backpack? Did anyone else have the daily experience of, oh wait we had homework? Up until a certain point, maybe late high school or into college, I felt like even if I lost all their busy work I’d still do well on the tests just from intuitive knowledge on the subject or educated guesses. Did anyone else fail a class? Did anyone else have a low gpa? Was anyone else definitely NOT “gifted”? None of this really matters now because I’m an adult but I’m so curious. I feel like I only see posts about the opposite of my experience. I assume because doing poorly in class and not paying attention is the stereotype of adhd children, understandable people would want to spread awareness about the opposite side of things. But damn was anyone else struggling and not seeing any payoff for their entire childhood?

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u/krittyyyyy — 1 day ago

What does the star shape mean in my transits for today aug 11?

No need to go in depth about my life, unless anyone wants to, but what does the star mean energetically? Is it harmony or tension? I see they are trines but they’re facing in opposite directions.

Whole sign chart using Astro seek.

u/krittyyyyy — 10 days ago

Medium-low spoon soup, looks fancy but is easy

Hey guys, I wanted to share my soup because I make a variation of this a lot. It’s great on a day where I have just a little energy, I definitely have lower spoon meals than this one but it’s pretty minimal effort and vegetables/proteins can be subbed for almost anything. It’s only about 10 min of prep/active cooking and it’s really good.

Ingredients

- broth
- Thai curry paste
- any vegetable
- any protein
- sugar
- lime
- fish sauce (optional, but I always use it)
- cilantro (optional, but I almost always use it unless I’m out)
- scallion (optional)
- jalapeños(optional)

Step 1: get a pot. If you have a protein that needs cooking on the stove, cook it in the pot. I used frozen/defrosted shrimp and cooked it for like 4 minutes. I’ve done no protein, rotisserie chicken, baked and shredded chicken, canned salmon, baked salmon, meatballs, premade chicken sausages (even the andouille kind because girl this ain’t authentic to any cuisine), shaved beef, tofu, catfish (catfish was kinda weird but I had it in the fridge).

Step 2: remove protein. Add a little oil (I used seasoned chili oil, but any is fine), add a scoop of Thai curry paste any color. Fry it for a second until it is fragrant. Add in the broth. Add a healthy pinch of sugar (I use brown but whatever works), add a small splash of fish sauce. Let it simmer 5-10 min. Coconut milk is also good at this step but not necessary.

Step 3: prepare vegetable in whatever way makes sense. It depends what I’m using. In this bowl I used raw zucchini noodles, so no cooking, just pour hot broth over them. But often I microwave pieces of cabbage, bok choy, or green beans. Sometimes I put tomato wedges in the pot when I fry the curry paste. Last week I used yellow squash and i sautéed it in the pot before I did the broth.

Step 4: put vegetables, meat, cilantro, chopped scallions (not pictured because everything is optional and I don’t have any), and jalapeno in the bowl, add whatever else you like too. Pour broth over it. Squeeze some lime juice on it. That’s it it’s done. If you want it spicier add the jalapeños to the broth as it simmers.

If you want to add instant noodles or rice (I buy the frozen microwave kind) that’s good too. Sometimes I roast a sweet potato on the side.

I feel like this reads as a lot of steps but it’s really not that bad. Virtually all of this is optional or customizable except the broth and curry paste bc that’s where majority of the flavor comes from. Also it takes 1 pot, 1 bowl, a plate or cutting board or just a paper towel on the counter lol, and a couple utensils.

I hope someone tries this and likes it, follow the steps with your heart, add or omit whatever, it’s hard to fuck up. Serve it in a pretty bowl if you have one!

u/krittyyyyy — 24 days ago
▲ 1 r/SIBO

Stopped eating fresh produce because I’m scared of cyclospora and bloating is down

lol! small wins I guess. I still have Sibo, obviously.

