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Used wranglers mileage

I searched used wranglers in my area and noticed most of them are from recent years 2022+ and their mileage is around 20k-40k miles.

Is this the mileage they start giving issues? Or is it a coincidence they have almost the same range in miles?

My other theory was maybe they were leased jeeps.

I currently have a ‘24 Sahara at 19k miles. Hoping to get a lot of miles out of mine but also concerned of any future potential issues.

TLDR - We began as friends , but we got into this weird phase where we consider each other bf/gf he never officially asked me.

I’ve mentioned this before , I initially didn’t want to have a title I felt men quickly disappear after and wanted to make sure this guy was sure.

We hang out once a week but we are never around our families or parents. Only met each others parents like once in 2/3 years.

It feels like we have a double life , where we are dating but then at home we carry our own individual lives.

I have more details but I keep getting issues posting and currently crying in the bathroom at work.

I ask myself is this it ? Have I had enough ?

She’s the only person he bites at home and when he bites her she tends to swat him away, sometimes near missing him and I’m pretty sure this fuels more to the fire.

He is not “tame” but I feel having her at home doesn’t help with making him tame. He tends to lick my skin and then nip, but for her it’s a full on bite / attack.

My (31F) mom (61F) is mad at me because I asked her for the money she owed me

She went on a trip to her home country in May, I had sent my cousin some things she wanted to buy, my cousin owed me $180.

Anyway, some family emergency happened and she couldn’t send me the money, since my mom sends money to her brother (cousins dad) my cousin and I figured she’d give it to her dad and my mom would pay me instead of sending him the money.

In total my mom owed me $140 , $100 from my cousin and $40 for something else.

This month (July) we found out another relative on my dad’s side was sick with cancer, the entire family in the US pitched in with a fund. My mom asked me to send her $100, upping her total to $240 now.

Today I asked her if she was in fact sending $100 to the other relative and reminding her “it’s $240” now.

Anyway, she got mad at me and yelled at me telling me she has bills to pay. Now she’s just mad and taking it out on my dad as well.

Like she’s angry angry.

I’m starting to feel bad and second guessing myself.

What makes her feel she can just not pay me back for money and then get mad when I ask for it ?

Am I overreacting for feeling upset that she’s mad at me?

A lot of married men I see need to “ask permission” to their wife for doing something or “my wife let me do something I like”. A lot of the verbiage sounds like they have to give up their activities and things they like in order to be married.

Almost like marriage is a prison but they happily oblige. I’ve also heard it said not in context of anger or resentful, Like they’re actually okay with it.

Do men enjoy living like this? Is it the trade off of marriage. ?

For some reason, in the past maybe year and a half (maybe a little more) I developed anxiety. Whenever I am confronted or someone wants to argue / fight or maybe an accident happens anything of that sort that unsettles tranquility- my body goes into what I think is anxiety.

My body begins to shake, usually hands and legs and I feel my heart race, my face gets hot. It could be something as dumb as an argument or disagreement.

But I know that never in my entire life before I had ever felt or reacted that way.

I don’t think I had ever felt anxiety, aside from usual nervousness before. It throws me off thinking maybe I developed now, but why now and not before?

I’m so upset I don’t even remember what I had. Didn’t even get to take a picture.

Only one I remember is the L’Oréal dream length conditioner 😔

They drank Boston dry, are we ready for this? 👀

Obviously not seeking medical advice. But wondering those who have survived or family members experience-

My cousin is 24 and around a year ago her hand started to go randomly numb, last Monday it increased to her entire right half of the body. She was taken to the dr who did a scan and they found a brain clot in her brain, it’s above the right ear.

Shes under medication but she will have to go through surgery.

Her parents and siblings are being very negative and basically as if this is it for her. Even though the doctors gave a positive outcome that she will be fine.

I’m sad, worried and stressed for her.

Thinking of using the middle name Luna, what first names go with it ?