u/LankyBox396

I went through something traumatic a few weeks ago. I hit rock bottom as I was dealing with shame,guilt, and feeling like I keep failing God. I have been back and forth with my faith and the last year I was getting closer to Jesus. Than got involved with someone who strayed me away and have been blaming myself for the sins I’ve committed. A few days ago I was having nightmares and having very negative thoughts and felt myself drowning in those thoughts of shame, guilt, and that I’m a horrible person. I opened up my Bible and cried out to Jesus to not abandon me, to heal me, screaming to him. Suddenly, my mind went quiet and I heard a gentle but uplifting voice that wasn’t mine say “get up”. My thoughts disappeared, I obeyed. Got up and went for a walk. I knew then that it was God. Since then I’m still grieving but I know God is with me. Will never forget this moment.

I went through something traumatic a few weeks ago. I hit rock bottom as I was dealing with shame,guilt, and feeling like I keep failing God. I have been back and forth with my faith and the last year I was getting closer to Jesus. Than got involved with someone who strayed me away and have been blaming myself for the sins I’ve committed. A few days ago I was having nightmares and having very negative thoughts and felt myself drowning in those thoughts of shame, guilt, and that I’m a horrible person. I opened up my Bible and cried out to Jesus to not abandon me, to heal me, screaming to him. Suddenly, my mind went quiet and I heard a gentle but uplifting voice that wasn’t mine say “get up”. My thoughts disappeared, I obeyed. Got up and went for a walk. I knew then that it was God. Since then I’m still grieving but I know God is with me. Will never forget this moment.

Guy I’m dating (30m) and I (30f) went out on a date this past Saturday and had a good time but got tipsy and ended up hooking up. I told him I’m usually not the type of girl to sleep with a guy this soon and don’t like hook ups. In the morning he tried again but eventually he stopped trying. After we spent the morning watching movies and having breakfast together. I can’t tell if he gave up or he respected my boundaries if he likes me? I still am not fully sure if he is trying to just fuck around or if he’s looking for something serious. Later that day I bumped into him again at an event and he spent the time with me and bought me a drink. Thoughts?

Currently on vacation for the next two weeks and texted the guy I’m seeing (not official yet) saying hi and that I hope he is having a good week and he texted back saying hi and that he hopes I’m having a good trip and said “can’t wait to have you back” what does he mean by that?

Currently on vacation for the next two weeks and texted the guy I’m seeing (not official yet) saying hi and that I hope he is having a good week and he texted back saying hi and that he hopes I’m having a good trip and said “can’t wait to have you back” what does he mean by that?

Currently on vacation for the next two weeks and texted the guy I’m seeing (not official yet) saying hi and that I hope he is having a good week and he texted back saying hi and that he hopes I’m having a good trip and said “can’t wait to have you back” what does he mean by that?

Currently on vacation for the next two weeks and texted the guy I’m seeing (not official yet) saying hi and that I hope he is having a good week and he texted back saying hi and that he hopes I’m having a good trip and said “can’t wait to have you back” what does he mean by that?

Currently on vacation for the next two weeks and texted the guy I’m seeing (not official yet) saying hi and that I hope he is having a good week and he texted back saying hi and that he hopes I’m having a good trip and said “can’t wait to have you back” what does he mean by that?

I am currently on vacation and he texted me saying hope it’s going well and can’t wait to have you back, what does that mean?

So I’m dating a single father, he and I dated a few years ago and we rekindled the last year. He is working two jobs and has a child but makes time for me every week since we first started seeing each other again and we’re getting more comfortable now with each other therefore he’s been more present in my life and spending time with me on weekends. However he told me he hates texting and will text me or engage with me online once a day but will not text me throughout the day. But when we’re together not on his phone and is present with me. Is he interested?

