u/silentstardust_

I have been dating my bf since 2.5 year and last night there was some stupid thing on that I felt bad like he could have play along but he kinda brushed it off and gave me a logical answer NO BIG DEAL

BUT i got a little sad as i was feeling kinda feeling emotional and he was like it was nthg to feel hurt abt

This made me hurt more and i cried

Bcz it made me feel like if that doesn't matter to him Then he got very mad and he shouted at me for the first time saying that you have been dating me for so long and you should also knw me and that I complain about him too much (there was once before he said to me that I criticize and but that time he said he didnot understand the word afterword as english is not our first language)

To this i just felt really sad bcz I love this guy alot and given him all my love. Even he even said that during our fight that it is not only one sided

I am very expressive person if I don't like something afterwards I talk to him nicely n tell him that I didnot liked how he did that to which he says that i Will keep it in mind

In the start of the relationship he was not really emotionally intelligent I had to tell him everything whixh I didnot mind but even after such time I feel like he is not understanding me too

What should I do now i want to understand that why he feel that way or if I express it to him that is wrong idk i never said it like criticising but right now I feel to hurt to talk to him as i never expected to listen these words from a person whom I love the most. I am really lost Your takes would be appreciated