Is buying a house in urban City a worst decision?

So we are paying 20k a month, it's very heavy on my retired dad with no proper income. Recently, the owner made it to 24k , he increased the rent since it's been 2 years.

I am 23 years old and I don't earn much, whatever I earn goes into my medical bills. How to plan to buy a house here, if they increase rent every 1 year.

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u/watermelonmuskmelon — 5 days ago

Is this even pretty to wear in a sister's wedding

We are running out of money, as a part of cost cutting , i have decided to use those pieces which I have never worn and style it with jewellery. My friends say it looks cheap but I don't want to buy more half sarees because I don't wear them .

I do not look good in sarees, I have tried them. So should I rethink my decision.

Sorry for the picture bad quality .

I know this is a bit out of trend but trust me I will be busy and i have this feeling of i don't care judgments , bride is the main character and i don't need to worry about myself being perfect.

It's a simple wedding so please tell me should I reconsider my decision or go with this

u/watermelonmuskmelon — 5 days ago

Please suggest some south indian bridal hair style tips for bride suffering with hair issues

Hello , so i have alopecia areta and hairloss.

There's no volume at all especially at the crown area, I have tried everykind of medication but it is genetical. So please give me some south indian bridal hairstyle ideas, like flowers are compulsory.

But is it a good idea to go with weight less jada billalu and simple chain for hair instead of heavy hairstyles. My hair cannot carry an extension for a longer time , so I have taken an extension (savaram) which is probably thin than average south indian bride.

Please help a girl out.

(Posting behalf of a close friend, I am not the bride )

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u/watermelonmuskmelon — 6 days ago

Have you ever encountered transgender people demanding money during a wedding or housewarming ceremony ?

If yes, how to deal with them ? Like if they demand a huge amount ,ela convince cheyali antha ivvalemu ani ?

Btw no offence to any gender

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u/watermelonmuskmelon — 7 days ago

Have you ever cried while watching a movie at the theater ?

Vedang kosam 'main vaapas aaunga' cinema ki vellam, baga emotional ga connect ayya anukune lopu porapatuna na frnd face chusa, goramga edustundi. Dani face chusi naaku navvu agaledu 😭 antha emotional cinema chusi kuda navvukuntu bayataki vacham.

Have you ever cried while watching a movie at the theater? If yes, which movie ?

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u/watermelonmuskmelon — 8 days ago

How do I stay deattached and humble ?

Nothing is permanent but still I can never become humble.

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Naadi antu em levu, aina naaku deni meeda mozu povatledu. Dresses, gold, friends, job, money, manushulu anniti meeda attachment undi.

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Ivvani pothe Nenem ipotano , ivanni potay ani kuda telusu. Avi na identity kaadu.

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Chivariki na nethi meeda bochu kuda naadi kaadu aina sare deattached ga humble ga sachina undalekapotunna.

Ela undalo konchem cheppandi.

Enni debbalu padina sachiponi paamu ni nenu

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u/watermelonmuskmelon — 21 days ago

I want to save and buy gold for wedding, please help

I don't have much gold like every other girl around me. I can spend 10-15k per month that too by being on a very strict budget.

Please tell me how I can start saving and purchasing gold? If there are any schemes ,let me know.

I am confused between Lalitha jwellery, kalyan and grt, bheema.

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I want to go for a gold accumulation scheme . Suggest me one such good scheme. Cannot visit stores unfortunately

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u/watermelonmuskmelon — 21 days ago

Are Tylor swift songs really cursed ?

Oka reel chusa saying that Tylor swift songs are cursed, evarikina dedicate chesta (particularly enchanted) you'll not end up together ani. I guess true, Evarina Tylor swift songs evarikina dedicate chesara ?

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u/watermelonmuskmelon — 22 days ago

Why is skinn titan nude more popular than celestia

I tried titan nude and found it very spicy. The other one celesta is better than this rose perfume. I love subtle rose scents like bbw rose but this one is not my type.

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Is there anyone like me or am I just the one ?

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u/watermelonmuskmelon — 22 days ago

I have been trying to sleep since 11 pm yesterday

6.15 ipoindi inka nidra pattatledu, wat's wrong with me. I want to sleep like a baby😭. I almost forgot how it feels to sleep.

Andari laga body normal ga unte ela untundo kuda teliyadu inka. F**** my manager, f**** my lazy dumb ass, asalu work eh cheyanu deadlines vache daaka.

