u/EnvironmentalWeb3179

Spesifically sx6 vs sx4, Im Wondering if i may be a e6, but im not like the typical sp or so 6, just sx, but also sx4

Whats some differences?

Im rewatching teenwolf for the 20th time , liam and hayden is still my 2nd fav couple after scallison, i wonder why everyone hates layden? And why people prefer liam with theo.

Im typing as esfp esi fevl- 468, but wondering if 6 may be my core type? Can someone differate them?

I relate to sx4 because im very competetive, agressive, wanna be special etc, but i also have bpd and npd

For 6 i have anxiety, but i avoid anxiety, like i hide, i seek peoples help etc, safety is supee important to me

Wondering if theres anyone here who could try help typing me, someone good preferably, i think my own opinion of myself can be wrong at times and id like some insight.

So im trynna type my girlfriends sister, and the sisters boyfriend, ill refer to them as she and he.

She is 25 years , she loves collecting figues, driving alone scares her, she loves gaming, sims etc, and has alot og hyper fixations coming and going.

Positive traits- she is’ great at getting facts for her interests, she is a sweet person, takes pride in her owned items

Negative- she’ll treat her lil sis as air when her bf is around, she lives with her sister(my partner) who has to do all the chores, spend most money, she generally treats my partner unfair but shes «aloud» since she has asperger.

HE is hard to read, sat in a 1 h trip with him today and he didnt say a word or look at anyone, just watched the road, 0 emotional expressions, he also has aspd diagnosis, ive heard hes kind, but playfull? He slaps and jokes with HER infront of family members (rhey dont like seeing it) so lack of filter ig, he seems like a kind guy, but from my pov he cares little about alot of stuff, hes around 28 i belive.

If SHE wants something, she wont stop crying or complaining untill it goes her way otherwise shes confused and hurt

From my typing i type HER as intp, for him ive considered a thinking type aswell possibly intj? But im looking for input

He is generally a guy who likes using his senses, he works out, plays games, hes a casual chill guy, but kinder then most, has morals but also humor, hes not a logical type that way, he finds a laugh in most things, doesnt take things to serious , doesnt get offended / mad easily

As a kid he was joking around even more, always messing, didnt get to mad , didnt take things serious (except school and stuff ofc)

Strenghts- he does great in school, and has a great life, he doesnt take things to heart, hes very kind and respectfull

Weakness- he takes things w a laugh, as a kid he could rage bait alot

Im his aunt, and we have been bestfriends for life

Any input is great! I belive he ISNT a high si user, hes chill about most thinks.

Ive had my partner for 1.5 years, great person, but does not understand me at all, i get easily triggered and they cannot understand, im left with tons of black/white thinking and detached feelings in arguments, happends alot, i do my best but my partner tends to say «u always do-« if i do smth once, i get them but i feel to strong

I cant imagine being okay without them, but is that the love or attachment?, this person is so nice, sweet, caring and stuff, and we have fun and comfort, but i get scared sometimes that i stay in these emotions because of attachment and not because its true love

I get typed 6 but also 4 , i wonder whats some clear differences.

I can feel the breakup coming rn so im running here to see if anyone has immediatly tips to handle it, i usually go insane quickly and for long .

Im very sure im esfp but taking a check here to see what others have to say! My ennea is sx 4w3 but i relate highly to 8 too

Im very impulsive, emotional and have outbursts, i have basically all the bpd stuff (diagnosed ofc) so because of all those i struggle to see entj, even tho i relate, anyways. Im highly emotional deep inside, but i dont feel on it or show it, when someone first sees me emotional (only 1 outside family has) i burst out crying etc, i hate being upset infront of anyone , im not often sad either or mulky

Im very quick on observing stuff thats been told, stuff i see etc, very detailed focused there naturally, i usually see every detail others dont really focus on, i read body laungage perfectly and i like analyzing people, im good at taking guesses and choosing to follow logic (except if stuff happens to me, then i act on emotion but i hide it with logic)

I do not handle spontanteous well, i need days in advance before plans, if anyone jumps infront of my plans in last minute i become mad and stressed, this could be my anxiety or bpd but still

I like to do things quick, to get done, i love gaming and making edits, i spend most my time watching tv shows/ being with my partner.

I love any competetive games or sports, i enjoy winning ALOT.

I fear being abondoned , alone or looked down at.

People view me as a confident , chill, funn girl
I view me as confident but anxious and private

In one way i spam post about myself on tiktok, in another way i never spesifically let anyone know how i truly feel?

I avoid arguments with people i wanna keep, otherwise idc, i care alot to be right, to be the «smarter» or funnier one etc

Im very sure im esfp but taking a check here to see what others have to say! My ennea is sx 4w3 but i relate highly to 8 too

Im very impulsive, emotional and have outbursts, i have basically all the bpd stuff (diagnosed ofc) so because of all those i struggle to see entj, even tho i relate, anyways. Im highly emotional deep inside, but i dont feel on it or show it, when someone first sees me emotional (only 1 outside family has) i burst out crying etc, i hate being upset infront of anyone , im not often sad either or mulky

Im very quick on observing stuff thats been told, stuff i see etc, very detailed focused there naturally, i usually see every detail others dont really focus on, i read body laungage perfectly and i like analyzing people, im good at taking guesses and choosing to follow logic (except if stuff happens to me, then i act on emotion but i hide it with logic)

I do not handle spontanteous well, i need days in advance before plans, if anyone jumps infront of my plans in last minute i become mad and stressed, this could be my anxiety or bpd but still

I like to do things quick, to get done, i love gaming and making edits, i spend most my time watching tv shows/ being with my partner.

I love any competetive games or sports, i enjoy winning ALOT.

I fear being abondoned , alone or looked down at.

People view me as a confident , chill, funn girl
I view me as confident but anxious and private

In one way i spam post about myself on tiktok, in another way i never spesifically let anyone know how i truly feel?

I avoid arguments with people i wanna keep, otherwise idc, i care alot to be right, to be the «smarter» or funnier one etc

My gf is infp eii, eflv
But some say this could fit e4 and e6 more, tho i do not see e4

Some things she cant handle is anxiety, she cant escape it or face it, arguing makes her very uncomfortable so she gets sad/ quiet, she cabt stand arguing, she try to make sure everyone has it well, even if she dont, her focus is totally on herself naturally but she wants to prioritze everyone else, shes not the best at catching body laungage or even noticing if someone for example crys/ is upset, but if someone straight out tell her she’ll do whatever they want (as long as it dont cross her boundaries)

She doesnt face anxiety, she is stuck in it, she avoids any type of arguing no matter what , she does not think shes special

She often say «we are all just humans», she has ptsd and anxiety but she dont think shes «unormal» for anything, kindest person ever but also most shy and socially scared person

Shes a adult

Strenghts - she can be very social, shes good at driving, she handles breakups etc suprisingly well, shes a loyal friend to some, she is funny and a girls girl

Weakness- she is very stuck on her feelings, will not notice how anyone but her is feeling, doesnt pick up on much that happends around hee due to being more focused on her own comfort and interest, hard to argue with due to her only seeing her own side

Shes always been a follower with me i guess, she looks up to me, shes sweet, she has a tendancy to copy my triats and idk why, is capable of work etc but dont want to so she has got herself welfare (i have to)

She loves a car ride / hang out w a friend
She isnt attached to items, she follows what makes sense to her, she has alot of ideas .

Lmk if more is needed