u/EnvironmentalWeb3179

Im unsure if im sx4 or 8, but im sure one of those is my tritype. Whats some differences on sx4 and 8? And the tritypes if that changes anything

Hey im a female , 20 years old.
I got diagnosed with conduct disorder around 14-15, the diagnoses is still there and talked about.

From what i know its only supposed to be for people under 18? So im having some confusion as i thought it either would be removed , or changed with aspd after.

Could anyone give me some clairty?

Big difference ik, its my old typing vs my fridnd typing me, im not to educated here, could someone give me a description of each?

Big difference ik, its my old typing vs my fridnd typing me, im not to educated here, could someone give me a description of each?

What do i do when im socially aware like anyone, but my partner has no awareness and is incapable of logic? It takes away my interest day by day and they dont change any mistakes. The mistakes they do out of no awarwness of me is stuff that affects me over n over

I am a female 20 years old

⁃	Strengths and weaknesses   

strengths- i can be very bold, smart, i notice things around me easily and i read body laungage well, i dont let anyone decide for me, im efficient in ways.

Weaknesses- i can be explosive, judgy, to direct, unwilling to meet people on the middle, stubborn, black and white thinking, i assume bad easily, lack of empathy, bad abondonment issues, i fear being alone or unsafe, i infact react bar to it

⁃	Morals and values  

Morals- my morals are whatever fits me in the moment, or whatever i think others should have, im not really depended on morals

Values- i value my closest family, my bff and my partner, my ability to do what i want, be comfortable, having fun etc is important to me

⁃	Logic vs feelings

Logic- im pretty logical, i like when people use logic, i like logic, its not my natural instinct, but its what i try to choose to use mostly

feelings- i have alot of feelings, moslty anger, agression, things like that, im not a emotionally expressive person, but my emotions switch in 1 second from 1-100, and not many will notice if i feel any bad emotion unless its to much anger or someone close to me that i trust , im pretty driven by feelings but i try to manage, aswell as im easily imulsive.

⁃	motives and fears  

motives- im motivated by happiness, fun, love life, whatever pleases me or my future etc. im motivated by the idea of having a calm future close to my family with a cat and dog

fears - i fear trypophobia, i fear being completely alone, i fear dying , i fear to always be stuck inside my room not able to live, i fear to not be happy. I fear not relying on others too

⁃	interests and ideas   

interests- i make edits, of tv characters, thats probably my favorite hobby, i like gaming, im pretty good, i love watching tv shows, or discussing typology with my friend, i also like participating in any team sport, mostly table tennis, fotball, basketball etc, its not a hobby but always fun, i like to shop, clothes, etc.

ideas- my ideas arent bad, theyr usually good, i dont have many diff ideas, just whatever fits in the needed moment, i improvise, not a huge thing in me,

⁃	social life   

I like a small circle, i do like partys, im not very outgoing, i like to have a few close friends, im kinda picky, i easily judge people for theyr wrongs and therefor i dont connect after, i prefer a night at home with a friend+ , watching movies, gossiping, or shopping

⁃	childhood  

As a kid i was very direct, impulsive, at age 5-11 i was very school focused, aswell as playfull, i tried to be the best, my parents were a bit ignorant my whole childhood so homework was a argument at home= i did everything to sucseed, at 11 i stopped focusing to much, became happier, always havign fun, i was the «class clown» , emotional and confident, i had anger issues

⁃	under stress  

I either snap, or nothing, in most cases i keep calmer then most i know, i can be nonchalant and focus, improvise, in argument stress cases i can be explosive in anger, and be egoistic, i can be focused on theyr wrongs, and them being slow, i loose controll of emotions basically sometimes.

⁃	what i value in others   

I value people who is smart, able to have fun without worrying to much , people who isnt slow, who i can talk to without them being boring or snitching,

Is esfp - esi possible? And for enneagram what could fit if so? I relate to sx2 sx8 and sx6 mostly

I belive im esfp sx 8w9, i previously typed as sx2 but seems like i lean towards 8. i relate ALOT to esi, and wonder if its possible? Im socially very introverted

Not sure what to write, feel free to ask anything.
Im a 20 yr old female, i do have bpd and more, like conduct disorder.

Things that motivates me is the idea of being anxiety free, happy, comfortable.
Some fears i have is ofc dying. The world going under, some less normal fears, i fear TRYPOPHOBIA😭hate that. I fear being a «loser» , alone, disliked, single forever etc

Im very dependant on people, FEW people, onlt 1 bff and my girlfriend. I depend most on my bff mentally, i want to have people close, but i do not feel mych for most of the ppl i call my «bestfriends»

In general i «feel» less good? Im kind of negative, and i dont feel empathy , im very direct and can be impulsive, aswell as i am competitive and if anyone triggers me ill have the worst thoughts abt them or bad actions, something i dont feel remorse for

My biggest emotions are anger, jealousy (relationship wise) and then anxiety. Thats some of my bad dominating traits.

