u/Frostcricket

I’m 20 and know it’s a big risk and super dumb but I haven’t eaten a meal in 2 days.

I’m willing to go into more debt if it means not starving to death.

Also ebt says I make too much so they won’t approve me yay!

What do yall think?

They aren’t actually fat they’re very healthy but they’re young and play so so hard.

They literally THROW each other and hit the ground so hard.

Full on tackling jumping running full speed.

They literally never played like this before we moved here or else I would have requested I downstairs apt.

I’m not going to punish them for playing like that just feels so wrong they aren’t doing anything wrong.

I guess I’m just here to apologize to my downstairs neighbor :(

Sorry guys :(

So me (20F) and my boyfriend (26M) have been dating for a very short amount of time maybe like 2-3 months idk I’m not keeping track.

I know, at least in western culture, that that age gap is quite large. I understand that and understand that some people will judge me, or him for that.

My concern is not our age gap.

Well I guess it kinda relates to the age gap. A 26 year old man is plenty ready to find his forever person and settle down and start a family. Me, however, I feel so young. I want to travel and party and experience things that a 20 year old wants to experience.

My boyfriend has mentioned dating to marry which is like ok fine sure in a few years, which he has said he agrees on and will wait until I’m ready.

However while yes he will wait for me to be ready I can tell he already sees me being in his life forever.

I am totally fine with him being my forever partner from what I know about him so far he’s a great person, very thoughtful, kind, good with children. We’re both religious, him a lot more than me, and have a few differing views that don’t make me like him any less.

I just feel like he’s all in right now and I’m simply dipping my toes in testing the water.

Despite our short time dating we’ve gotten very close to each other, and I like him a lot, but also understand that we’re simply dating to get to know each other.

He says he feels like he’s known me for a lifetime which kind of rubs me the wrong way because we literally just started dating.

Maybe I’m heavily overthinking it and this man just fell head over heels for me and is absolutely committed. My self confidence is low so I don’t really see that happening for me.

Is there anything I should do or watch out for or should I just ride the wave and see where everything leads?

Again I’m completely fine with marrying this man given we get to know each other better and it’s 2-3 years down the line.

Saw this viral post today and it’s been sitting in my mind all day.

It was two guys, arguing on whether it was selfish to have your own children and if adoption was better.

In the comments everyone was talking about how adoption is “taking kids out of bad situations and putting them in better homes” and “giving children more opportunities”.

People were saying things like how adoption isn’t selfish because it only benefits the child and the adopted parent is super amazing because they are able to love a child that isn’t theirs as their own.

These comments absolutely enrage me like yes sure maybe a few adopted children grow up and love their adopted family as their own and feel amazing and have never experienced anything terrible but I feel like a lot of adopted individuals, especially myself, have experienced the opposite.

Adoption isn’t just a peel and stick process and it makes me so mad that that’s how society has perceived it to be.

I find myself frequently referencing this thread so people can see just how many of us have been negatively affected by adoption.

I found someone I care about so so much and I feel the need to tell him I have HS.

I don’t know how and I’m terrified he’ll leave me for it. I’m afraid he won’t understand and will think I’m dirty.

I’ve been procrastinating telling him and don’t want to get too deep into this before breaking the news.

How do I tell him? I’m so afraid he won’t love me anymore.

Since I’ve started puberty (about 7 years now) I been growing pubic hair.

My pubic hair is very very coarse and even more coily. For FOREVER I thought my grooming habits were terrible due to the sheer amount of ingrown hairs I got. And they were BAD. Like painful, leaving behind scars, etc. (don’t call me gross or dirty I shower daily and wear clean underwear daily and all that shabang)

Turns out it was never ingrown hairs or bad grooming habits it was HS.

Something I also learned was that it’s CHRONIC (absolutely devastating to hear btw still not over that). That means you CAN’T cure it. It will never go away. You can only manage it.

I have always imagined finding the perfect solution, the perfect shaving oil or razor or wax or treatment and now I know why nothing has worked. I once dreamed of being able to rock a bikini at the beach with my really sexy, smooth thighs and I was just told that this will never go away.

In fact, the scarring will get worse. I’m absolutely devastated over this news and typing it is honestly making it hit even harder.

Is there anyone with MS that can give some advice for management? My seem told me some stuff but I’d like to hear every perspective. Doubt this is very common though.

I’m 20 years old, and have had sagging tits since my tits started coming in they just grew in saggy.

I really really want a lift and reduction but am worried about payment as well as recovery as i live by myself.

I want to do something with a payment plan but am concerned that the quality won’t be as good as a place that requires full payment. Does anyone have experience with payment plans?

What about independent recovery?

Any tips or advice? No one in my family has had plastic surgery and I want to here from people who have (specifically breast surgery of all types)

I wish I knew exactly what happened to cause me and my brother to be adopted but everyone I’ve asked has a different story.

My bio parents have different stories than each other and my adopted parents have different stories than them.

I really don’t know what to believe and just want to see what’s written on paper.

Is there a way for me to find something? I am not in contact with my adopted parents due to abuse I endured from them.