u/Glittering-Silver402

We took it easy the first year of our baby’s lift and did two flights to visit family and a trip to Yosemite for Mother’s Day.

This year we haven’t done anything and he rolls his eyes at anything I suggest. (This is why I chose to keep my career). I’ve been wanting to go back to Hawaii again and take the baby. Eyeroll.- suggested Zion Mountain Ranch Near Zion National Park, for Father’s Day, or his June birthday, eyeroll. Plan a trip to Olympic national park, eyeroll.

It fkn sucks. I dont want his negative attitude keep me from doing thing with the baby. Any tips on how to get him to stop being such nag?

Man, today fkn sucked. I’ve been home for an hour and I still have this lingering anxiety buzz.

I don’t think I’ve ever had an anxiety episode like this before—it just built up from a bunch of things all at once.

I went to my cousin’s going-away thing at my sister’s house. She has two dogo argentinos and two yorkies, and she scheduled it right at my baby’s bedtime, which already had me wondering if I should even go. But I made a banner, so I went to drop it off.

I get there, I’m starving, she had said she was going to have pizza so I came hungry —but it never came while I was there. Meanwhile, one of the big male dogs kept barking at my 15-month-old, especially when my sister held baby, I saw the doggo did a fake bite at his legs. Then one of the yorkies kept trying to nip at him whenever I set him down to walk.

And then my BIL says I should just let him get bit because “it’s going to happen eventually.” I just walked away and ignored him

At that point, my anxiety just started building. People kept talking to me and I could barely focus on what they were saying. I couldn’t put my baby down because the dogs would rush him, and my sister kept saying I needed to get him used to it.

Finally, I was just like, okay, I’m ready to go. It was already an hour past his bedtime anyway. My sister asked me to wait another 15 minutes for the pizza, but I said no. As we’re leaving, my husband says, “You always freak out”when I apologize for wanting to leave so abruptly. I knew he was enjoying himself—which is ironic because earlier today he told me I’m too calm when the baby gets hurt.

I ended up crying on the drive home. He didn’t notice because it was dark.

I’m still processing everything. I don’t feel like I was overreacting for not trusting those dogs around my baby… but now I’m second-guessing myself.

So my baby, especially during the morning when we are getting ready to go out, the door will cry for everything unless I give him a snack. I don’t want him to cry to tell me that he wants something so what I’ve started doing is ignoring him or I tell him no crying if you want a banana say banana

I think I’m just overstimulated

I had a miscarriage 10m PP and decided to take a break from trying since I felt I needed to physically heal but now I’m started to miss being able to go to date nights or concerts . Part of my problem is there isn’t trust worthy people who can baby sit. But I still feel sad to think of my baby growing up an only child.

Anyone else struggling with this decision?

I had a miscarriage 10m PP and decided to take a break from trying since I felt I needed to physically heal but now I’m started to miss being able to go to date nights or concerts . Part of my problem is there isn’t trust worthy people who can baby sit. But I still feel sad to think of my baby growing up an only child.

Anyone else struggling with this decision?

It’s a new shop that moved into the old De Leon Bakery space off Chapman and Cornell. It was honestly nice to see a place that had been sitting empty come back to life. For the first couple of weeks, I’d see the OPEN sign lit up during my 7:30am commute, but there was never anyone inside. This week, though, the sign hasn’t been on at all, which makes me wonder if they’re already struggling.

I checked them out online and the cakes look really good, but I’m curious if anyone has actually gone in yet and can share how it is.