u/Alfieblackpool

My girlfriend won’t let me break up with her. This is the hardest and most upsetting thing ever.

M22 here and Ive failed to break up with my girlfriend F20.

So as of the past couple of weeks, I’ve came to realise I don’t really want a relationship anymore and my love for my girlfriend isn’t there, I’m no longer interested in doing couple things, hard to say but I’m no longer interested in her as a person, want to be single and properly enjoy life and not have the commitment. It’s nothing to do with my girlfriend, she loves me so much, is obsessed with me to the max, hasn’t done anything wrong at all and is so pretty so this will have come out of nowhere for her because she proper thinks we was fine.

So I asked my girlfriend if she wanted to go on a drive and that I needed a talk with her and she was instantly alarmed when I mentioned a talk, so I picked her up and we parked up to a quiet car park and I explained what I wanted to do, and that I wasn’t feeling this relationship and explained it wasn’t her at all but it’s for my needs.

She went into a full meltdown, and seemed to me like she had a physiatric episode, moving around aimlessly and she began screaming and shouting “WHY, WHY, WHY, PLEASE NO PLEASE NO PLEASE TELL ME THIS IS A NIGHTMARE” whilst I was just sat there tearing up hating myself. She was saying things like “I really can’t live without you, I can not”, “you’re not Leaving me I’ve done nothing wrong”, basically she isn’t letting me leave and for her sake I said I’ll give it another chance. She was saying other things like “I’ll do anything you want me to do, i try my best for you, I literally can’t live a life without you”

Now I am just so upset, Confused and depressed and really don’t know where to go as I am actually concerned she would harm herself if I did break up. All my friends are telling me to block her and she can’t do anything but I feel like she would go to extents…

Please help me.

EDIT: she is now messaging me telling me she’s bought me a new ps5 with gta 6 pre ordered and booked us a weekend away on holiday……

I had the worse night of my life last night.

I had the worse experience I’ve ever felt last night.

So at around 9pm me and my friend decided to get some weed called “sour diesel” from my cousin. We bought 2g. My friend rolled the joint for us, and we smoked it in his garage. I never really smoke weed, but was bored and thought it would be funny to get high. My friend smokes it quite regularly. We was passing it back and forth, in total I think I had around 8 drags.

However, as soon as I stood up after smoking it, I felt like I was in another dimension. Nothing felt real. I felt like I was in a nightmare, that was inescapable. I felt like my mind was going crazy, my friend was trying to speak to me, I replied to him in my head but couldn’t speak. My heart was racing really fast. I really did feel as if I was on another planet, like a zombie, and that I wasn’t real at all, I felt I was never gonna come back to reality. I kept looking at my mate saying “this is too much are you sure this is weed” I really didn’t know where I was.

At one point I was showing my friend messages on my phone that another friend had sent me, in my head I was reading the messages out but I realised that I hadn’t even spoke 10 seconds later.

What actually happened here? Did I overdose. This was genuinely traumatic.

So I was out drinking yesterday with my dad and my brother and we went to a bar and sat outside and this drunk girl starts talking to my dad randomly and my dad pointed and my brother and me saying these 2 are my kids. She liked my brother calling him handsome and everything and then she looked at me and said I’m average. Said something about me having brown eyes and him blue.

She then looked at me again and messed with my hair and called me handsome but I feel like she said this cause she felt bad.

This really hurt my confidence as I was already thinking I’m not good looking earlier in the day etc, it really annoyed me. Especially with my dad and brother making jokes about it

So I was out drinking yesterday with my dad and my brother and we went to a bar and sat outside and this drunk girl starts talking to my dad randomly and my dad pointed and my brother and me saying these 2 are my kids. She liked my brother calling him handsome and everything and then she looked at me and said I’m average. Said something about me having brown eyes and him blue.

She then looked at me again and messed with my hair and called me handsome but I feel like she said this cause she felt bad.

This really hurt my confidence as I was already thinking I’m not good looking earlier in the day etc, it really annoyed me. Especially with my dad and brother making jokes about it

So I was out drinking yesterday with my dad and my brother and we went to a bar and sat outside and this drunk girl starts talking to my dad randomly and my dad pointed and my brother and me saying these 2 are my kids. She liked my brother calling him handsome and everything and then she looked at me and said I’m average. Said something about me having brown eyes and him blue.

She then looked at me again and messed with my hair and called me handsome but I feel like she said this cause she felt bad.

I have been told I’m handsome before by people etc but I just don’t believe it and don’t really know what to think tbh.

This really hurt my confidence as I was already thinking I’m not good looking earlier in the day etc, it really annoyed me. Especially with my dad and brother making jokes about it

I managed to get my first sale which is a moncler jacket, but I’m scared that if I send the jacket out and he finds it’s a fake and reports it and gets to keep it and I don’t get my money.

How can I prevent this from happening. It’s a good jacket fake

I’m looking where to start but there’s so much to take in, where should I look.

I want to get into the reselling game but I need a place to start, everytime I post on Vinted no one views it or even likes it

So I’ve currently just been sacked from my job I’m looking to make money whilst I have a free time and hopefully turn it into a full-time thing.

I have a very good fake Canada goose gilet and very good moncler jacket fake that I’m tryna say. However, every time I list them either on Vinted or eBay, they get banned straight away and delisted

What’s the best way to start this? And where should I start? Thank you

Genuinely hating life, and so lost right now

So about 3 weeks ago I got a new job as a factory worker, the job was just your standard factory job, but this morning I had a call about a decision they they’re letting me go due to me not hitting targets and taking long breaks. My fault I guess, because it was agency they could just let me go whenever. I left my permanent previous role as a lifeguard for this just to get sacked

Problem is, I really don’t know where I am in life. I have a girlfriend that I don’t really like, there’s no problems in our relationship and she’s a great gf, but I don’t really like her and want to be single.

I’m very slow in the head, and think I have some kind of problem or something because I can’t do the basic shit in life and can’t follow simple things.

I’ve had about 6 jobs in 2 years and been fired from each one because I’m useless.

This is my last hope, I just really need help. I don’t know what to do.

Please give me a advice

So about 3 weeks ago I got a new job as a factory worker, the job was just your standard factory job, but this morning I had a call about a decision they they’re letting me go due to me not hitting targets and taking long breaks. My fault I guess, because it was agency they could just let me go whenever.

Problem is, I really don’t know where I am in life. I have a girlfriend that I don’t really like, there’s no problems in our relationship and she’s a great gf, but I don’t really like her and want to be single.

I’m very slow in the head, and think I have some kind of problem or something because I can’t do the basic shit in life and can’t follow simple things.

I’ve had about 6 jobs in 2 years and been fired from each one because I’m useless.

This is my last hope, I just really need help. I don’t know what to do.

Please give me a advice

So at 8pm we are due the update for black ops 2. Now me and everyone single person in the cod community is really hoping for the backfill to be fixed, if not it’s going to ruin EVERYONES WEEKEND AND MOOD

PLEASE PLEASE IRON GALAXY AND ACTIVISION. I really wanna play this game again as I love it but can’t because of the lobbies not backfilling.!!!

Genuine question because this is what made me quit but I was enjoying it so much I’m genuinely so sad

The lobbies not back filling has killed the game for me.

It happens every game, we end the match, no one joins, game starts 3vs3 then everyone leaves again. It’s a shame as I was enjoying it so much but this has single handedly killed it for me. Who the hell wants to play 2vs2 every match

Good job iron galaxy you absolute incompetent retards.

They can clearly see that it’s all being leaked JUST SAY SOMETHING STOP WAITING AND PISSING EVERYONE OFF. Absolute bunch of idiots