u/nasi-n-chill

Ive done my masters in counselling and I’m exploring opportunities for full time counselling or related to psychology. The thing is i would like to work around hsr/haralur/sarjapur areas. (If pay allows me to travel farther i can do that too.) I’m also an artist and i like to host art workshops. I’ve also hosted a few employee wellness groups and workshops.

I’ve been job searching for almost a year + and i haven’t come across much luck. I do work remotely, but I want a more hands-on in-person role. Most psychology jobs are heavily underpaid, or don’t value flair. I’m looking for any referrals or any openings- School counselling, organisational counselling, people & culture- I’d love to work somewhere where the work culture would benefit from having me. I am extremely passionate and creative and I love what i do and i know I have the potential to do so much. I love working with people and I know I’m great at what i do.

Please do reach out to me if you think I’ll be a good fit somewhere!

Ive done my masters in counselling and I’m exploring opportunities for full time counselling or related to psychology. The thing is i would like to work around hsr/haralur/sarjapur areas. (If pay allows me to travel farther i can do that too.) I’m also an artist and i like to host art workshops. I’ve also hosted a few employee wellness groups and workshops.

I’ve been job searching for almost a year + and i haven’t come across much luck. I do work remotely, but I want a more hands-on in-person role. Most psychology jobs are heavily underpaid, or don’t value flair. I’m looking for any referrals or any openings- School counselling, organisational counselling, people & culture- I’d love to work somewhere where the work culture would benefit from having me. I am extremely passionate and creative and I love what i do and i know I have the potential to do so much. I love working with people and I know I’m great at what i do.

Please do reach out to me if you think I’ll be a good fit somewhere!

Ive done my masters in counselling and I’m exploring opportunities for full time counselling or related to psychology. The thing is i would like to work around hsr/sarjapur areas. I am super passionate about the work i do and i know im good at it too. I’m also an artist and i like to host art workshops or support groups.

I’ve been job searching for almost a year + and i haven’t come across much luck. Most psychology jobs are heavily underpaid. I’m looking for any referrals or any openings. School counselling, organisational counselling, people & culture- I’d love to work somewhere where the work culture would benefit from having me.

Please do help- I have so much passion and drive and i don’t want to give up without a fight. Any advice would help- any positions outside of India I’m open to as well 🌸 within India it’ll have to be Bangalore.

Assalam Alaikum.
Im looking to hang out with Bangalore folks more. I want to create a community for us, where we can all meet and interact with each other. I realise that I don’t connect with my other friends anymore like values and stuff related. Id love to make a community.

One problem that Ive noticed is that the muslim men and women behave very differently- they have female friends but when it comes to making groups and hanging out suddenly theyre not okay with women. I want this to be an all inclusive space, we could have different groups for the brothers and different for sisters but I really want to make this accessible without gender.

I genuinely want the muslim women to meet each other and have a community. I know my girl friends who go to cafes and stuff to work want to work with other like minded girlies. And i want to also connect with folks who are into tech and i want us to sit and do interesting things together, i have so much i want to do for us and for the ummah. It doesn’t have to be all serious, just a place to genuinely find good friends and help each other.

Feel free to dm, please state that you’re coming from the Indian Muslim community, and let’s form a Bangalore group. Brothers that don’t want to interact with sisters, and sisters who don’t want men around, don’t worry, we’ll make separate groups. I’d need one brother to volunteer with me and let’s start something beautiful.

I’m just someone who really wants to build a community that isn’t just all religious but also casual and go beyond just Quran classes or things like that. Like just casual get togethers, making new friends and stuff.

Edit: no free mixing, no dating space. Brothers separate sisters separate. We keep it halal!

Assalam Alaikum brothers and sisters.
Ill keep this brief. The past few years, i have lived a life very astray, yeah. And then i came upon Islam again after many years. I struggle to find answers and i cannot reason with the “dawah bros” here. And hence I come to ask here.

What made you believe Allah was the one? What proof do you have that he is the one? Those who were atheist or from other religions and converted out of choice. Why? What guided you? I want to search for answers also. I hope this does not offend.

I feel like I want to know for myself. I have asked many people this question but nobody seems to provide answers that are personal. They just give very vague responses like “who else can it be?” And this is deeply unsatisfying. I have a yearning to know more.

Assalam Alaikum brothers and sisters.
Ill keep this brief. The past few years, i have lived a life very astray, yeah. And then i came upon Islam again after many years. I struggle to find answers and i cannot reason with the “dawah bros” here. And hence I come to ask here.

What made you believe Allah was the one? What proof do you have that he is the one? Those who were atheist or from other religions and converted out of choice. Why? What guided you? I want to search for answers also. I hope this does not offend.

