where are the adhd girls who DIDN’T get straight A’s?
I see posts all the time from people who did exceedingly well in school who turned out to have adhd. I can’t be the only person here who didn’t have that experience, right? Did anyone else do pretty bad? Did anyone else lose literally all their papers and worksheets and always turned in a wrinkled paper because it was stuck in the bottom of your backpack? Did anyone else have the daily experience of, oh wait we had homework? Up until a certain point, maybe late high school or into college, I felt like even if I lost all their busy work I’d still do well on the tests just from intuitive knowledge on the subject or educated guesses. Did anyone else fail a class? Did anyone else have a low gpa? Was anyone else definitely NOT “gifted”? None of this really matters now because I’m an adult but I’m so curious. I feel like I only see posts about the opposite of my experience. I assume because doing poorly in class and not paying attention is the stereotype of adhd children, understandable people would want to spread awareness about the opposite side of things. But damn was anyone else struggling and not seeing any payoff for their entire childhood?