Do i need therapy for this situation
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For some context, I was in a relationship with a girl with a Indian family. We dated for a couple of months long distance. The relationship was really well until her father found out and made the family not talk to her because her dating me. It ended with her father coming to Australia and picking her up and taking her back to India. I have never heard from her since. Since last year, I have had dreams about her, but not often, i cried like 15 times over the situation last year .The thought of the situation and our last phone call together dose make me break down at the thought. Yk our last words together. The fact we were forcefully separated. All that stuff. I posted on another sub how I was in a similar relationship with another girl and how i broke up with her because I was scared the same situation might happen. 80 % of the comments were "dude you need therapy." Is this just people saying whatever just for the sake of it, or do I actually need therapy for the situation? As I said the thought of my last words to her and how the phone conversation went dose make me almost break down everytime.