u/unknowninglypsycho

HIII

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So

Guys actually the thing is that I've recently started doing hijab(prolly 16 months) I always do it outside or in family around men

but the thing is that whenever I see girls around me they're usually not doing it or if even they're doing it it's not like the proper one you know...like those fashionable one where sometimes their hair strand's are visible I mean it's not even hijab I don't know what it is...

I always feel something that why am I doing it I know we should do for ALLAH only but I'm a human too I do feel about it I also want to remove it and feel free and to make those hairstyles etc you know...

Other than that I'hv seen girls doing full niqab & hijab but after a day or two they're so changed like...they don't have any hijab so I wonder that what's the purpose of doing it when you can't do it properly I mean is it kind of a fashion... Or what.....

And I do know that it's their life their choice and I'hv no right to say but still...

Hiiii

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So, in our religion there’s this mehram/na-mehram concept right? And we’re supposed to follow these things.

But there’s one thing I don’t really understand maybe I’m wrong, maybe not. Is it ok?for those old uncles (grandpa level men or any other) to put their hand on your head? Personally I don’t like it at all. I mean..

Especially father’s cousins mother’s cousins, or any random male putting their hand on my head is something I’m not comfortable with.

When I discussed it with mother she said it’s a cultural thing and that we can’t deny it because it’s their way of showing love.

What’s your take on this, since there are only a few male relatives who are actually allowed to touch you?

Hiii

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So,

It’s been a while since I actually studied. I’m not really in mood to do anything productive yk😪 I just keep doom-scrolling or watching movies etc🫪🥀. Because of that, my tests went really bad, and my percentage is already ruined since I didn’t study😣🥀.

Whenever I looked at the question paper I was like how am I supposed to solve this 😰🥀. It’s not like that the questions were difficult it’s just that I hadn’t studied so of course I didn’t know how to solve them🥴🥀.

But a while ago, I thought I should prepare for tomorrow’s test😋🥀, and honestly it seemed so easy. It’s not even difficult. Toppers usually discuss questions and topics in such a complicated way🙄 but I understood how to solve them in just a few minutes😝🥀. So Ig it’s actually easy all I need to do is invest my time in studying....

Hiii

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So, I don’t know why, but some male teachers seem so misogynistic (not all but...).

They teach the male students as if the female students don’t even exist. Like bruh, you’re getting paid for this and teaching in a co-ed institution, so why this behavior???

Even in labs, they keep going to the boys again and again explaining things to them properly while we’re just left aside.

Then during finals, they ask girls the questions they never even taught us. I know there are things we should prepare ourselves, but asking completely out of the box? isn’t acceptable AT ALL.

And when it’s boys they literally discuss the work with them instead of asking them the way they do with us.

Then he says things like, “Kuch samajh aa rahi hai ke hum kya bol rahe hain aur kya baatein kar rahe hain?” in front of the boys, in a tone that just hits differently.

What’s the point of teaching in a co-ed institution and getting paid for your job when you can’t teach both genders equally? Go to home then, boy.

Hiii

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Guys i'hv been sleeping for more than 11+ hours😭 like it's getting out of control 🥀 like when I wake up in morning I don't feel that I've had enough sleep🫩 even though I slept for 7-8 hours🤯 and then I sleep again😵‍💫 for more hours like I'm just so done😕 I feel so low😣🥀

Hiiii

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Motivate me to study 🥀

HIII😋

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SO

CAN Y'ALL SUGGEST SM MOVIES/SERIES SIMILAR TO

SQUID GAME

ALICE IN BORDERLAND

🤩🥀

Girliess how do y’all treat your lips?

For me, they’re always dry☹️ I have to apply Vaseline just to stop myself from peeling them off🥀. What do y’all do😣?

I'm so embarrassed

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Like seriously I was not like this

I used to study before like until I understood something I'd keep trying again and again. But now I can’t study anymore. I have zero interest in it. I just keep wasting time or moving here and there even though I know I’ll get cooked in exams/tests.

I'hv been so much involved in other useless activities watching movies, scrolling uselessly,it's not gonna benefit me in any way.

