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Last night, I had a very vivid dream that centered around a specific black bug. I don’t usually dream about insects EVER and in this dream I remember feeling really uncomfortable and disgusted by it. The bug itself was very distinct and stayed in focus for part of the dream rather than just being background detail.

Then today in the afternoon (day after the dream) I was cleaning and noticed that in my bedroom, directly in front of my bed, there was a bug that looked almost identical to the one from my dream. I’ve lived in the area and apartment for years and have never seen this type of bug before in my life, so it immediately stood out to me and I was so disturbed. I instantly looked at it and immediately thought, “that’s the bug from my dream”. In my dream, the bug was dead / near dying and the one in person was in the same exact state.

The timing and similarity between the dream and what I saw in real life left me with an eerie feeling. Like I have NEVER had a dream about a bug before nor have I seen one like it in my apt! I did leave my window open for a while so it didn’t appear out of thin air but I always open my window and nothing similar has appeared.

The coincidence and timing was so insane. I can’t help but feel so unsettled for some reason. Not sure if this symbolizes anything …

Does anyone else not allow themselves to be excited before a trip? Or not even look forward to it? I’ve known about my Italy trip for months and months and it’s finally here tomorrow but I’ve been filled with dread. I studied abroad in Italy and have been prior so it’s not a new place to me. The trip hasn’t excited me at all or motivated me to get through the work week. All I can think about is how awful the flight will be, if I should leave some kind of will in case I die, the jet lag, etc. I’m usually fine once I get to the destination and am happy but I hate the before so much. I almost want to cry right now when I think about. Like what the fuck when did I get so miserable and anxious.

Just curious in what forums or when throughout the day people play with their needohs and how often?? Please most about your routine with your Needoh:)

The dine in restaurant that you repeat and go to constantly over and over (excluding fast casual places like Cava or Chipotle) …. what is it? Mine is Sugarfish.

Long story short my mom was dating a guy for SEVEN years who turned out to have a double life. It turned out he was married, AND also had other girlfriends (putting her in harms way for STDs). He’s a real fucking piece of shit. He is a doctor and it makes me sick that this type of human OPERATES on people and has patients. The level of deception , lies, and trauma he has put my mom who treated him with nothing but kindness is insane.

He is applying and is getting considered for a few high level jobs at different hospitals/practices that my mom is aware of. Is there anything that can be done to contact these places to let them know he is not a moral ethical person without her getting sued for defamation or harassment? I feel that he needs to face some kind of consequence but not sure how. I also wouldn’t want my life in the hands of a sociopath that can lie straight to his wife, children, and girlfriends for multiple years straight. Keeping up with the lies and keeping track of multiple people surely impacts focus.

I also want to contact his kids and let him know what a real piece of shit their father is but don’t want him to go after my mom for harassment. Any legal ideas for how to subtly ruin his life are appreciated but I fear that I really have no options.