u/Maximum-Beginning940

Do you still give them your social media/number? Do you tell them that you’d wanna hang out? What do you say? How is your attitude towards them?

I’ve been approaching/talking to a lot of girls since I’ve been in college this past week. I always get their instagram but I can’t tell if they actually like me and are interested or if they’re just giving it to me because I asked.

Post I made that gave me the idea:
https://www.reddit.com/r/Advice/s/PHvQ16ZfwH

I (18M) have a group of friends I’ve hung out with for most of highschool they’re all a year older than me due to me starting late. The reason I think they’re jealous/hateful towards me is how I look. For freshman year I was 4,11 and hit 6,5 junior year and grew dreads out now their slightly longer than eye level. They’re all under 5,9

I was happy about this and they told me I was still ugly and got no “btches” cool whatever I just laughed it off. Now everytime they saw me they would call me ugly or a stick or something like that for my whole junior and senior year. That’s cool I make jokes too but they would greet me calling me ugly or a twig or something like that. It got annoying pretty fast and if I’m being honest derailed my confidence.

I remember a girl one of my friends were trying to get at brushed him off and started talking to me asking how tall I was and etc during senior year. She gave me her ig and we parted ways as soon as we left he went on a rant laughing saying she just felt bad for me which I believed him.

Fast forward a year I’m in college I’ve been here for three days and I’ve had a lot of girls catcall me and ask for my room number. This confused me because I always thought I was really ugly.

What really solidified it for me was when I found out one of my friends had been telling his female friends I was gay when they asked for my instagram. (It was only two but still)

What do you guys think?

I (18M) am pretty tall (6,4) and have noticed some women avoid eye contact with me while we’re standing and look a bit off to the side as we talk.

Could this be because it’s uncomfortable to keep looking up? I’d love to hear how some of you feel.

This might be a weird question but how could I (17M) come off as more approachable and friendly?

I’m starting college in two weeks and I don’t know anyone going to the college I’m going to so I’ll have to make some new friends (kind of want to get a gf but it’s college soo).

My friends always ask me if I’m mad when I’m just making a regular face. And a couple of good friends of mine that I met junior year told me that they thought I hated them before I knew them because of the way I would look at them. Also if I’m not actively smiling or laughing friends I haven’t known for a long time will ask if I’m mad or why I’m mad. I also had some people when I was playing pick up ask me why I was so mad. (I wasn’t I was just making a straight face)

My female coworker screamed when I was standing behind her and my boss got mad at me (she said it was ok but he didn’t gaf) and had me do dishes for the rest of the shift. Later in the day I asked her why she was scared and she told me it’s cause I’m so tall and quiet and have dreads covering my eyes. I said ok and we ended up laughing it off with some other coworkers

It also doesn’t really help that I get nervous pretty easily admittedly and usually get anxious talking to new people. So if no one says anything to me I’ll probably just end up being quiet.

This is kind of getting long but I did trade school along with hs my junior and senior year. I got through three quarters not resllly talking to anyone and kind of isolated. The teacher pulled my mom in for a meeting and basically told her that it looks like I didn’t want to be there and that it looks like my mom is making me do it and how that’s disheartening for him. Another staff vouched and said on the trip (class trip for a competition in our trade we stayed there three days before coming back) it looked like I didn’t want to be there at all and I wasn’t enjoying myself (I did not want to go at all before the trip came admittedly). But as soon as we touched down I thought it was fun asf and really enjoyed myself. But the teacher and he both agreed that it looked like I didn’t want to be there

I don’t know I might just have to try to smile more or go out of my way to talk to people more. Any advice would be great appreciated especially if you have a similar experience

This might be a weird question but how could I (17M) come off as more approachable and friendly?

I’m starting college in two weeks and I don’t know anyone going to the college I’m going to so I’ll have to make some new friends (kind of want to get a gf but it’s college soo).

My friends always ask me if I’m mad when I’m just making a regular face. And a couple of good friends of mine that I met junior year told me that they thought I hated them before I knew them because of the way I would look at them. Also if I’m not actively smiling or laughing friends I haven’t known for a long time will ask if I’m mad or why I’m mad. I also had some people when I was playing pick up ask me why I was so mad. (I wasn’t I was just making a straight face)

My female coworker screamed when I was standing behind her and my boss got mad at me (she said it was ok but he didn’t gaf) and had me do dishes for the rest of the shift. Later in the day I asked her why she was scared and she told me it’s cause I’m so tall and quiet and have dreads covering my eyes. I said ok and we ended up laughing it off with some other coworkers

It also doesn’t really help that I get nervous pretty easily admittedly and usually get anxious talking to new people. So if no one says anything to me I’ll probably just end up being quiet.

This is kind of getting long but I did trade school along with hs my junior and senior year. I got through three quarters not resllly talking to anyone and kind of isolated. The teacher pulled my mom in for a meeting and basically told her that it looks like I didn’t want to be there and that it looks like my mom is making me do it and how that’s disheartening for him. Another staff vouched and said on the trip (class trip for a competition in our trade we stayed there three days before coming back) it looked like I didn’t want to be there at all and I wasn’t enjoying myself (I did not want to go at all before the trip came admittedly). But as soon as we touched down I thought it was fun asf and really enjoyed myself. But the teacher and he both agreed that it looked like I didn’t want to be there

I don’t know I might just have to try to smile more or go out of my way to talk to people more. Any advice would be great appreciated especially if you have a similar experience

My gf told me she’s going to ASU West a couple days ago I voiced my concern about ASU and how it’s known for being a party school and is kinda famous for people cheating.

