u/Complex_Attitude_

My friend is obese 5"1 and 83 kgs dark skin . Her husband 5'8" fair skin tone muscular guy feels he is more attractive than her. Adi nijame. He is a nice guy and they two kids.

Kids tharavatha thanu chala lavu ayindi ... Honest ga cheppali ante obese. Thanu kuda accept chesthadi...

Kani kids,.valla school inka chores lo thanu weight loss inka looks meedha interest poyindi....

Thanaki feelings ekkuva kani husband ki interest ravadam ledu...

Thanu valla husband ni adigindi exciting ga emaina try cheddam ante valla husband kothaga oka ammayi ni thesku ra annadu...

Thanu chala sad ga vundi... Ma friend chala sweet and kind person. Thanaki chala matches tharavatha edi set ayindi...

Thanu ki evaru epudu propose kuda cheyya ledu... I mean chala make friends vunnaru kani evadu aa point of view lo chuda ledu...

She wants her husband to become intimate with her.

Naku oka man point of view lo obese lady valla husband ni romance """ ante prema ga touch cheyadam inka interest ela pench chu..

Physically they are active - she does whatever he asks and sometimes when he is also in mood he will give or rest of the time he will just skip or humiliate her for looks.

She wants her husband passionate love. How can she get it.

I'm looking for berry , mauve, terracota, dusty rose shades of My Lip But Better lipsticks 💄

Ladies please pour in your recommendation and fave!

Sure your suggestions are going to be amazing. TIA

I stopped reacting. Because anything I ask becomes an accusation and ends up in conflict and the statement that he is not going to change.

I'm an outsider even after 8 years. I do agree initially I was angry on so many things. I made sarcastic comments and the rude statements that might have left a scar.

I didn't enjoy the same way as the family did.

Now my husband is distant from me. He doesn't share anything. We only talk logistics . He talks so comfortably with my cosister than me.

My mind has so many things running - the list of chores to be done and finished that even when he speaks I m literally unable to hear.

I don't have any hearing issue cause I realized whenever I m lost in my own thoughts, I am zoning out . Other times I can even read between the lines.

He feels unheard and he is resentful that I never listen.

This one incident where I booked the appointment for the same day instead of the next day. I did a mistake he yelled at me - I was defensive at first but later accepted my mistake and further in the day even thanked for pointing out. He was upset for a long time and the yelling continued.

When he yells I become silent thinking that he wants to vent out but he expects answer but the truth is I don't know the answer. Should I tell what's on my mind or what he wants to listen. I don't even know what he wants to hear when he pointing out my mistakes.

I see him speak so freely with his siblings and parents. No matter he gets back to them and he is happily talking. With me it's only yelling and even that is unheard.

How can I pay more attention to him? May be I remind him of the pressure, resentment and contempt from the marriage.

How can I make him feel more comfortable?

Why can't we delete chats on reddit.

There would be more users who would be happier to delete chats. Why can't we....

Other platforms even have edit feature. Here we are still not addressing the basic issue of delete chats

Our family has just started a bussiness in rural area. They are seeking promotion and marketing ideas.

I m a s/w engineer and dont have much idea in marketing.

How can i help my family

I put my hair in mostly bun. Wash once a week.
I m not a big fan of hair oiling.
Wash: shampoo , leave in conditioner and serum for taming.

I would like to know what could be better .

I started talking to a gender fluid person ( AMAB but feminine). I didn't even know if it existed.

They got busy but I loved those conversations. Someone talking about fashion without the gossip or creepiness.

They were so amazing that they left a good feeling in me.

I decided to let go. But I still wish I was friends with someone who was a gender fluid person talking about Indian fashion, desi tech companies and alot more.

They were the first friends I made after years.

I don't think I have got the energy to make another one.

I will still cherish them as a memory.

My husband is going to be forty.

What does it feel like. He is already a silent man and never does this talking about feeling.

I really want to know what it feels like.

What are major differences?

What’s the thing that you’re spouse did that made you feel butterflies in my tummy.

I’ll go first - he used to pick me up and drop me to office even before we got married.

It might sound silly but that was a very big thing for me on my checklist.

Sounds silly but it special to me. What are those good things about the relationship.

Something that you are grateful for. 😊

How much of jokes/comments / criticism is okay and what is the topic or thing where you draw the line.

I m often tagged and sensetive and not anyone jokes on me. But sometimes they are suprised by the way my husband jokes on me?

I mean like what are the boundaries for others and what are for the partners/ family?

I always wondered how do women with such pretty nails do chores?

I always wanted them but I have this household chores and regular work which makes not a feasible option.

How do you guys manage?