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Going to the masjid wearing a thobe as a revert

Salam brothers and sisters. This is gonna sound like a really stupid question, but im muslim of one month. I recently went to the masjid closest to me last jummah. I own 1 normal thobe and one morrican thobe before i reverted. I liked the way they looked. Now, as a Muslim, I love it because it represents me. I don't wanna go there wearing a massive morrican thobe just in case they think im insulting me or something or it just looks silly on me as a small white revert with circle glasses. I would love to pray in it. Am I just overthinking?

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u/Fuzzy_Language_4235 — 18 hours ago
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What to do now?

I posted in this sub reddit a couple days ago how I was surprised my father has accepted me becoming a Muslim. A day after I texted a iman on the good news and asked if he could take me jummah as im still nervous. He invited me to his house and we talked. We went jummah together, and I went home. The day after him being fine with it. I come downstairs, and he is sitting weirdly then he sees me and jumps up and starts a conversation. I already felt this was to good to be true, and I knew it wasn't over. He says who is this guy ? How old is he ? I answerd him and told him. The only reason those guys want to get a small white boy like you is to *blurs out something outrageous and sexual * I replied with he has a wife and 5 kids what do you mean ? "IT DOESN'T MATTER. He can have 4 or wtv and atill do those things. I didn't wanna challenge him. He said he would like to meet the imam. Its been 2 days later and we haven't talked about it. Also wjwn I pray in the house im still scared because I don't know if he's fine with me praying because what he said the day after. Please can I get advice

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u/Fuzzy_Language_4235 — 1 day ago

Customers who come in and start problems every time

Customers who come in and will always start a scene or shout or start problems every time what is the psychology behind this ? There misreable? A power thing ? Why do people do this ?

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u/Fuzzy_Language_4235 — 2 days ago
▲ 5 r/Muslim

Nervous to tell my Pakistani co worker im muslim and if I can pray

Even asking my local store if its sandwiches are halal makes me nervous and emotional. I have a Pakistani sister who is 3 years older than me and related to the owner. She is also a Muslim. Im nervous to be " can you cover my work while I pray Asr? I know this is so silly but yeah. We are not workplace friends or anything. We have only made small talk once. Literally once. Very tiny. She is also kinda moody

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u/Fuzzy_Language_4235 — 3 days ago
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A situation that happened a year ago is happening again and my brain is freaking out

A year ago I met this girl. She was Indian and was in Australia for studying. We got on instantly and immediately clicked. It went that well we didn't even ask each other to date. She really loved me and I loved her. She sent me voice notes crying when I ignored her once and she was saying how much she loved me and to answer. I've never had a partner love me that much. A month later everything is good and she was on call to her mother and she was smiling. She asked why she was so happy a d she said she met a boy. She told her about me and she was happy for her. Her father walked in and overheard the situation and immediately cut the call. Her family cut contact with her. Her mother was getting aboused and blamed for her dating. Her grandmother had a heart attack on valentines day and she was blamed for it. We still talked but we were different. She eventually said to me that she was going back to india and her father was flying to pick her up . The last day we talked, we had a call. We both broke down crying, saying how much we love each other. Her father eventually arrived and we hung up. Her last words to me were " someone is knocking on the door". I never heard from her again. I dreamed about her sometimes. I cried obviously. I missed her in my heart and tried rebound dating. It didn't help with the pain.

I met this other Indian girl. She is also in a other another country for studies. She is very nice too. We talked for a month and her mother already knows about me. We were on call and she said those words "im going to india" I immediately cut the call and started crying. We called back and she said not to worry and nothing was gonna happen and her father was to busy to care. There is a part inside me saying to block her and her out of this situation. Another part saying to trust her and its just PTSD from a year ago. Thing's are worst now because I have work and college. Any advice

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u/Fuzzy_Language_4235 — 3 days ago
▲ 9 r/Muslim

Father has accepted me being a Muslim but still feels weird

After finding my Quran he warned me if I do any more "Islamic stuff" I'll be out. He found my prayer mats and he sat me down for 10 minutes. He said I can do whatever I want but don't bring trouble to the door. And he warned me. Im going to meet a older brother in a hour and go jummah with him. I still feel I don't onow about the situation and his reply feels weird . Any advice?

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u/Fuzzy_Language_4235 — 4 days ago
▲ 7 r/Muslim

My last post aged like fine wine

I was boarding a bus and the girl infront of me had SATAN and a picture of him on her bag. The west is seriously something else

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u/Fuzzy_Language_4235 — 4 days ago
▲ 3 r/study

Do you do this?

