u/Collt092

For the sake of privacy, and this post, not being discovered by the people involved. I am going to rename everything in this.long story short I work with a girl,a little older then me,she’s 23 I’m 22(I’m a man btw) we’ve been working together for 2ish years. And we’ve always been incredibly good friends, we share just about everything with each other other, and it is certainly way beyond a fake coworker friendship.point being,every day I walk her to her car. it used to be because of a creepy guy who used to work with us, but now it is just because we want to hang out and have some good talk, and every single night we give each other a hug,say I love you,move on. And recently she’s been getting more flirty, and I’ve been picking up the signs. We have always had chemistry in that regard, but never outright flirting.

some examples of recent advances,She walked by me one day and just slowly brushed her hand around my neck as she walked behind me in the break room,She texted me on my day off asking If i worked, when I said that I did not work,she said“Cause I do today and I was hoping you did too”, she invites herself to sit next to me on our breaks and she sits maybe a foot away from me and it is just the two of us in the corner of the room.the other day, we even watched a movie on break, as soon as we arrive to work and as soon as we clock out, we both follow each other, we open doors for one another, we retrieve things for one another, and I walk with her to the time clock, to the floor, then we say I love you to each each other, hug one another, and then we go about our separate ways as we work, in fact, most times we even leave the room from one another we give each other a hug .And then when we clock out, I say “ I will meet you”, and then we merge around the time clock and then I walk her to her car. on top of that, I know incredibly personal things about her,like her relationship history in “detail”, and she knows the same thing about me.

there is just one problem though,she has a boyfriend who lives in Washington.in fact, it’s a boyfriend that we talk about maybe once every three months, whether it is the fact that he is going to visit her, she is going to visit him. Or something that he is making for her, or some fun thing they did the other day. Point being I am confused, she sends me all these incredibly flirtatious gestures, and yet she has a boyfriend very openly? How does she feel about me? I have an inclination. I am simply her emotional boyfriend.am I like her gay wing man (not literally)?. what do you guys think is going on?

I got a unfinished tattoo on Tuesday,from my bicep to mid forearm,it lasted at least 7 hours.My skin feels like when you accidentally shock yourself, and it’s heavy for a moment,a little buzzing sensation across your skin only that feeling is consistent instead of lasting a second.and it feels heavy,and sore,are these normal symptoms