u/NoWitness6400

She doesn't want to risk getting killed by the party turning into mind flayers, so.... She just jumps into almost certain death by attacking 4 people? Idk what made her think she could realistically beat the entire party. Then some more wonky stuff can happen, like half of the party being stuck outside once she locks up the place.

My Tav ended up dying and after she opened the area, she attacked my remaining party previously stuck outside and nobody else gave a fuck that they're killing Nettie in public in broad daylight lmao All this because you don't approve of offing yourself btw. I'm not saying it's bad writing exactly, just very weird.

Idk how much of this is an NT/ND thing, but it drives me INSANE. People expect you to downplay and joke about absolutely everything. You lost a bunch of weight? "Oh you know, I just ate less." You finished an extremely challenging major? "Yeah I had to study a lot, but it was worth it." You're going through the absolute worst time of your life? "Things are tough, but you know, it can't rain forever!"

It's like they expect you to be nonchalant and neutral about everything AND THEY COMMUNICATE LIKE THIS TOO. Even with loved ones. They hate giving deep, real answers to ANYTHING. Everything is a surface level emotionless brief summary, followed by the obligatory polite chuckle. Ugh.

Judgemental people get on my nerves so fucking much. They go around seething all day every day because someone wore something to the supermarket that they think is sloppy, because the barista didn't smile at them, because someone dared to pass them on the road, whatever. And this is so fucking common, people seemingly constantly have some problem with each other. It's unbearable.

And they don't even keep to themselves, instead, they usually complain alllllll the fucking time. If you hate socializing that much Martha, get a full-time home office job, order your groceries online and delete social media. Everyone will be happier.

I've finished the podcast for about a month now and I still can't get away. I was rambling to my friends about the lore and I am close to sending them my favorite episodes. I had them create Jon in Tomodachi Life. I am listening to the podcast all over again. I want to read fanfiction, which I haven't done since Arcane finished. I listen to songs and think "this really matches this or that fear". I thought finishing the story will bring me relief and stop this obsession, but if anything it made it worse. Because now I want to go back and analyze every tiny detail. Help me.

This annoys me SO much. I know tons of men & women are into the "thicc mommy" build which is basically just big thighs and ass and a wider torso without any fat. In the absolute max they'll have some fat on their hips but the belly is completely skinny.

And then these people who are attracted to this build go around saying shit like "oh yeah I love bigger women" "give me a chubby woman any day" MY GUY YOUR DICK WOULD SHRIVEL IF YOU SAW A FAT BELLY, STFU. Like idc if you're only attracted to people who are bigger in the way described above. Fair enough. But then don't go around saying you find obese women sexy, WHEN YOU DON'T. Just say you like big asses, ffs!

I always feel so out of place and admittedly insecure when I chat with other autistic people and they achieved all these admirable things thanks to their hyperfixations. I mean even things like writing a super long high quality story with countless details.

I don't have anything like that to show for myself. The only """"flex"""" I have is having almost 500 hours in Baldur's Gate 3. But I don't have the motivation to become good at art, or to write long stories, or even to learn every intricate detail of my hyperfixation and be extremely knowledgeable about it. Even with BG3 I don't know all that much and I wouldn't consider myself an expert or anything.

Post: I struggle with running [lists reasons why they're struggling hoping for tips/people who can relate]

Comment: I can't relate, I LOVE running, I look forward to it every day!

I swear I see comments like this allll the time. Great, happy for you, but this post is OBVIOUSLY not about you. At all. And most of these people don't even leave any advice, they literally just opened a post to comment how they cannot relate to it.

I have friends but none of them are cuddly except with their romantic partner. The most I get are very brief hugs. I brought it up with them, they said platonic physical affection makes them uncomfortable, so obviously I won't pressure it.

But my GOD it's fucking bad. Nobody wants to date me and I feel like I am going insane. I would literally drop to my knees and beg tearfully for a cuddle. I'm a very very very touchy person by default, I also prefer sleeping while hugging. Pets help somewhat but it feels like applying a bandage to a broken bone.