Currently waiting for a second round of testing/ruling out other shit even tho I’ve been confirmed to have Sibo in the past and it’s clearly back. Yayyy

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u/krittyyyyy — 1 month ago

Moving doesn’t make you happier, but I felt better on my Jupiter Ac and worse when I’m far away from it.

I’m grappling with moving away from my Jupiter AC line. It’s where I’ve lived the longest (apart from my childhood home, which is on my NN dc line. Also where I currently live, alone in the city, not my old house). All my good lines are on the west coast, challenging ones are on the east. I was on the west coast for 5 years, from early 20s to late 20s. I wanted to be back closer to my family and close friends. I felt far away and was afraid to build the next chapter of my life far from the people I want close. I want kids and I want them to have cousins nearby and I want my parents closer so they can have grandkids nearby. I want to know my future nieces and nephews because they’re gonna come soon. I moved back east at 28 to change careers, go back to school, to stop feeling like I am living out extended teenage years in LA where I worked in the weed industry and resold clothes, just shopping and smoking and driving and consuming. Jupiter indeed. The last year in LA I was very unhappy and unfulfilled but committing to change it all so far physically from the people I want in my future wasn’t what I chose. I’m back east and I miss nature and freedom and I don’t feel like my life is any more together and I’m still not able to commit to building relationships or finding a new career path, the changes I tried to make weren’t working out, I was burning out trying to be someone I’m not. I’m currently on the north node line. I have a 7th house NN. The only thing that makes me feel like a person is being in nature and I’m not surrounded by enough nature here. Technically all of the earth is nature but I wanna go up a mountain and have access to better trails. Does anyone see anything I don’t? To me the west screams “good” and east screams “bad” but my logical brain chose a return to the east.

u/krittyyyyy — 1 month ago

Burnt out and can’t see a way out without quitting my job (again)

I’m deeply affected by my job. It is a customer facing role and I hate every aspect, I hate the management, I hate interacting with the customers, I hate the location. I actually like my coworkers but I’ve been very avoidant in dealing with tasks and customers because I am constantly fighting panic attacks and feeling generally awful lately. My home life is falling apart, I am behind on chores and bills and everything. I am not socializing or trying new things. I am fighting off panic and then I am recovering but never fully. It’s taking a physical toll on me and the stress is making me dizzy, nauseous, and unable to sleep. Even when I do sleep I’m actually still dizzy and nauseous. It’s scaring me from a health standpoint but I keep getting jobs and quitting them when I get like this. It’s a horrible pattern. I’m nearly 30 I am too old for this cycle, I feel like I should be able to hold a job. The physical manifestations of my stress are tied to work and I want to quit for my health but I feel guilty. I feel extremely guilty and it’s just a bad financial move. I feel like I can’t find another job in these conditions even if I try.

When it gets so bad that I am physically sickened from burnout, and driven into genuinely scary mental health episodes, is it valid to leave without a plan? I’m so upset I’m so scared and I feel like such a failure. What do I do?

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u/krittyyyyy — 2 months ago
▲ 13 r/Blind

I’m a bridal consultant with a blind client coming tomorrow, any tips?

Hello! I am a bridal consultant and tomorrow my bride is blind. I do not know if she can see partially, or can’t see at all, and she will have a dog with her. We help all our brides in and out of the gowns because they are heavy and cumbersome to zip, so I’ll be in the room helping her change. I have never worked with a blind client before so I don’t know what to except. I figure I should pull gowns with fabric that has a nice texture, we have some silky soft ones and some with raised embroidery. I’m sure she will have some preference for style of course. We normally have brides step onto a pedestal because the samples are long. Should I removed the pedestal for her appointment? I don’t want her to trip if she can’t see the edge. But I also don’t want to assume she wants to be treated differently than the other brides. I assume I should describe the gowns in detail out loud and be more detailed in my verbal descriptions.

If she purchases a dress we have a sales contract to sign as well as some receipts, we normally don’t do digital signatures but would it be better to send her the documents via email? Or is reading them out loud fine?

Any tips? Especially from ladies who’ve gotten married and done the dress shopping thing?