So went on a date with a guy and we were together the whole day and he stayed over the night no sex just cuddling. He told my friend after they hung out when asked what thought about me and he said “yea she’s cool, we have a lot of things in common, and we work in the same field so she understands my line of work” is this more friendzone or more? He asked for a second date then say of said if we can switch it to a different day due to some issues going on with him and now he’s disappeared. However saw him this past Sunday as we were with mutual friends and there was tension but he was still joking with me and playful banter and was next to me the whole time? Dating sucks nowadays when you just want clear communication or am I trippin out

So went on a date with a guy and we were together the whole day and he stayed over the night no sex just cuddling. He told my friend after they hung out when asked what thought about me and he said “yea she’s cool, we have a lot of things in common, and we work in the same field so she understands my line of work” is this more friendzone or more? He asked for a second date then say of said if we can switch it to a different day due to some issues going on with him and now he’s disappeared. However saw him this past Sunday as we were with mutual friends and there was tension but he was still joking with me and playful banter and was next to me the whole time? Dating sucks nowadays when you just want clear communication or am I trippin out

So went on a date with a guy and we were together the whole day and he stayed over the night no sex just cuddling. He told my friend after they hung out when asked what thought about me and he said “yea she’s cool, we have a lot of things in common, and we work in the same field so she understands my line of work” is this more friendzone or more? He asked for a second date then say of said if we can switch it to a different day due to some issues going on with him and now he’s disappeared. However saw him this past Sunday as we were with mutual friends and there was tension but he was still joking with me and playful banter and was next to me the whole time? Dating sucks nowadays when you just want clear communication or am I trippin out

So went on a date with a guy and we were together the whole day and he stayed over the night no sex just cuddling. He told my friend after they hung out when asked what thought about me and he said “yea she’s cool, we have a lot of things in common, and we work in the same field so she understands my line of work” is this more friendzone or more?

so I met this guy through a mutual friend cause she thought we’d be good together and after us meeting through my mutual friend, he asked her what I thought about him so then I took the courage to add him on Instagram and then he asked me out so then we went on our first date and it flowed and we clicked and I really liked him and then a couple hours later I found him at a dance and he asked me to dance and we danced for a little bit, and then after I asked him where he went cause he left you and I was just curious where he went and he told me he went out to the bars and then he asked me where I went, and I told him I was at one of the other bars, so then he came looking for me, and then after I saw that he was drunk, and then he followed me home and when we were at home, he was sleeping on the couch and I was sleeping on the couch and he was cuddling with me all night and then when he woke up, he said I’m not making a good first impression on you. I’m sorry that I’m annoying that I’m a bother and I said no you’re good and I had a good time and then I dropped him off home and later that night I texted him to see how he was feeling because he felt nauseous of course because of the hang over and we talked for a bit. I haven’t heard from him since but he keeps liking my Instagram stories. While we were cuddling he didn’t try to have sex with me or kiss me but he was hugging me and had his face buried on my chest. now I’m a little confused on what is going on and if he thought I was too much or if he thought he was too much or he just didn’t see more potential in me need help on trying to find out what he’s thinking . I don’t want to waste my time and I liked him enough for a second but not sure if I was too much.

so I met this guy through a mutual friend cause she thought we’d be good together and after us meeting through my mutual friend, he asked her what I thought about him so then I took the courage to add him on Instagram and then he asked me out so then we went on our first date and it flowed and we clicked and I really liked him and then a couple hours later I found him at a dance and he asked me to dance and we danced for a little bit, and then after I asked him where he went cause he left you and I was just curious where he went and he told me he went out to the bars and then he asked me where I went, and I told him I was at one of the other bars, so then he came looking for me, and then after I saw that he was drunk, and then he followed me home and when we were at home, he was sleeping on the couch and I was sleeping on the couch and he was cuddling with me all night and then when he woke up, he said I’m not making a good first impression on you. I’m sorry that I’m annoying that I’m a bother and I said no you’re good and I had a good time and then I dropped him off home and later that night I texted him to see how he was feeling because he felt nauseous of course because of the hang over and we talked for a bit. I haven’t heard from him since but he keeps liking my Instagram stories. While we were cuddling he didn’t try to have sex with me or kiss me but he was hugging me and had his face buried on my chest. now I’m a little confused on what is going on and if he thought I was too much or if he thought he was too much or he just didn’t see more potential in me need help on trying to find out what he’s thinking . I don’t want to waste my time and I liked him enough for a second but not sure if I was too much.