Some good ones? Is that im very quick, i react quick, i improvise well even tho i hate spontanous, i can hide that. I read body laungage well and can know what to say to fit in, to help others, or to influence. Im good at logic when needed and can make up a solution that actually works, im a VERY people person, but my first priority is me, always. My mom too ofc but yeah

I love playing video games, super competitive, i love debating, i love vacations, i love to «win»

In a relationship im cold, my partner cries? I dont feel anything, and i hate that, but safly its true, the empathu curse or something, im in therapy for this. Im not a harmfull partner, but mentally i can be as im direct and blunt and often not patient.

At the same time i give alot, i give ALL my time to my gf, i help her w all her issues, give her tons of gifts which she melts for.

Friends would describe me as cool, fun, smart, etc, stereotype stuff.. im not a social person, i used to be, but now at 20 im introverted, in a sense where i prefer alot of alone time- does not count for my gf

I spend my days either being w my gf, OR texting her all the time, i also text my online bff all the time.

Id love to know my enneagram, tritype etc, and instinct. Ive typed as sx 2w3 286 for a while, but im up to hear new viewes.

Prefer sx2 vs, sx 8, sp8 etc

I belive im sx2 but i relate alot to esi and people type me both 2 and 8 so i need help

I am a female 20 years old

⁃	Strengths and weaknesses   

strengths- i can be very bold, smart, i notice things around me easily and i read body laungage well, i dont let anyone decide for me, im efficient in ways.

Weaknesses- i can be explosive, judgy, to direct, unwilling to meet people on the middle, stubborn, black and white thinking, i assume bad easily, lack of empathy

⁃	Morals and values  

Morals- my morals are whatever fits me in the moment, or whatever i think others should have, im not really depended on morals

Values- i value my closest family, my bff and my partner, my ability to do what i want, be comfortable, having fun etc is important to me

⁃	Logic vs feelings

Logic- im pretty logical, i like when people use logic, i like logic, its not my natural instinct, but its what i try to choose to use mostly

feelings- i have alot of feelings, moslty anger, agression, things like that, im not a emotionally expressive person, but my emotions switch in 1 second from 1-100, and not many will notice if i feel any bad emotion unless its to much anger or someone close to me that i trust , im pretty driven by feelings but i try to manage, aswell as im easily imulsive.

⁃	motives and fears  

motives- im motivated by happiness, fun, love life, whatever pleases me or my future erc

fears - i fear trypophobia, i fear being completely alone, i fear dying , i fear to always be stuck inside my room not able to live, i fear to not be happy.

⁃	interests and ideas   

interests- i make edits, of tv characters, thats probably my favorite hobby, i like gaming, im pretty good, i love watching tv shows, or discussing typology with my friend, i also like participating in any team sport, mostly table tennis, fotball, basketball etc, its not a hobby but always fun, i like to shop, clothes, etc.

ideas- my ideas arent bad, theyr usually good, i dont have many diff ideas, just whatever fits in the needed moment, i improvise, not a huge thing in me,

⁃	social life   

I like a small circle, i do like partys, im not very outgoing, i like to have a few close friends, im kinda picky, i easily judge people for theyr wrongs and therefor i dont connect after, i prefer a night at home with a friend+ , watching movies, gossiping, or shopping

⁃	childhood  

As a kid i was very direct, impulsive, at age 5-11 i was very school focused, aswell as playfull, i tried to be the best, my parents were a bit ignorant my whole childhood so homework was a argument at home= i did everything to sucseed, at 11 i stopped focusing to much, became happier, always havign fun, i was the «class clown» , emotional and confident, i had anger issues

⁃	under stress  

I either snap, or nothing, in most cases i keep calmer then most i know, i can be nonchalant and focus, improvise, in argument stress cases i can be explosive in anger, and be egoistic, i can be focused on theyr wrongs, and them being slow, i loose controll of emotions basically sometimes.

⁃	what i value in others   

I value people who is smart, able to have fun without worrying to much , people who isnt slow, who i can talk to without them being boring or snitching,

Think i am esfp, my partner suggested entj, but im up for any opinions! Including other systems.

I am a female 20 years old

⁃	Strengths and weaknesses   

strengths- i can be very bold, smart, i notice things around me easily and i read body laungage well, i dont let anyone decide for me, im efficient in ways.

Weaknesses- i can be explosive, judgy, to direct, unwilling to meet people on the middle, stubborn, black and white thinking, i assume bad easily, lack of empathy

⁃	Morals and values  

Morals- my morals are whatever fits me in the moment, or whatever i think others should have, im not really depended on morals

Values- i value my closest family, my bff and my partner, my ability to do what i want, be comfortable, having fun etc is important to me

⁃	Logic vs feelings

Logic- im pretty logical, i like when people use logic, i like logic, its not my natural instinct, but its what i try to choose to use mostly

feelings- i have alot of feelings, moslty anger, agression, things like that, im not a emotionally expressive person, but my emotions switch in 1 second from 1-100, and not many will notice if i feel any bad emotion unless its to much anger or someone close to me that i trust , im pretty driven by feelings but i try to manage, aswell as im easily imulsive.

