I think Tori and Andre should’ve stayed friends.

Obviously they did because the show never continued but I don’t see the romantic connection between them too tbh. I think everyone confuses chemistry with romance but they’re friends,they’re suppose to have chemistry 😂

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u/BlueJoyyy — 4 days ago

I think it’s justifiable to not apologize to ppl you don’t like

Obvious it doesn’t have to make it right. But it’s like why would I ever apologize to someone I don’t like honestly and if they don’t like me,why would they apologize?! Also this doesn’t contain the worst of the worst types of things.

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u/BlueJoyyy — 4 days ago
▲ 33 r/NoStupidAnswers+1 crossposts

Does anyone know any good legit side hustles that don’t require a car/license?

Also a side hustle that doesn’t really require any schooling.

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u/BlueJoyyy — 5 days ago
▲ 3 r/YoungAdultStruggles+2 crossposts

23 lost in life and some advice would be much appreciated.

This might be long.
So for starters, I’m 23f and overall I feel very lost on what I want to do with my life fr(mainly career wise). I currently work in fast food and want to upgrade from that but don’t know what the next step should be. I’m in the process of applying for different higher paying jobs,and I plan on getting my driver license and from there to get a driving job or a CDL. It may not be much but it will definitely be an upgrade from now.
But other than that Idk what to do,College was going to be a plan but the major I wanted to pursue didn’t turn out exactly the way I wanted and a lot of the majors I researched I wasn’t interested in and that was over 2 years ago.

I don’t really like working fr despite getting compliments about being a good worker, All I know is that I want to see the world.

So my options fr from my perspective,is to get a passport and maybe apply for flight attendant and see what happens from there,go into the military next year(because I can’t keep living in limbo year after year),work overseas,do OTR to obtain a CDL, or try to research more into 2 years degrees and apply for community college. Also I’ve thought about the trades as well(mainly apprenticeships). I feel like I’m 23 and should know what I want in my life and it sucks maybe having to sacrifice fun in order to live a better life for myself.

I just don’t want to make the wrong choice and regret it.

Can anyone else relate and if so what choice you end up making or what is the best thing you can recommend me for me? I would like to hear some ppl’s opinions because I don’t really have anyone IRL I can talk about this fr without shame or embarrassment on my end.

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u/BlueJoyyy — 14 days ago

I wasn’t expecting Fast food to be this exhausting

Rant incoming:

I’ve been working in fast food for almost two years and it’s honestly draining me! I never wanted this job in the first place but needed it because of bills and work experience. This is my first job.

I’ve learned patience and customer service dynamics and how to deal with difficult ppl, and gained confidence with learning the register but it’s not worth it anymore and even made a friend.

Customers getting mad over things we can’t control as crew members like upscale on food prices,or added prices or restaurant procedures that literally change overnight(I’m not exaggerating with that part). We’re understaff almost every day and I’m expected to do the work of 3 to 4 sometimes 5 ppl but getting paid as 1 person. Constant stress,rushes with doordash/mobiles orders and taking customers orders at the same time and I’m just 1 person,rude customers with an attitude before I can even greet them at the register and the pay is not worth all this fr! I have to stay extra few hours because ppl refuse to come to work and this is on a pretty consistent basis. So I’m physically and mentally tired all at the same time.

So I hate the idea of a job is a job and be thankful and I am but this job is burning me out and it’s time to say goodbye very soon. I don’t even care to go the extra mile anymore because of this and my work performance is slacking a bit because of this, but not super drastic. Fast food is just not worth working for in the long run unless you thrive in customer service and have a passion for food imo. And this made me realize customer service is not for me honestly. I can make it work but I rather not be in this type of industry.

I dread clocking back in tomorrow 😭

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u/BlueJoyyy — 1 month ago

I never understood the friends x lovers love story trope

It’s always super cute in the movies and tv shows. But irl in my experience,I can’t see it working for me unless I already liked the guy prior but even then if that’s the case I wouldn’t considered him a friend fr.

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u/BlueJoyyy — 1 month ago

Is it weird to never post others on your social media?

On my social media, I barely if ever post friends/family. I can be out and the way I post,ppl would think I’m alone. And I want to know what are other people’s thoughts on this or does anyone do the same thing?

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u/BlueJoyyy — 1 month ago

Have you ever moved far away to reinvent yourself and start a new life and what happened?

I wanna hear stories of people packing up all their stuff and moving states or moving out of the country to create a new identity for themselves and how did that went,why did you want a new identity in the first place,where did you go,did you went back home,and do you have any regrets?

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u/BlueJoyyy — 2 months ago
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What keeps you motivated to still believe in God when you feel lost in your faith?

So Im 22F and I’m not super into religion,I’m pretty non-religious all together. I do feel spiritual at most,but still call myself a Christian of someone was to ask what my religion is(due to family upbringing,it’s easier to explain and still believing in God/Jesus Christ/higher power). I’ve been looking into reading the bible more despite feeling iffy about it sometimes(due to not knowing 100% whether these are God’s words or not).

There’s certain things that happened in my life that I feel like God was involved but I also sometimes struggle with calling out for God with some things in my life and still no answers or resolution(and yes that’s not a way to think fr but again it’s a struggle).

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u/BlueJoyyy — 2 months ago