All of this to say, I feel for Karlach so fucking hard. Being touch-starved when you're a very cuddly person freaking sucks. I even relate to her knowing her touching people would hurt them, because I would also hurt my friends' boundaries if I started pawing at them. I'm currently doing a Karlach romance and damn it is pulling on my heartstrings.

I wonder if this is a common sensory thing. I'm one of those people who gets disgusted by things VERY easily. I take the trash out and happen to get in a full whiff, I'm gonna gag. If there's any poop during sex, I'm gonna vomit (which is why I won't even attempt anal ever). I can even gag just from seeing gross things.

I often hear people say 'oh it's gross but it's natural you know' casually, which makes me think my disgust response is significantly more intense than for average people. Like to me it's full on unbearable to tolerate and very vomiting-inducing.

There's no benefit to being fully naked. I will just feel awkward about how bad I look and how fat my belly is. Plus hoodies are warm and comfy, unlike being naked. And if I fall asleep right after, I won't have to worry about waking up cold and shivering. Hell, I think doing it half-naked is more cozy and intimate than fully naked. It just feels more relaxed and less pressuring to serve sexy constantly. Clothed sex all the way!

I feel like it's such a stereotype that we want to infodump on everyone at all times. If one of my close friends brings up one of my interests then I will share stuff because I trust them and want to open up to them. But I wouldn't talk to a stranger about my interests. They get small talk, because I don't want to open up to random people. Idk. Anyone else?

(Post loosely inspired by another post I saw where someone said during their autism assessment, they got written up as feeling an immense visible urge to infodump on a topic. If anything I'd feel an immense urge to hide anything personal I really care about.)

I'm 22, currently in university & looking for a job on the side. I'm around older people a lot and get this fairly often, but I am sure a lot of them have it significantly better and feel happier on a day to day basis.

My life is in constant uncertainty, every decision feels so high risk and the margin of error is extremely small. I wake up and go to bed with a knot in my belly. There's nothing "ah, carefree youth"-esque about my life. And contrary to popular belief, I don't drink & party all the time either.

If anything, I envy those older people who already have life figured out. Even if they don't make a huge sum, at least they feel certain about stuff.

Épp ma futottam bele ebbe az egyik helyen és eléggé meglepődtem hogy egyáltalán nem voltak képben mi hol merre. Konkrétan én mondtam meg nekik hogy még nincs vizsgaidőszak (ergo azt se tudták hogy az előtt kell nekik leadni a jelenléti ívet). Bár sikerült megbeszélni, nem tenném a nyakamat rá hogy a végén elér a rendszerbe az az aláírás. Szóval valószínűleg nézek valami alternatívát, inkább legyen több aláírásom a kelleténél, mint kevesebb. Járt már így más is, vagy csak én vagyok ilyen szerencsétlen? Esetleg buktatok már emiatt tárgyat?

Hogy az egyik kedvenc magyar számomat idézzem, örökre elég volt ebből. Elég volt a gyűlöletkeltésből, az egymásra mutogatásból, az áldozat pózból. Soha többé nem akarom hogy a magyar politikában helye legyen egy olyan pártnak, ami arról szól hogy ki a jogokat nem érdemlő gonosz akit utálni kell. Leszarom a szólásszabadságot, szerintem a gyűlöletkeltés nem az, sajnálom. Aki ennyire utál mindenkit az vegyen egy boxzsákot, ragassza fel rá azt akit éppen hibáztat a saját problémáiért, aztán püfölje azt.

Mostantól csak Gajdos László temperamentumú embereket vagyok hajlandó megtűrni a politikában. Olyan embereket akik JÓT akarnak tenni MINDENKIVEL, nem x y z halálra gyötört kisebbségbe akarnak még páros lábbal beletiporni. Dúró Dórától meg hányok. Még Orbánt is többre tartom emberileg, róla legalább elmondhatjuk hogy ő a hatalomért csinálta. Dúró Dórából kinézem hogy neki ez mind szívből jön, hogy vulgárisabbat ne írjak (pedig nagyon-nagyon szeretnék). 2030-ban NAGYON remélem hogy a Momentum fog a helyükön ülni! Köszönöm hogy ezt kiadhattam magamból.