⁃	motives and fears  

motives- im motivated by happiness, fun, love life, whatever pleases me or my future erc

fears - i fear trypophobia, i fear being completely alone, i fear dying , i fear to always be stuck inside my room not able to live, i fear to not be happy.

⁃	interests and ideas   

interests- i make edits, of tv characters, thats probably my favorite hobby, i like gaming, im pretty good, i love watching tv shows, or discussing typology with my friend, i also like participating in any team sport, mostly table tennis, fotball, basketball etc, its not a hobby but always fun, i like to shop, clothes, etc.

ideas- my ideas arent bad, theyr usually good, i dont have many diff ideas, just whatever fits in the needed moment, i improvise, not a huge thing in me,

⁃	social life   

I like a small circle, i do like partys, im not very outgoing, i like to have a few close friends, im kinda picky, i easily judge people for theyr wrongs and therefor i dont connect after, i prefer a night at home with a friend+ , watching movies, gossiping, or shopping

⁃	childhood  

As a kid i was very direct, impulsive, at age 5-11 i was very school focused, aswell as playfull, i tried to be the best, my parents were a bit ignorant my whole childhood so homework was a argument at home= i did everything to sucseed, at 11 i stopped focusing to much, became happier, always havign fun, i was the «class clown» , emotional and confident, i had anger issues

⁃	under stress  

I either snap, or nothing, in most cases i keep calmer then most i know, i can be nonchalant and focus, improvise, in argument stress cases i can be explosive in anger, and be egoistic, i can be focused on theyr wrongs, and them being slow, i loose controll of emotions basically sometimes.

⁃	what i value in others   

I value people who is smart, able to have fun without worrying to much , people who isnt slow, who i can talk to without them being boring or snitching,

I need help typing, i get typed as see, ese, esi and eie, but got see on the long test, tho i dont relate much to see but alot to esi

I want accurate results and i could use feedback, could anyone tell some differences on them / be up to type me?

I am a female 20 years old

⁃	Strengths and weaknesses   

strengths- i can be very bold, smart, i notice things around me easily and i read body laungage well, i dont let anyone decide for me, im efficient in ways.

Weaknesses- i can be explosive, judgy, to direct, unwilling to meet people on the middle, stubborn, black and white thinking, i assume bad easily, lack of empathy

⁃	Morals and values  

Morals- my morals are whatever fits me in the moment, or whatever i think others should have, im not really depended on morals

Values- i value my closest family, my bff and my partner, my ability to do what i want, be comfortable, having fun etc is important to me

⁃	Logic vs feelings

Logic- im pretty logical, i like when people use logic, i like logic, its not my natural instinct, but its what i try to choose to use mostly

feelings- i have alot of feelings, moslty anger, agression, things like that, im not a emotionally expressive person, but my emotions switch in 1 second from 1-100, and not many will notice if i feel any bad emotion unless its to much anger or someone close to me that i trust , im pretty driven by feelings but i try to manage, aswell as im easily imulsive.

⁃	motives and fears  

motives- im motivated by happiness, fun, love life, whatever pleases me or my future erc

fears - i fear trypophobia, i fear being completely alone, i fear dying , i fear to always be stuck inside my room not able to live, i fear to not be happy.

⁃	interests and ideas   

interests- i make edits, of tv characters, thats probably my favorite hobby, i like gaming, im pretty good, i love watching tv shows, or discussing typology with my friend, i also like participating in any team sport, mostly table tennis, fotball, basketball etc, its not a hobby but always fun, i like to shop, clothes, etc.

ideas- my ideas arent bad, theyr usually good, i dont have many diff ideas, just whatever fits in the needed moment, i improvise, not a huge thing in me,

⁃	social life   

I like a small circle, i do like partys, im not very outgoing, i like to have a few close friends, im kinda picky, i easily judge people for theyr wrongs and therefor i dont connect after, i prefer a night at home with a friend+ , watching movies, gossiping, or shopping

⁃	childhood  

As a kid i was very direct, impulsive, at age 5-11 i was very school focused, aswell as playfull, i tried to be the best, my parents were a bit ignorant my whole childhood so homework was a argument at home= i did everything to sucseed, at 11 i stopped focusing to much, became happier, always havign fun, i was the «class clown» , emotional and confident, i had anger issues

⁃	under stress  

I either snap, or nothing, in most cases i keep calmer then most i know, i can be nonchalant and focus, improvise, in argument stress cases i can be explosive in anger, and be egoistic, i can be focused on theyr wrongs, and them being slow, i loose controll of emotions basically sometimes.

⁃	what i value in others   

I value people who is smart, able to have fun without worrying to much , people who isnt slow, who i can talk to without them being boring or snitching,

Im considering esi the most so far but im up for opinions!