u/EnvironmentalWeb3179

He is generally a guy who likes using his senses, he works out, plays games, hes a casual chill guy, but kinder then most, has morals but also humor, hes not a logical type that way, he finds a laugh in most things, doesnt take things to serious , doesnt get offended / mad easily

As a kid he was joking around even more, always messing, didnt get to mad , didnt take things serious (except school and stuff ofc)

Strenghts- he does great in school, and has a great life, he doesnt take things to heart, hes very kind and respectfull

Weakness- he takes things w a laugh, as a kid he could rage bait alot

Im his aunt, and we have been bestfriends for life

Any input is great! I belive he ISNT a high si user, hes chill about most thinks.

Ive had my partner for 1.5 years, great person, but does not understand me at all, i get easily triggered and they cannot understand, im left with tons of black/white thinking and detached feelings in arguments, happends alot, i do my best but my partner tends to say «u always do-« if i do smth once, i get them but i feel to strong

I cant imagine being okay without them, but is that the love or attachment?, this person is so nice, sweet, caring and stuff, and we have fun and comfort, but i get scared sometimes that i stay in these emotions because of attachment and not because its true love

I get typed 6 but also 4 , i wonder whats some clear differences.

I can feel the breakup coming rn so im running here to see if anyone has immediatly tips to handle it, i usually go insane quickly and for long .

Im very sure im esfp but taking a check here to see what others have to say! My ennea is sx 4w3 but i relate highly to 8 too

Im very impulsive, emotional and have outbursts, i have basically all the bpd stuff (diagnosed ofc) so because of all those i struggle to see entj, even tho i relate, anyways. Im highly emotional deep inside, but i dont feel on it or show it, when someone first sees me emotional (only 1 outside family has) i burst out crying etc, i hate being upset infront of anyone , im not often sad either or mulky

Im very quick on observing stuff thats been told, stuff i see etc, very detailed focused there naturally, i usually see every detail others dont really focus on, i read body laungage perfectly and i like analyzing people, im good at taking guesses and choosing to follow logic (except if stuff happens to me, then i act on emotion but i hide it with logic)

I do not handle spontanteous well, i need days in advance before plans, if anyone jumps infront of my plans in last minute i become mad and stressed, this could be my anxiety or bpd but still

I like to do things quick, to get done, i love gaming and making edits, i spend most my time watching tv shows/ being with my partner.

I love any competetive games or sports, i enjoy winning ALOT.

I fear being abondoned , alone or looked down at.

People view me as a confident , chill, funn girl
I view me as confident but anxious and private

In one way i spam post about myself on tiktok, in another way i never spesifically let anyone know how i truly feel?

I avoid arguments with people i wanna keep, otherwise idc, i care alot to be right, to be the «smarter» or funnier one etc

Im very sure im esfp but taking a check here to see what others have to say! My ennea is sx 4w3 but i relate highly to 8 too

Im very impulsive, emotional and have outbursts, i have basically all the bpd stuff (diagnosed ofc) so because of all those i struggle to see entj, even tho i relate, anyways. Im highly emotional deep inside, but i dont feel on it or show it, when someone first sees me emotional (only 1 outside family has) i burst out crying etc, i hate being upset infront of anyone , im not often sad either or mulky

Im very quick on observing stuff thats been told, stuff i see etc, very detailed focused there naturally, i usually see every detail others dont really focus on, i read body laungage perfectly and i like analyzing people, im good at taking guesses and choosing to follow logic (except if stuff happens to me, then i act on emotion but i hide it with logic)

I do not handle spontanteous well, i need days in advance before plans, if anyone jumps infront of my plans in last minute i become mad and stressed, this could be my anxiety or bpd but still

I like to do things quick, to get done, i love gaming and making edits, i spend most my time watching tv shows/ being with my partner.

I love any competetive games or sports, i enjoy winning ALOT.

I fear being abondoned , alone or looked down at.

People view me as a confident , chill, funn girl
I view me as confident but anxious and private

In one way i spam post about myself on tiktok, in another way i never spesifically let anyone know how i truly feel?

I avoid arguments with people i wanna keep, otherwise idc, i care alot to be right, to be the «smarter» or funnier one etc

My gf is infp eii, eflv
But some say this could fit e4 and e6 more, tho i do not see e4

Some things she cant handle is anxiety, she cant escape it or face it, arguing makes her very uncomfortable so she gets sad/ quiet, she cabt stand arguing, she try to make sure everyone has it well, even if she dont, her focus is totally on herself naturally but she wants to prioritze everyone else, shes not the best at catching body laungage or even noticing if someone for example crys/ is upset, but if someone straight out tell her she’ll do whatever they want (as long as it dont cross her boundaries)

She doesnt face anxiety, she is stuck in it, she avoids any type of arguing no matter what , she does not think shes special

She often say «we are all just humans», she has ptsd and anxiety but she dont think shes «unormal» for anything, kindest person ever but also most shy and socially scared person

Shes a adult

Strenghts - she can be very social, shes good at driving, she handles breakups etc suprisingly well, shes a loyal friend to some, she is funny and a girls girl

Weakness- she is very stuck on her feelings, will not notice how anyone but her is feeling, doesnt pick up on much that happends around hee due to being more focused on her own comfort and interest, hard to argue with due to her only seeing her own side

Shes always been a follower with me i guess, she looks up to me, shes sweet, she has a tendancy to copy my triats and idk why, is capable of work etc but dont want to so she has got herself welfare (i have to)

She loves a car ride / hang out w a friend
She isnt attached to items, she follows what makes sense to her, she has alot of ideas .

Lmk if more is needed

Im esfp, i got a infp gf, who never thinks, i genuinly wonder if infp’s have no logic or if shes just special,

Im confident in alot of it but im gonna give some reasons why i think im certain ones

Sx 4w3- im highly posessive over anything i like / have, i make it my identity in small cases, i BADLY need someone to depend on, not independant at all, unhealthy in many ways, have been since birth, i have bpd too

Esfp- super aware off body laungage and my surroundings, i notice every single thing, word, or switchup, im deeply attached to myself aswell abd put me above anyone else, also a sucker for physical activity and deep talks

Esi- all of the above, i have anger issues, needs comfort ALWAYS, im secretly anxious in some situations, direct but try to keep calm

Fevl- im controlling in a unhealthy way at times, im good at logic but its not a huge topic, im very posessive as said, even for a pillow i like. Im good w emotions, at least at explaining and learning, not always good with impulse controll

486- as said, impulsive, direct, anger issues, anxious, i crave love, i crave safety and controll, im insecure publicly, i also have conduct disorder even tho im 20

My mom cant listen, ever
My dad doesnt belive in pain
My partner is to different
I dont have friends i can be open with

Im always kind of numb, but that hurts too, everyone tells me im lucky that dont feel «sadness» but being negative, feeling alone, stuck, it ends up numb which still hurts, 20 years old and stuck like this

Im unsure if im sx4 or 8, but im sure one of those is my tritype. Whats some differences on sx4 and 8? And the tritypes if that changes anything