To all the Redditors

To all the Redditors

Just a follow up on my first post about a surprise for my wife. First off she loved the thought and concept behind the pumpkins and decided to leave it alone and not mess with it. Second, the ski poles on the shed was appreciated however she immediately suggested adding a set of antique wood skis and wood snow shoes to complete the aesthetic. Lastly , the comments here were helpful and somewhat intriguing especially the ones made about some of your own husbands! Anyway the support has inspired me to expand on my decorating projects and I plan to share some more in the future. Thank you all once again and may the sun shine warm your shoulders on your way back home.

u/ButterscotchTasty386 — 4 days ago

Furniture salespeople in the Middletown area

So my girlfriend and I have recently moved into the area and need to fully furnish our new home inside and out. We decided to start at a few familiar places, Raymour,Ashley, and Bobs. First off the sales people at EVERY LOCATION was so incredibly aggressive and overbearing that we actually had one try to give me their personal cellphone number to “follow up with “. At the one place by Walmart the sales guy actually told my girlfriend that she had “great taste in furniture but , should explore the more expensive, less boring options “! We’re in our late sixties and dealt with sales people our entire lives, but this level of aggressiveness was quite alarming. The last place we went to we were “assigned “ a salesperson who before even asking what exactly we were looking for requested our purchase budget and approximate credit scores. Is this normal for this area?

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u/ButterscotchTasty386 — 23 days ago
▲ 10 r/Life

Once I achieve my goals I lose interest

I’m 51 years old and have noticed lately when I achieve a goal or project I quickly lose interest, let me explain. I recently spent years building a camper from scratch to go camping with that I have always enjoyed doing so much. Spent thousands of dollars and man hours, it came out perfectly and now that’s it’s complete I really have no interest in using it. Also , I’ve joined a gun club, spent thousands on exotic rifles and equipment, went a handful of times, lost interest. Got into bicycle riding and built a few custom bikes and now don’t ride them at all. What’s wrong with me?

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u/ButterscotchTasty386 — 2 months ago

Looking for a quality 160 mm , 6 bolt rotor in gold..

I can’t seem to find anything except these Amazon and Temu $10 ones. Any suggestions for a reputable brand?

u/ButterscotchTasty386 — 2 months ago
▲ 1 r/ponds

Murky water question

This little pond (approximately 250 gallons) in my garden got extremely murky this year. This is the eighth year I’ve had it and I have always kept the water clear , using my SolarRiver pump to aerate and adding a few barley bales here and there with a few pieces of submerged copper for added help. Typically here in upstate New York I do one maybe two partial water changes and never really had it get like this. I used to have plants but it really made no noticeable difference so I stopped doing that years ago. So my question is , are there any safe , home remedy alternatives to clear up the water? We have an insane amount of tadpoles and frogs living here btw. Ty!!!!

u/ButterscotchTasty386 — 3 months ago

ID please! United States,Upstate New York

We get these now and again, usually after a drought followed by a quick rain. This one is in a very shady area.

u/ButterscotchTasty386 — 3 months ago
▲ 78 r/Life

I’ve systematically destroyed all friendships I’ve ever had

I’m a male , early fifties, and I have not a single friend anymore. In my teens through my forties I was very popular and had many friends who I would see or at least talk to everyday. Something happened around 46 years old when I started removing myself from my friends for no apparent reason. It was like a switch, I basically stopped all contact with my friends, even lifelong friends I had since I was 10 years old. Eventually I was down to one last friend and recently he blocked me on all social media platforms and blocked my phone number. I know it’s me, I know I’m the problem. I just need a friend, and now it’s harder than ever to find one

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u/ButterscotchTasty386 — 3 months ago

Just figured out what the weird tray on the upper rack is for on my Bosch dishwasher

Put your sponges in there when you run sanitize option, they come out like brand new!

u/ButterscotchTasty386 — 3 months ago

Can I use roof sealer tape over the old lap sealer of if I clean it well?

Trying to avoid removing and reapplying lap sealer tape again. Note- There are no leaks as of now , just a maintenance project

u/ButterscotchTasty386 — 3 months ago

What plants,shrubs or trees would look nice ?

I have these weird pockets of space around my home that are very bare. Should I consider planting in these places or would you keep it the way it is? I took a front and rear picture of the house so you could see the aesthetic of the layout. Ultimately if I was to add something it would have to be perennial and extremely low maintenance. I already have an abundance of ferns around if that makes any difference. Thank you for your input and time.

u/ButterscotchTasty386 — 3 months ago
▲ 67 r/Life

I’m at the age where i honestly need nothing from anyone

It’s not what you think. I’m not saying I don’t want things (relationships, friends, family ect) but now that I’m in my fifties I’ve realized how I never had anything given to me and how I worked for everything I have . In the end it’s all me. After all is said and done, I genuinely believe I need nothing from anyone. That’s all

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u/ButterscotchTasty386 — 4 months ago
▲ 2 r/LandscapingPros+1 crossposts

Getting estimates for lawn and plants reinstalled after damage from roof washing.

Getting estimates,here in upstate New York, between $2200 and $4000, does this sound reasonable for soil remediation and sod installation including a few small boxwoods and some Myrtle?

u/ButterscotchTasty386 — 4 months ago

Frame bag

Big enough for my phone and keys, not an issue with riding. Never thought of putting this on my dj but it’s almost unnoticeable when riding

u/ButterscotchTasty386 — 4 months ago