I understand why they didn't want to make them talk near-constantly throughout the game, but at the same time sometimes I do something, get excited thinking they'll say something about it, then they just stand there instead. An example off the top of my head is saving the kid from the harpies. They react to Arabella's scene, but not to saving another kid from certain death? I feel like Gale would say something like "I'm very glad we got here in time" at the very least.

edit: it has been brought to my attention that I managed to make a very specific wrong example, as Gale does in fact react to this scene. I'll own up to my mistake. My point stands regardless but I won't attempt more examples based purely on memory.

I get that it's social conditioning, but god it's grating on my nerves. I hate how the responsible adult package is STILL the car + marriage + house with garden + kids combo. I live in a pretty conservative country (Hungary) so that likely contributes... but I still hear people say shit like "gotta be responsible soon, settle down, wife someone up and have some kids".

NOTHING ABOUT THAT IS RESPONSIBLE. THAT'S NOT HOW YOU HAVE KIDS IN A RESPONSIBLE WAY. They don't even want to actually take precautions and educate themselves as I see many childfree people do diligently. They just want to do what society labelled responsible so that they can feel that way about themselves, without actually being like that. It's all appearances. Which does track for those who care about social pressure, but still.

I am past letting the opinion of these people change my decisions, but damn it sucks knowing I'll never be taken seriously by some just because I am "not adulting the correct way".

Köztudott, hogy vannak akik utálják ha hozzájuk érnek, mindenki hagyja békén a személyes terüket köszönik szépen, sokan még a párjuktól is utálják mikor ölelgeti meg csókolgatja őket. Viszont megfigyeltem hogy sokan ezek közül az emberek közül üdvözléskor és elköszönéskor ugyanúgy tolják az ölelés és/vagy puszi kombót. Akkor is ha én nem kezdeményezem (pont azért mert tudom hogy utálják a fizikai kontaktot), ezért nem gondolom hogy csak udvariasságból csinálják. Illetve ajándékozáskor is megölelnek maguktól. Ez a kettő kivétel van.

Ennek valahogy más a kontaktusa az emberi pszichében, ezért ez belefér, akár még élvezetes is lehet, azzal ellentétben ha csak úgy ok nélkül akarnám őket ölelgetni?

I mean I understand what it means, but I cannot rank my emotions like that. I either feel something, or I don't. It either hurts or it doesn't. Well I guess I could differentiate between "I can put up with it" (1) and "I am about to yell and cry and scratch the wall if I don't get urgent help" (10). But any and all nuance is entirely lost on me. Same with happiness/sadness or any other emotion. What does it mean to be 7/10 happy??? I wouldn't know.

Infodump on your niche topics pls, I'd genuinely love to read them!

My hyperfixation is math related and I feel so out of place because of it ngl. Like I know it's a stereotype, but it's really true that most people's hyperfixations and special interests are shows, anime, games, fandoms, etc. And I don't even like those things, except games. I wish I could find those "got the math favor of autism" people I've heard so much about, but they seem to be an extinct or exceptionally well-hidden breed 😭

It's absolutely not that I think I am too intelligent for normies and only want to talk about string theory or things like that. If anything, I self-identify as a dumbass. But I feel like it's so so so rare for me to REALLY vibe with someone and enjoy myself. I hear a lot of conversations at uni and honestly, I don't wish to be a part of 99% of them. They sound exhausting and boring. I am enjoying my solo hobbies way more than I enjoy most social interaction.

Also people just... assume I care about what they're saying. Why? This might sound rude, but I frankly don't care all that much about a lot of stuff people have to say (excluding close loved ones) and always question "why do they think I am interested in hearing this? Depart please" 😭