I feel like I want to know for myself. I have asked many people this question but nobody seems to provide answers that are personal. They just give very vague responses like “who else can it be?” And this is deeply unsatisfying. I have a yearning to know more.

I have low ferritin and a bunch of other tjings low perhaps. Bevause of a very pathetic childhood growing up, I was never allowed to run and be free. I was always within the four walls of my room and thus never got to workout much and stretch myself out.
Shortly afterward i got a desk job. And then when i got married for obvious reasons i realised that i wasnt able to stretch enough.
Now im 26. Life has never been better. But i cannot stretch, i cant even touch my toes and perhaps i just get stuck halfway. Am i too late to start stretching? All the YT videos show people whove been stretching since they were kids and it puts me off because what about people who could never stretch? They show Advanced stretches even in beginners videos theyre doign like toe touches for 30 seconds while im struggling with my hands halfway there.

What would you advise i do? Is it too late for me? I know its never too late but the discomfort from stretching plus watching beginner tutorials showing complete stretches makes me so frustrated and i get so cranky. Im crying rn as i type this.

I can’t hate on my past but i would very much like to do something for my future. Im not financially very well off to splurge on tutors and classes and stuff- are there channels on YT or smth that genuinely help newbies? I cannot bear to see another video with a perfect stretch. What would you advise for me? Ill take anything

We got rings for each other as promise rings. Two years in, we were prepping to get married- i discovered he had been physically cheating on me with his past hookup while i was doing ldr and planning the wedding.
Tried to work for 6 months post that- until he said “let me fix myself and come back to you let me try properly to make things work out.”

It has been two months since no contact. He has a private account and we dont follow each other anymore at all. He runs a business, and he doesnt manage any social media but he made a random guest appearance for a product and he still was wearing our promise ring.

Mind you, i dont follow him at all. My friend noticed it on his business because she has remained following his business (she used to support- she just ended up forgetting to remove his business account and it landed up in her feed).

What do yall make of it. Avoidants here, whats your take? Just out of curiosity.

Either way I dont plan on forgiving him ever or ever picking up where we left off. The damage was far greater than the immense love i had for him.

Hello, Assalam Alaikum.

Im looking for vendors that help in making notice boards with cork material or those green pin board type things that go on walls. Amazon lists the bigger ones at around 6-7k and thats absolutely out of my budget.
I was hoping that direct vendors would maybe lower the price, and Id also like to support local businesses in the process.

If anyone has any contacts, please do let me know! I would love a referral.

Salaam

Man all these bangalore cats adoption and bangalore cats network and all they dont respond or take weeks to respond “already adopted/hi yeah available still can contact xyz”. I’m looking to adopt from independent fosters preferably. Any leads? Ive fostered many many kittens in the recent years and nursed them back to health. Ive also had my own cats about fifteen ago, but had to rehome them when my family was going through a crisis. Now that im earning and want to start my family (of kitties ofc. no kids ever.) id love to bring two home. Please do dm if there are any foster parents 🌼

Hello guys. I know a sister who’s in need of financial assistance and she wants to earn a steady source of income. She needs to move out of her house soon, and is looking for remote jobs that can sustain her and pay her well. If anyone has any leads, it would be very helpful.
She has done content writing before and she does art as well, very good at drawing comic art like in Japanese comics. She left content writing from her previous workplace as they were making her write fake reviews on glassdoor and google reviews and it did not sit well with her from an islamic pov. She also can do ghostwriting and all. She’s very creative and well educated and has had a very good academic record. She might be open to taking on other roles as well depending on what the roles are.
Please dm if there’s any leads…

Hello guys. I know a sister who’s in need of financial assistance and she wants to earn a steady source of income. She needs to move out of her house soon, and is looking for remote jobs that can sustain her and pay her well. If anyone has any leads, it would be very helpful.
She has done content writing before and she does art as well, very good at drawing comic art like in Japanese comics. She left content writing from her previous workplace as they were making her write fake reviews on glassdoor and google reviews and it did not sit well with her from an islamic pov. She also can do ghostwriting and all. She’s very creative and well educated and has had a very good academic record. She might be open to taking on other roles as well depending on what the roles are.
Please dm if there’s any leads…

I have a remote job so location does not matter too much as i usually stay home but i would like to live not too far away from haralur. I have two cats with me.
My budget is around 15k. Please dm with any leads! Thank you.

I’m in my early thirties now and I’m doing psychology. Not earning great. I cant afford expensive tuition for college or anything like that anymore. The next choices i make will be lifelong. Where can I migrate to at this stage in life?

