u/Bitter-Hitter

Just like them horses- Reba

Since it’s summer and lots of us have kids that are not in school, are there any good places to go for day trips or fun overnight trips? Kid friendly of course 😊

I have been a customer of Wells Fargo for over twenty years. Today I got an email from Wells Fargo with a secure message using Wix. I’ve never had them send me anything like that before. Anyway, I logged on and it required a secure verification code so I thought it might be legitimate.

The message said that I had a document missing from my small business credit card application. I’ve never applied for this. There was a phone number at the bottom. So I called it. It was an automated system. I spoke to a representative and he said that he could look up my account by the application number (which I didn’t have) or my social security number 🫪. NO!!

Just a heads up!

Not a big thing but something that bugs me a lot. I took my daughter out for lunch today at Sultans Mediterranean Grill because their food is really good 🌯! I go back to grab a Dr Pepper and it’s like $2.50. 🤷🏼‍♀️ Whatever. They have a tablet where you tap your card and have the option to leave a tip and quick before I knew it the server added a $1.25 tip and totalled it out. $3.75. I didn’t catch it until I was out the door because I was in a hurry and had my kid.

But, what?! Adding tips? And yes I did tip our order the first time. I didn’t go back or say anything. I figured that word of mouth is good enough. Sucks because I like that place.

Today is day one after years and years of not having seen a sober day. I was sober for almost 15 years at one point but I stopped going to meetings. My work took over, I got married and life seemed more important. It wasn’t. I don’t know when I crossed the tipping point.

I know that I’m dragging along rock bottom and I can’t do it anymore now though. I have a few meetings lined up for today. I know that I just have to make it to midnight. That’s all any of us can do right?

Just drove by the closed Rite-Aide in The Marketplace and it looks like there’s going to be a five Below opening in the store, there. It’s on Ming and Haggins Oak.

I’m a F/46, lost my husband unexpectedly three years ago and have a 12 yo daughter. I think that after losing my husband I had this idea that there was a pre-widowing and post-loss stage. I assumed that my grief would change because of the time away from the initial shock. But, I have learned that my life has changed in so many different ways.

Many days I get down on myself because of where I am and where I thought I would have been (if he hadn’t died at all). My brain forgets that everything changed one day in March 2023. A terrible butterfly effect. There are days that I sit in my house and feel like I’m going to end up a homeless old woman, completely forgetting that I’m in a rental house for a few months while waiting for my old home to sell.

I just needed to check in. I hope everyone is doing well. Thanks for letting me rant!