She basically told me it’s nothing to worry about because she went to ASU West instead of Tempe and that they don’t really hook up or party there?

Is this true? I know I kind of sound immature but I’m thinking about breaking up with her. Before anyone says anything about me being childish you have to look at it from my point of view. We’re both seeing all the jokes people are making about ASU, seeing it’s the number 1 party school etc. and knowing all of that you chose to go there? I don’t know let me know if I’m being dramatic or immature. I really like her but idk. If you’ve gone to West please let me know how it is over there in terms of stuff like that.

Edit: For everyone saying I should just trust her yea I hear you but like no? You have to think she’s seeing the same things I am. This is the only thing that is talked about when it comes to ASU and even if it doesn’t happen as often as I think. She doesn’t know that. There would be no way for her to know that. So she saw the media about all the parties and hookups and cheaters. And she decided to go there. I don’t know how none of you can see how that’s kinda of disrespectful and hurtful.

I’ve been playing and I genuinely feel like I’m hitting my opponents with pillows. Everytime I even peak out I get melted because there’s thirty different auto track or aoes in the game now. I could just be rusty but I don’t know.

Also everytime I get two picks on the same person they just automatically switch to Namor.

I basically only play spiderman he felt great last season but now it feels like he’s just there am I trippin?

I (17M) am a college freshman and the girl (19F) is a sophomore. I met her two weeks ago when I walked in late to class and the professor told me to join her group. We ended up exchanging socials, walked around campus, and hung out a good bit more. We’re not dating, we’re just friends (I kinda liked her at this point).

Two days ago, we met up after classes. We talked for like 30 mins before she asked if I wanted to go back to her dorm to chill. It was a single, so just us there. I’m ngl I was kinda nervous, I didn’t know what she was trying to do (forgot to mention I’m a virgin). We sit on her bed and turn on a show. Halfway through the next episode, she looks at me and asks if I ever ate it before. When I don’t know how to respond to things I just act like i didn’t hear them, so I say huh. She asks again. I tell her no and she asks if I can do it to her. I nervously agree. She turns around facing her butt towards me. I’ll spare the details but it happened for like 5-10 minutes before she finished. We laid there for an hour before we did an awkward hug goodbye.

The next day, I don’t speak to her. My mom usually likes to bring me a plate of food when she makes one of my favorite meals because my college is only like thirty minutes away (it’s so sweet and I love her for it). I say hi to my mom, hug her, and chat.

I get back to my dorm and I still don’t feel hungry, which is odd because I usually devour my mom’s cooking. I force myself to eat. It’s like I’m eating but like I’m manually chewing and not just enjoying the food. It tastes good but it doesn’t feel regular like I have to forcibly move my jaw up and down and I’m like gagging a little too. It takes me an hour and a half to finish the food (two burgers and some fries). I forced myself tit all because I ’m already pretty skinny for my height and that was my first time eating that day. An hour later I open up a bag of chips. Same feeling—manually chewing and gagging a bit.ext

Today I wake up, get back home from class, and try to eat a cookie. Same feeling, I myself to keep going, and I end up throwing up on the floor.
So basically I’m asking is this normal?

Edit: I’m ngl I wasn’t expecting these type of comments it’s kinda making me feel weird. Imma just try to forget abt it. I’ll probably be back to normal in like a week or so idk but I appreciate all the advice yall gave

Edit 2: I have class with her on Monday I usually sit with her and her group but what should I do now? Would it be ok to go back?

pls stop messaging me asking what I look like it’s starting to get a lil creepy.

Idk why people are acting like oda likes kids because he put that line in there. She has a crush on brook and she knows what brook likes so she hopes she grows into that in the future. And all the people saying no 16 year old would wish for that or say this.. yall can’t be deadass right? What other time would one wish for themselves to grow that’s literally peak growing age.

It lwk is a little off putting how she’s in underwear tho

Me personally mordecai has always been my favorite I still love rigby but as a kid I thought mordecai was cooler so that’s just who I liked.

But to get to the main point why do people love rugby so much. I feel like I always see everybody hating on mordecai (Mainly for the microwave and wedding episode) but rigby is genuinely the biggest dh for almost the whole show.

Also idk if I’m misremembering stuff but what big character development does rigby get? I remember him dating eileen and getting his diploma but other than that how does he change?

Yo my gf just told me she’s going to ASU when I asked her isn’t that the school that throws a bunch of parties she said no that’s only the Tempe campus and that the west one is quiet and doesn’t have a lot of hookups. Be honest with me how likely is it she cheats?

I wanna know if there’s a good amount of girls there. And if there are. Are they going? Let me know please

Edit: Does anybody know if booming blade works with the sneak attack reaction. Also can somebody help me explain the sneak attack reaction extremely confused I’ve only had it pop up one time on a main hand attack

I’m a pure level 4 swashbuckler I just got done sending Minthara to fight the grove. I’ve been noticing my build is super weak I almost lost to a goblin with a worm companion.

My stats are
Dex 16
Con 15
Strength 8
Charisma 16
Wisdom 10
Intelligence 8

I’m running a rapier right now. I also took magic initiate warlock for booming blade.

My build just overall sucks right now I’m only doing 4-11 on base weapon attacks and my disarm barely works because most of the time the enemy doesn’t have a weapon and if they do you can only use it one time on them.

Can anyone suggest any gear I could get or ways I can reallocate my stats?

Also I’m in honor mode forgot to mention that

I’m finna be a freshman at ASU west next year. How good is the gym there? Also do they have any indoor basketball courts?