I feel my parents money is getting wasted since I'm not studying not even a little bit

I can’t handle it anymore. I’m falling behind. I'm lacking in everything literally everything .I can’t understand anything, even if I try my best. I’m unable to grasp the concepts and I’ve become so lazy. And atp I feel like I'll never be able to get back.

Hii

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.What happens if we just give one lab final out of the two labs(open ended labs),like for marks weightage etc...

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I'm cooked

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I got really bad marks in quizzes and mids because I didn't study

and now my gpa is cooked because even if I score full marks which is highly impossible my gpa will be still lower than before 🥀

What am I supposed to do🥀

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Y'ALL HAM PER SUBJECT KITNI CLASSES SKIP KR SKTE HAIN LEMME KNOW ABOUT IT (NO LIES 🥀)

HIIIII

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So

I thought of making an Instagram account(public)where I'll post daily,

like uhh can y'all suggest what should I post (not reels btw just posts/stories).

Idk if I'll make it or not because I'm not consistent with anything (LITERALLY ANYTHING)

But still if y'all can suggest about or give sm ideas🥀

HIIIII

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SO

PAPERS ANE WALE HAIN😰 I'M NOT PREPARED 😖 I HAVEN'T STUDIED ANYTHING YET 🤩I DON'T WANT TO STUDY💔I WANT TO SCROLL INSTA REELS☹️AND WATCH SM MOVIE OR SERIES😋BUT I'VE TO STUDY 😢 BUT I DON'T HAVE THAT ENERGY😟 BUT I'HV TO STUDY 🥴BECAUSE OTHERWISE I'LL FAIL😰HOW DO I STUDY😩 I'M PROSCINATING😝 WHAT SHOULD I DO😢🥀

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YE DATESHEET ITNI JALDI KESE AGAYI😰🥀

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ABI TO KUCH PRHA BHI NAHI😖

Hiiii😝

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how about if y'all suggest me a flair🫪

Should I get it😢

GIRLS DON'T YOU HAVE COMMON SENSE????

LIKE SERIOUSLY????

YOU'VE BEEN ALIVE FOR 17+ YEARS STILL HAVEN'T LEARNED BASIC MANNERS ???

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IN CS DEPARTMENT WASHROOMS I'HV SEEN GIRLS WALK OUT WHILE LEAVING THE DOOR OPEN. LIKE GIRL CLOSE THE DOOR BEFORE GOING.

THERE'RE GIRLS (HIJABIS/NAQABIS) FIXING THEMSELVES INSIDE, SOMETIMES ADJUSTING, THEY OPEN THEIR HAIR TO SET IT UP & SINCE WHEN THE DOOR OPENS EVERYTHING'S VISIBLE FROM INSIDE, THERE'RE BOYS/MENS OUTSIDE SO IT MAKES THEM UNCOMFORTABLE LIKE GIRL JUST CLOSE THE DOOR BEFORE GOING AND EVEN OTHER THAN THAT YOU SHOULD CLOSE IT!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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Y'ALL SUGGEST SOME GOOD ONE'S EITHER IT'S A MOVIE OR A SERIES.😛😋BUT SHOULD BE GOOD😇GOOD MEANS JO MUJE ACHI LAGE 😝

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I CAN'T FIND ANYTHING GOOD😢🥀💔😰😔

SOMETHING LIKE SQUID GAME IG,🫪?

why people are like this

Like literally it's so pathetic

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People here are just involved with everyone like LITERALLY

whenever I see boys they share a good bond with each other

but girls aren't interactive enough🥀

like LITERALLY I'm sitting in class rn alone

this girl came & we had salam dua I asked her to sit but then she said let me drink water idk if she did or not well after a while she sat with me but then she started changing her position & then she started making excuses that there're boys sitting behind us & I'm not comfortable blah blah but then she stood up & sat with the other boys like ahh 😰😰😰

BRUH WHAT'S THE POINT OF SITTING WITH THE BOY😰😰😰 WHEN YOU WERE ALREADY UNCOMFORTABLE😰😰😰 WITH THE BOYS WHO WERE BEHIND YOU IT'S JUST SO PATHETIC LIKE WHAT

THERE'RE ALREADY FEW GIRL'S SM OF THEM ARE ALREADY INVOLVED (OR LIKE MOST OF THEM)

I'M FEELING SO LONELY RN