u/meokokok

Her original comment that I responded to was under a video saying Jews should “go back”

In case you are curious about the beginning, I unknowingly hidden her original comment by disliking it but my reply has everything she originally wrote

There were a lot of stuff automatically censored for me and she was writing a lot short messages fast so if it seems like I didn’t address certain things it’s probably because I either didn’t see them yet or couldn’t keep up.
Also in photo six it auto corrected me from “write” to “wrong”.

I know it’s a lot but if you want to get really annoyed I recommend to read the entire thing

The post they found me from had nothing to do with relationships, it was just about my little journey of self discovery through puberty

The post they found me from had nothing to do with relationships, it was just about my little journey of self discovery through puberty

So there’s something I noticed and I’m curious if any of you had a similar experience.

Since I was a little kid I *loved* fashion and even sewing my own clothes like the skirt in the picture, my fashion style was diverse but had a lot of cute stuff and I loved skirts and dresses. Then came puberty and like a lot of other girls my body started to change and I became insecure of my body and being ‘too childish’.

At the age of thirteen I started to dress masculinely, baggy men’s pants and oversized shirts etc. At fourteen I was already noticing I was most likely a lesbian but tried not to force myself into a label also this was my masculinity peak and I was even mistaken for a boy several times, by fifteen I knew I was a lesbian for sure but was hoping if I make it obvious I would never need to come out and face my sexual orientation head on.

At sixteen I embrace it, my femininity, that I am a lesbian and that I don’t need to look or act or be some kind of ‘A Lesbian’. What I should do is be myself as is whether people might assume I’m straight or not is not something that should influence my self expression and definitely not what determines my homosexuality.

I realized through fashion that we can often pressure ourselves into being something we aren’t when we are insecure(in my case it was forcing myself into masculinity because I thought that how lesbians supposed to be).

I hope we can all find ourselves and be comfortable with who we are without feeling the need to prove ourselves to anyone including ourselves.

(To be clear I’m not trying to say all mescaline/stereotypically-lesbian lesbians are just insecure but it was the case for me)

So I originally posted(it had my age in it) a picture of myself in a (it ended right above my knees for context)skirt and a blouse and asked if it made me look old because the blouse was a bit conservative, I got other creepy dms but this one I genuinely thought might be a helpful advice so I feel really stupid for playing a long when it was probably just a creepy man trying to get pictures of me in a tank top and escalate from there

I’m not sure if it’s even serious enough for this sub but I just wanted to share and if you are other girls that make fashion-related posts just be careful of men like that (I feel like an idiot T-T)

Edit: the part where I wrote “there was something here” was him asking what I was wearing right now with an excuse to why he should know

I made a fashion related post and this guy got to my dms, I feel really stupid because I genuinely thought it was a person trying to give advice rather than a creep trying to get tank top pics and probably escalate from there.

I hope other girls could see it so they’ll know to just ignore dms even if they think it might be genuine

So I originally posted(it had my age in it) a picture of myself in a (it ended right above my knees for context)skirt and a blouse and asked if it made me look old because the blouse was a bit conservative, I got other creepy dms but this one I genuinely thought might be a helpful device so I feel really stupid for playing a long when it was probably just a creepy man trying to get pictures of me in a tank top and escalate from there

I’m not sure if it’s even serious enough for this sub but I just wanted to share and if you are other girls that make fashion-related posts just be careful of men like that (I feel like an idiot T-T)

(I’m 16) got this shirt at a second-hand shop and thought it was really cute(you can’t really see but it has cute lace on the chest area too). I feel like the high collar makes me look a bit too old so I’d appreciate your opinion, also should I tuck it in my skirt or not? I can sew so I was thinking of maybe making it a bit smaller around the waist too

Sorry for the massy hair and bad quality of the picture also I don’t know how to pose

(I’m 16) got this shirt at a second-hand shop and thought it was really cute(you can’t really see but it has cute lace on the chest area too). I feel like the high collar makes me look a bit too old so I’d appreciate your opinion, also should I tuck it in my skirt or not? I can sew so I was thinking of maybe making it a bit smaller around the waist too

Sorry for the massy hair and bad quality of the picture also I don’t know how to pose

1. Lesbian, 3/10 I don’t like orange.
2. Mizrahi, 4/10 I don’t like green(at least this shade) but I like the red.
3. Lahatab(gay Jews or Israelis), 9/10 I like the rainbow.
4. Atheist, 8/10 not perfect but I like this version and it’s kind of cool.
5. Sephardi, wow/10 it looks pretty cool like a medieval kingdom’s flag.
6. Fem lesbian, 9/10 it’s cute and I like it.
7. Israel, 9/10 I like blue&white and it’s simple but nice.

If you guys want you can give me other flags to rate

1. Lesbian, 3/10 I don’t like orange.
2. Mizrahi, 4/10 I don’t like green(at least this shade) but I like the red.
3. Lahatab(gay Jews or Israelis), 9/10 I like the rainbow.
4. Atheist, 8/10 not perfect but I like this version and it’s kind of cool.
5. Sephardi, wow/10 it looks pretty cool like a medieval kingdom’s flag.
6. Fem lesbian, 9/10 it’s cute and I like it.
7. Israel, 9/10 I like blue&white and it’s simple but nice.

(Not sure what other flare to use) if you guys want you can give me other flags to rate