How do u face when someone uses filth language during an argument ?

Ante ,like oka argument jaruguthundhi, which is pretty common these days ( chinna vishayallo kuda tittestkuntunnaaru) and u are on one end and the other person starts using filthy language and c*ss words and family members involved - bad words etc. how do u face such a scenario? ( Getting physical is something which we mostly do but even the other party would then get physical as well and it would be 2 sided again , or sometimes it's a mob against single u ..so other than this ?)

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u/Downtown_Chip_9682 — 5 days ago

Selling a bike. How to transfer ownership ?

I am selling my bike . I am pretty much noob in this . So, what are the steps to do and additional things that' needs to be looked upon while doing this? Also, how to transfer ownership at RTO office , how much time will it take and how much would it cost?

Experienced can help 🙏🏻 thanks!

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u/Downtown_Chip_9682 — 7 days ago

Marriage is scary. Journey is even scary what if :

When u get an LHB coach train yet find WAG-7 as ur engine , it's more painful than a heartbreak 💔.

Inframe : 17330 Bza - Hubli daily express train.

u/Downtown_Chip_9682 — 8 days ago

How not to make tiramisu

Insta lo oka influencer recipe choosi tiramisu ( with high protein ) try cheddaam anukunna. Oka new style lo undhi ani.

Amma ki motivation occha ,super untundhi ani . Inka she let me do annamaata . Recipe ki osthe rusk theeskuni black coffee dip lo munchi oka layer veyyaali. Next , high protein low fat paneer teeskuni maple syrup, honey ,milk and pinch of salt mixer lo vesi occhina cream ni layer lo pettaali. Next malli rusk layer petti last lo cocoa powder challi 3-4 hrs fridge lo pettaali. Ila cheppaaru recipe.

As it is follow ayya, kaani paneer endhuku le , calories ekkuva ani konchem change chesi tofu vesa anthe. 3 hrs tarvatha thindhaamani poyya , colour baane undhi ,not bad . Taste vishaayaniki osthe apsara rubber thinadam better anipinchindhi. Motham voosesa. Ofcourse , Amma titlu next level lo occhaayi . So , adhi guys , ivaala story . Malli next recipe ki brathiki unte malli inkoka episode tho ostha . Antha varaku, heart issues unnavaalu jaagratha 😀.

u/Downtown_Chip_9682 — 11 days ago

Are unregistered temple-donations allowed ?

There's this temple 250 mts away from my home which is a small temple within the colony owned by a 60 yr old woman. She organises the events and takes the donations of hundi for herself . May be ,that would be used up for maintainence of temple.

Every year she organises an annaprasadam ( food being served to people on behalf of temple ). For that she collects money from everyone in the area ( nearly 100 houses may be ) with a minimum denomination of 1000/- and maximum is their wish. She collects it on behalf of temple. We used to give money every year .

But,I don't know why , this time it's becoming more suspicious to me. Her son owns a bike mechanic shop and she's not so rich but is constructing two 3-floor buildings while she already owns 2 houses already. This made me so suspicious about whether is she mis-using money under name of temple. That's not a registered temple even. It's not about just giving money to temple that's my issue , if it's properly going for food ,it's fine. But ,i don't know if she is putting some in her pocket . This money isn't taxable even. Are there anyways to verify this?

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u/Downtown_Chip_9682 — 13 days ago

Anyone who jogs / cycles on the steel plant road ?

I mean any event that happens in vizag happens in and around main city ⛱️ most of the times. Trekking, cycling , jogging , sports meet etc. People who live across the other end asalu memu vizag manushalame ani cheppukovaalsosthundi ( from NAD to aganampudi). Night life / events / meetups / gathering friends is tougher on this side . We can't even attend most of the events that happen in vizag coz of the linearity of the city 🥲.

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u/Downtown_Chip_9682 — 17 days ago

For all the overthinkers !!

For all of us who overthink , over-worry or may be suffer from OCD ( sub clinical ) , we all are constantly packed with thoughts in our mind . Be it of any form . We over think a situation,over-worry a consequence and always live in a 24/7 threat ideology, losing our brain space , peace and life .

We also wonder why only me? Why people around me aren't overthinking like me? Why aren't they worrying about the situation which we do? Well , getting into science ,there are many theories behind it with most predominantly accepted thing being an imbalance in pre frontal cortex and caudate nucleus . Also , some view it as an evolutionary imprint ,where our ancestors used to live under constant threat of attack or worry.

While keeping all this aside , there's way we all can come out through this. People kept names to it which I never understand, mindfulness ,awareness ,detachment ,thokka tholu etc.People tell us not to engage with negative thoughts ( which is impossible).

The concept of identifying thoughts as good and bad is the biggest harm anyone can do to themselves. Thoughts are just mere by-products of mind's activity. It just produces thoughts . There is no erasure for thoughts . U can't simply hide a thought. The more u try , the more it re-appears. And ,thoughts aren't classified as good and bad at all. "Imagining I got 1st rank is a good thought, I stepped on a cow dung is a bad thought" , No, it doesn't exist like that. It's just a thought. ( Especially to those people who have OCD who find obsessions very much intrusive and do compulsions thinking they are good ). Don't get identified by a thought. Don't define urself with how u think or what ur thoughts are. It's just a thought just like sweat or any other secretions in ur body.