Long story short. A few months before our marriage i found out my partner had been called into the police station on account of groping his past hookup. They couldn’t find evidence so the girl couldn’t file a case. She was a little whack too so I’m not sure what really happened but at this point i trust nothing. But a little less than two weeks since I left his country he would meet up with her in his office and sleep with her. Well stand with her. Idk haha. When i found out and asked him why, he said he did it because he felt unloved. Which is so much crap because i still remember, when i matched the evidence that girl gave me, he was texting me he cant wait to get married to me at the same time that he was texting her begging her to meet for a quickie.

Problem is, i lived with my fiance for two years. I loved every moment of it. He turned up, ran behind my train and made me laugh, did all sorts of things. He remembered whatever I’d wanted, and it was always the small things.. like if i wanted to switch off the fan mid-sleep, he’d wake up and switch off the fan faster even if he was in a deeper sleep than i was. It was those things that made me fall for him.
He cheated on me two months into ldr. It shattered my sense of reality. I lost weight and couldn’t function. And he came to my country, tried to make things right but then i found out he sexted other girls on reddit. He said that he did it because i told him i was moving on and seeing other people after i found out he cheated on me. It really broke me. I guess i just expected that if he was trying to repair things he would turn up fully. I cried and just left, and then immediately cashed him to a resto and my best friend turned up and they had a heated argument. After that when he went back to his country, he just… stopped turning up. I would message him and try to fix things. He said that there was a barrier now that prevented him from loving me. He started to spend more and more time with his friends.. and would update me about his life via email because I’d blocked him everywhere else except email and WhatsApp- and told him not to message on WA anymore.

After a while i actually sat down to process the relationship… it had been one year of me trying to recover pathetically our relationship. I kept going back to him despite how much he hurt me. So i just removed him from all my socials, and told him to send my stuff back from his country.
I cut off all active line of communication with him because I’d keep reading his emails and my whole day revolved around him while he just went out and hung out with friends. It slowly became that i would wait for his texts and hed spend the whole night at his friends cafe playing cards with strangers and old friends. And one day when i asked him for his presence, he said he “had plans” and that’s when it hit me. After one year it hit me that i needed to leave him. So i asked him to send me my stuff back, and suddenly he said he hates how its the end of us. His last message was that he’d work on things and get back to me, but it’s been a week since. I messaged him regarding logistics of the package ands postage but there’s been nothing on his end. It hurts so much- to go from venue planning to being ghosted all in the course of a year.

Question is- will he come back? Do avoidabts come back? I was very pathetic and cried to him and told him he hurt me and’s still gave him a chance again and again. I dont know maybe he lost all attraction for me because i didnt have the self respect to walk away. I couldnt bring myself to turn my back on the man that switched off the fan or stayed up all night for a week to help me with my assignments with so much love… sigh.

I dont think he would ever work on himself- but do you think he’ll at least grieve us? Not that i will ever accept him. But i guess i just would like an ego boost that he at least remembers. The past one year has been so traumatic and pathetic. Ive been in therapy and diagnosed with a bunch of depression related things and cptsd. What do you think he thinks like?

Tldr; ex fiance cheated and then grew distant. Now he doesnt reply to my texts. Do people like this come back? Do they ever feel grief? Whats the thought process behind this kind of a person?

Please be kind. Im already struggling with a lot. I was such a bad beech before i met this guy and now im beginning to find pieces of myself all over again, so please be kind while i navigate this 🌸

Hello!

After having a very unsuccessful unrelated career, Im trying to pivot into game dev. I have no background of coding or anything at all- but Im a great freakin writer. I was originally looking at game writing and narrative design but i guess Malaysia doesnt seem to have to offer roles in that specifically. I am okay to learn Unity since its free, i guess- but what else can I do? What skills are in demand that are realistically learnable by someone like me? Im in my late twenties and I would love to actually do something that has an opportunity to pay well… as everyone would.

I would say I have immense knowledge in gaming. I’ve practically gamed ever since I was a kid, grew up with consoles from the early 2000s and yeah i just love gaming. Im more inclined towards the art of storytelling. So what do i do and learn that would get me hired in a job like that? Build a portfolio on twine? What else? Nothing related to coding or figma or alladat.. is there a chance for me to add value in the field or shall I drop the idea? I just know im a great writer and I can build compelling worlds and Ive run my own versions of dnd and have always had people come back and say I have a way with weaving worlds and storylines and all. And im just passionate about gaming in general. Ive played so many titles Ive lost count. I could go on.

Im ready to put in the hardwork and navigate the field. I would love to get any inputs and any advice at all.