Have you played any 4X titles that *seemed* to have the right ingredients, but somehow never clicked with you?
A few 4X games seem like they should be right up my alley but I never got to the point where I really wanted to play them.
For me this would be:
Old World
Endless Legends
With old world it seemed kind of....tedious? Too tedious.
With endless it seemed like...it was desaturated? I mean, it was like there were a lot of spices everywhere but everything still tasted like cardboard.