All u have to do is , just imagine all the thoughts being produced by ur mind freely flowing in ur mind , They are just thoughts , they can be as weird as it can be , they can be intrusive or anything ( it's just a thought) and u just observe them , don't react . Once u stop reacting , thoughts lose power. They don't have any meaning. U just observe them and may be laugh if they are weird. Pick up only those thoughts that u need and let the other thoughts freely float , don't give identity to those thoughts , don't give importance, most importantly, DON'T STOP ANY THOUGHT. it's just a thought. Overtime , ur mind learns to loosen out the thing and gets adapted to you. It doesn't even take much long time to practice. Hardly 2-3 days of proper practice and ur mind sub consciously starts learning it and becomes pro in it.

These are not some random things that I created. I read from many books ( both scientific and non scientific) , Heard from many people and also on podcasts. Yes ,they kept terms to it, detachment, mindfulness etc while the "soul" of everything is this same thing .!

This works like charm for people with OCD and anxiety. The same concept , OCD feeds on obsessions . Anxiety feeds on importance. Break the loop , exhale the power of those thoughts and they mostly vanish. ( Not a medical advice though, but this is being practiced for OCD and GAD ).

It boils down to " IT'S JUST A THOUGHT, A POWERLESS THING WITH NO MEANING ,MEANING AND POWER COMES ONCE WE ATTACH IT WITH US, SO CHOOSE WHAT U WANT TO ATTACH ".

u/Downtown_Chip_9682 — 19 days ago

Men in this sub, drop ur skin care routine and the brands that worked for u ?

Which worked for u and which didn't along with skin type. Keep santoor sabbu out of discussion 🤧

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u/Downtown_Chip_9682 — 21 days ago

Final destination : Indian version.

Indian railways honestly should find a solution for the gap between platform edge and the door entrance . It's so horrifying at some stations to an extent even youth fears climbing them forget about elderly people and physically challenged. On one side , bullet trains are getting launched and on other side , people still slip and fall into this gap.

(Pic sourced from internet ).

u/Downtown_Chip_9682 — 23 days ago

Are political parties now going to such an extent they see us just as " vote count " ?

Recently a political person announced incentive for having 3rd and 4th child for 30k-40k. There were many instances in past where many other people said the same . How on earth do people openly say this? Mere 30k for a life and then ? No resources , no proper education , private schools mafia , government schools instability, poor infrastructure, unemployment, pollution , lack of basic resources etc. They don't want to give all this, they want u to turn 18 and cast a vote for them while they throw 2k for vote on ur face and their job is done . Gosh, God knows where this country is heading towards.

P.S. I am not biased towards any person . Infact , i hate each and every POLITICAL person . Pls don't say fertility rate is declining now in India and is at 1.9. Population needs resources and we know how they are. A visit to tertiary/ district government hospital explains everything about population.

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u/Downtown_Chip_9682 — 2 months ago

Care taker in vizag ?

How to find a personal care-taker in vizag for a bed ridden elderly person for either 12 hrs / 24 hrs in a day ?

Are there any reliable agencies/ sites to find the people. Heard few are unrealiable .Hence please do help.

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u/Downtown_Chip_9682 — 2 months ago

How are people comfortable with "tuck / in-shirt " and " formal shoes " ?

I am a guy and I hate tucking in my shirt for the whole day at work place. It makes me so uncomfortable 😣, like I feel suffocating. I tend to remove but my seniors again ask me to do it citing work place ethics.

And goddamn , those formal shoes with socks are dreadful and nightmare for people with sweaty-feet. They wrinkle out the skin and stink at the end of the day.

Are there any tips to overcome this / make things comfortable with these ?

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u/Downtown_Chip_9682 — 2 months ago

Rain + sleeper + window seat + Spotify + soothing music + view + being alone = self-love

Secret recipe from Master oogway 🧬

u/Downtown_Chip_9682 — 2 months ago

What if " oath " actually is real ? ( In the sense ,if someone breaks their oath, they would die )

How would the dynamics of world change ? The first career to end would be politicians.. No one would dare become a politician again . 😂 I badly wish this was true. Next , courts would be non existent , just ask the person to take oath , they would tell the truth then .

Oath has just become a medium to give false impression to people under disguise of them criminal ideologies .

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u/Downtown_Chip_9682 — 2 months ago

I always have this habit of eating chewing gum to stay concentrated while working/ studying.I do take 2 - 3 gums at a time and chew for probably 2-3 hrs at a stretch. It just makes me concentrated.

But lately, it's causing severe temporal pain and also, ulcers due to bite over mucosa inside mouth. I tried to stop but it feels like I am not giving my 100 % and missing something in my mouth. So how to overcome all this ?

P.S. No sky jokes 😶

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u/Downtown_Chip_9682 — 2 months ago

22679/80 yesvantpur- hassan Superfast intercity express which used to run with LHB was downgraded to ICF an year ago and now to RCF memu from May 1st with same superfast name( no reservation anymore ), number and same time table .

u/Downtown_Chip_9682 — 2 months ago

Is it someone who has good memory and recall ability or someone who understands everything conceptually ( though not with good memory as the former) ?

For someone like me, it's only concepts that can put information into my long term memory. I lag behind in studying factual information and sometimes I fall behind my peers in this aspect wherein they are so good at retaining stuff.

Also , how does one study conceptually and understand things & how does one gain the ability to put factual , dry information in their mind?

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u/Downtown_Chip_9682 — 2 months ago