Is it weird i travel 35 minutes by bus to go to a library even tho there is one 10 minutes away from me

I just like the bus journey and walking through the city. Is it weird i do this or dose anyone else do this?

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u/Fuzzy_Language_4235 — 5 days ago

Is it weird i travel 35 minutes by bus to go to a library even tho there is one 10 minutes away from me

I just like the bus journey and walking through the city. Is it weird i do this or dose anyone else do this?

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u/Fuzzy_Language_4235 — 5 days ago
▲ 7 r/Muslim

Is shaytan behind this ?

When you look at younger people today there is a lot more athiest, gays, violence, people being trans and more , is there a higher force like people getting brainwashed by the algorithms or is it shaytan ?

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u/Fuzzy_Language_4235 — 5 days ago

Every customer suddenly very polite to me??

I don't why but every customer is have had has been VERY polite..I haven't got any lottery customers. Any big orders or any long lines. What is happening?

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u/Fuzzy_Language_4235 — 7 days ago

15 year old swagger

*walks into store with food box*

*swags over to drink section *

Swags over to counter smiling on the phone *

Pays for singular drink *

" Keep the rest bud "

*Walks out *

Dumps food box on the floor outside store*

*Walks off*

u/Fuzzy_Language_4235 — 7 days ago
▲ 0 r/Muslim

Identifying as sunni and shia

I recently converted to islam, and I am looking into both denominations! I think i like both and want to identity as both. Im really happy being the first shia/sunni Muslim. I think. Anyway salam !

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u/Fuzzy_Language_4235 — 7 days ago
▲ 1 r/Muslim

I haven't prayed in 2 weeks

I prayed using a video and I told a sister this and was told I can't do that. I know 50% of the prayer. I just told myself if I don't know it im not doing it right so there's no point. This is deeply embarrassing

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u/Fuzzy_Language_4235 — 7 days ago
▲ 21 r/Muslim

Why do must non Muslim teenagers hate Islam in particular

I saw a post like 2 weeks ago about the R/teenagers sub reddit about how they hate Islam and always talk badly about it? Is it mostly just the young cocky new generation of athiests? Also the fact most teenagers are atheist now a days. Whats your thoughts?

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u/Fuzzy_Language_4235 — 7 days ago
▲ 2 r/NoFap

Back to degenerate hobbies

I should've just prayed and went to bed. Sigh im gonna feel so depressed tomorrow. Day 0. I could be better than this.

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u/Fuzzy_Language_4235 — 7 days ago

Is this normal?

When I first started my job I couldn't care if someone shouted at me. It was nothing. One day a regular customer came in and I did not hear him i said can you repeat your self twice. He snapped at me raising his voice. At the time it was nothing but the 2 days that followed i was very depressed. The next time I was at work I cried behind the till. Its been 5 months and I still get that scared emotional way if someone even gives off that impression is that normal or am I soft

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u/Fuzzy_Language_4235 — 7 days ago

Customer smashed a trolley into my leg and just walked off

When I saw posts saying how people don't treat us like humans, I thought they were just overreacting. I was bent down refilling the drinks and the gap to get passed is very tight instead of just saying excuse me he smashed the trolley into my leg to get passed me puts it back and just walks out. For some context my patella easily dislocates. It almost came out again. He didn't even day sorry. God i need to get out of this job while im still young

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u/Fuzzy_Language_4235 — 8 days ago

Do you sell brain rot cards?

I was about to refill achool and heard a voice behind me. "ExCuse Me." I turned around and it was i think a 12 year old?

Do you sell brain rot cards?

A what?

Brain rot card ?

A birthday card? You mean

No a BRAIN ROT card

I knew he was talking out his ass and was probably trolling me.

Okay. I'll look for you

Sorry nope.

Oh *walks out*

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u/Fuzzy_Language_4235 — 8 days ago
▲ 0 r/Muslim

Not lowering my gaze when I see Indian girls

Im.a 19 year old white guy in the west, and about 2 years ago, I had this thing for Indian girls. It started off as a joke but it quickly turned into a actual liking. When I see them especially my age I tend my best to lower my gaze but I always take a second look. If its not their pretty brown skin or the eyes, it's the amazing black hair. I know wbat is do in haram but I still look. I seriously can't help it. It doesn't help I get made fun off for liking Indian girls as a white guy

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u/Fuzzy_Language_4235 — 8 days ago