u/sondercrow0811

I grow a lot of hair all over my body, so it’s pretty exhausting having to shave so frequently especially with how fast it grows back but my biggest issue is my hair downstairs, the crack, and 🍑 (ik sorry tmi) what are your best shaving tips for the smoothest shave or even landing strip tips. Also, what razors are we using for the crack? I can never seem to get all the hair there and are we using hair removal creams or just straight shaving our 🍑

So i just transferred to Penn Foster after being on a unaccredited online school for 3 years of highschool (we didn’t realize until recently that it was unaccredited) so now i have to completely start over my hs years cause you can’t transfer unaccredited transcripts. Even though I am restarting everything I still wanna graduate in 2027 or earlier if possible (That’s my original graduate year if i was in public school) so I’m definitely gonna have to do a lot of extra work and I’m trying to figure out how to balance doing all of that school daily along with keeping up on hobbies, chores, and just living life especially with summer here without feeling burnt out and unmotivated. I’ve also been interested in educational yt videos recently about philosophy and other things and I feel like with all of the school that I’m gonna have to do I’m gonna lose a lot of interest in that cause it’s just going to start feeling like extra schoolwork- same with reading (which is one of my main hobbies) My goal is to graduate by either this December or next January or next May/April but I’m just trying to figure out how I’m supposed to balance all of that without feeling overworked and unmotivated

i (17F) not only barely have friends, but I am very much introverted and I don’t like the whole party scene/unnecessary drama and definitely not a “youngho” 😭 also i’m homeschooled
things i’m interested and like to do are:

reading
cafes
movie theaters
love island
Smosh reads reddit stories, sam and colby, sturniolo triplets
word puzzles
thrifting
taking walks in nature
music (all kinds)
tv shows like- yellowstone, tvd, twd, criminal minds, Got, friends, breaking bad, stranger things, etc.
sketching/coloring
Fortnite (occasionally)

there’s definitely more, but those are my main things!!

lately I’ve been feeling very unmotivated and lazy and idk how to go about it to change it. I ended up having all these things I wanna do and then I never end up doing them cause I either create doubt in my head or I will start the activity and quit halfway through.

I also think a big issue is my habit of doom scrolling. It’s become such a common thing amongst people nowadays and it’s sad. I’m on my phone more than anything and my screen time is absolutely disgusting, but even while knowing that, I still find myself reaching for my phone constantly and I think that’s the biggest thing that’s stopping me amongst other things.

i’ll find inspiration of other people doing things that I wanna do and then the second I start doing it I lose that motivation.. I just like a calm life. I’m very introverted. I like peaceful and safe activities like reading and listening to music but sometimes I feel like that’s not enough.

I fear I spend too much of my time on my phone doomscrolling especially because I’m at home majority of the time. I do like to read books time to time but I can barely get a couple pages in before I pick up my phone again. My attention span has severely shortened and i seem to get uninterested easily. Any tips on how to break this habit? Are there any hobbies that you recommend?

Im talking anything from life skills, history, philosophy, books, health, money, general knowledge, politics (un-biased that doesn’t focus on specificity left or right)

edit: something I forgot to add is regular ibuprofen doesn’t work for me and I did try Midol and I feel that doesn’t work for me either and the heating pad is a hit or miss but no matter what I’ll always use one cause it makes me feel less tense. My periods get so bad that last month I experienced something that’s apparently called the “period flu”, which I had never even heard about until it happened. I was getting hot flashes, and feeling really sick and dizzy, and on top of that I had really bad cramps.

I’ve read a couple of her books and I always found myself enjoying them I feel she’s good at keeping your attention and also catching quickly, but I feel a lot of her books fall flat towards the end or are somewhat predictable but I also haven’t read many of her books I think around 10 so if you enjoy her, I’ll be open to recommendations!!