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Magnesium kuda pani cheyatledu. Ninna night 10 ninche lights off unnay ippudu sun rise kuda ayyela undi but something is very wrong with me wtf. I want to sleep. Atp I'll trade myself for one good sleep session

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Phone pakkanesthe overthinking ki chache la unna, I envy everyone who can sleep😭 idem narakam ra devuda

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u/watermelonmuskmelon — 23 days ago

Any books on FIRE and money management tips by Indian authors

I am looking for such books.

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Any lifestyle tips on overconsumption, minimalism that can save money in accordance with Indian situations of living.

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Kindly help if you know one

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u/watermelonmuskmelon — 23 days ago
▲ 4 r/FinancialPlanning_Ind+1 crossposts

Any books on FIRE and money management tips by Indian authors

I am looking for such books.

Any lifestyle tips on overconsumption, minimalism that can save money in accordance with Indian situations of living.

Kindly help if you know one

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u/watermelonmuskmelon — 23 days ago

Victoria secrete equilents for bbw you are the one, pink obsessed and cherry blossom

I love these three bbw body mists but for me they don't last long, please recommend vs perfumes that have the similar notes as you are the one, cherry blossom and pink obsessed

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u/watermelonmuskmelon — 29 days ago

The creepiest experience of my life - I am living in the most unsafe area

If you want to blame me , please don't comment. Victim blaming is the worst thing you can do.

Na frnd pg room lo okkate undi ani 11 ki cheppindi, ma intiki vachey ani chepte, chala spontaneous ga vachesindi, 11.50PM-12.10Am madyalo icecream tinnam.

Tini intiki vastute oka uncle bike baga slow CHESI checkout chesadu, chala bayam vesindi. Taravata mundiki velli aapesadu ,memu route marcham aayana chase chesadu mammalni, we were literally running, he was fucking chasing broo😭 mammalni cross CHESI bandi aapadu, "drop Cheyana , cool drink taagutara " ani adugutune unnadu aina memu parigettukuntu vellipoyam, lucky ga aayana cross chesindi ma inti daggara shop munde, so apartment loki parigettam.

You know the worst part, it's not that uncle, memu aa road meeda parigette time lo oka anna unnadu, he was literally watching us, ante em aindi annatu , aa anna kuda vachadu bandi meeda, ma sandhu lopalaki vachadu, memu apartment loki vellagane aa anna concerned ga memu ekkada unnam ani vetukutunnadu, maaku kanipinchindi. Na frnd emo "papam aa anna mana safety kosam vachadu thanks chepdam andi" nenu gate open cheyagane vachadu ma mundiki "thanks Anna aa uncle creepy gwa vachadu, memu vellipotam" anna inthalone aa anna " vastara, please ravachu kada" annadu memu shock ayyi lopaliki parigettam.

Tdlr : we(my frnd, i ) were literally chased by a creepy uncle. A guy was watching us being chased and followed us (we thought he followed to ensure our safety)turns out he's a creep too.

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u/watermelonmuskmelon — 1 month ago

Please advise me on how to manage my very little salary

I am 23(almost 24) F , we are not rich. I work in a stressful job(which gave me multiple diseases like harmonal disorder, nervous issues and many issues).

I am constantly worried about layoffs, because of adhd I make many mistakes and have been given no hike or promotion for 2 years. I get 25k per month but I will be left with 0 rs and ask my sister and father for money. All of the money I earn goes into hospital bills, medicines,scans ,blood tests etc.

I did not save anything till now, I have to save for emergency fund as well, I need to become financially independent because i can not stay in this constant stress of layoffs(this stress is the root cause of my health issues) the rest 2-3k I spend it on clothes. Is there any solution for my problem ?

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u/watermelonmuskmelon — 1 month ago

How do I stay strong and stress free ?

I worry a lot , job stress , heartbreak everything lead to auto immune disease. I have several bald patches on my head now(alopecia areta) I am not responding to medicines and neither is the hair growing back on its own.

I'm 23 now, they said my stress is the root cause for all of the diseases. I want to be stress free, how can I not bother about anything, even job loss or heartbreak, even if in life I get a divorce or cancer I should not worry, is it possible?

If i pretend or act to not care, I was able to do so for a week, then suddenly i broke down because i unconsciously bottling up my emotions and stress. How do I stay fearless and stress free.

If there are any schemes that can make me financially independent , because i am constantly worried about my future , pls tell me

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u/watermelonmuskmelon — 1 month ago

If I want to have a kid, I need to get off jak inhibitors, will it make my aa even severe ?

I'm 23F unmarried but I want to have a kid someday in the future, i have 4-5 bald patches and also it spread to my eyebrows as well. The doctor put me on jak inhibitors, I am worried if I can never have a child because if i stop them it will get worse.

Please give me some hope.

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u/watermelonmuskmelon — 1 month ago