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u/krittyyyyy — 2 months ago

Picked a shade more pink than I normally would, summer shade

Covergirl ageless cream foundation in 215. Vs wet n wild natural ivory in winter.

I felt like my winter shade was too yellow so I got this one cause it looked straight pink. I think it’s an okay match, I’ve had to lighten the higher points of my face with concealer but that’s okay. Not intentionally trying to gain color, I wear spf every day but I’m probably catching strays especially later in the afternoon.

Anyway, I like how the pinker foundation looks. Happy with the switch up I feel like it looks much more natural.

u/krittyyyyy — 2 months ago

New snack, excited and then disappointed

Obviously chips aren’t gf specific BUT they do have a gf certification which is nice.

But man, no! No no no! I was so excited about a new snack but no. Gross. Tasted like a cucumber that’s gone bad. No! Photo from the website cause I just threw out my bag.

u/krittyyyyy — 2 months ago

How did you wear this type of headband

It was always my understanding as a child that the ribbons were supposed to be tied in a bow under your hair so it looks like a ribbon wrapped around your whole head. However, I never saw anyone wear it this way and the ribbons always hang down untied and tucked behind the ears. Genuinely always annoyed me because the concept seemed obvious and the execution looked terrible cause no one wore it as I assume it was intended. But perhaps I’ve been wrong all along and the ribbons were never supposed to be tied.

Anyone else ever think of this trend, 20 ish years later? And how did people around you wear it? Was my pocket of society dumb? Am I wrong about the purpose of the ribbons?

u/krittyyyyy — 2 months ago

Weird caption by Abbeys mom

This feels almost nit picky to post cause it’s a damn instagram caption but I don’t like this, written by who I assume is abbeys mom.

Can’t her daughter go to a long time friend’s wedding and post some cute, normal photos? Without her mom going on a tangent about how abbey wanted to *be* her friend growing up and how her childhood was incredibly tough and exclusionary for her. I believe fully that it was but it just seems unnecessary when the occasion and all the photos convey only joy. The mom is always having abbey recant her childhood struggles for instagram and I get wanting to be a resource in the autism parenting community, but her mom is a bad resource.

I just feel like the caption could have been more appropriate for the event posted. It feels like she wants to push her ideas into all of abbeys content.

u/krittyyyyy — 2 months ago

parked car hit on Cathedral Ave near the zoo

Not sure if this will reach the car’s owner. I saw a parked silver car get hit hard by a crazy driver on 6/3, guy was driving erratically and just slammed into your car out of nowhere. Hopefully the cops contacted you, I called them and provided a plate number. But in case you didn’t get the plate info from the police I have a photo.

Car was parked between connecticut ave and woodley rd.

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u/krittyyyyy — 3 months ago
▲ 10 r/autism

face blindness sucks

Not looking for advice just ranting.

I accidentally come off as rude all the time because I genuinely don’t recognize people unless I have repeated and recent interactions with them. Apparently, people who I’ve met and actually would want to greet and talk to keep coming into my work and I genuinely do not realize I’ve met them before. At my previous customer facing job someone came in every single day for months and I genuinely didn’t realize it until sooo long, he was like “you finally remembered me!” I felt bad! Meeting up with friends I haven’t seen in a very long time, honestly terrifying to locate them in a space like a crowded bar. I’m scanning everyone trying to remember theirs. I ran into my boss from last year and had a brief conversation and didn’t realize it was her because it was a different context than my old job. I thought huh, that lady looks a little like my old boss but I really didn’t think it was her until I found out later. I saw a guy I went on a few dates with on the train. Tbh I did have the thought, oh is it that guy? I had to pull up his dating profile and match his tattoos and it actually was him but it had been 1-2 months since I last saw him. Also the fact he was with another girl and avoiding looking in my direction was a clue lol.

Anyway I don’t like it. I feel like I keep offending people by not remembering, especially at work!!

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u/krittyyyyy — 3 months ago