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What’s this weird loud vibrating sound that won’t stop?

The phone audio doesn’t capture it well but it’s super loud in person. The loud vibrating sound only happens when the ac is running :(

u/No_Upstairs_1732 — 1 day ago

How to actually work with Saturn in 10H without waiting til I’m 27? [astro-seek]

I really need to get my career started ASAP but genuinely am I just gonna be stunted until I’m 27 😭 or worse…past that?

I know my chart also screams ADHD brain but I’m working on it with therapy.

Also what’s up with reverse Jupiter? Should I focus on that as well? Or does everyone have a reverse Jupiter?

Thank you tytytysm!!

u/No_Upstairs_1732 — 1 day ago

Are my lips permanently scarred?

The past year I’ve dealt with eczema on my lips and this crease has become more prominent. I’m wondering if the steroid I was prescribed could heal it or is this permanently scarred?

u/No_Upstairs_1732 — 1 day ago

Does anything wave a red flag?

These are personal projects. I'm currently doing my resume and I'm wondering if anything waves a red flag? Should I take off a project? Should I delete some bullet points? I'm mainly trying to come across someone willing to learn and do the job.

u/No_Upstairs_1732 — 2 days ago

What is better for ATS format? Pipes or Commas or Bullets

I currently have it as:

Key Proficiency: Skill | Skill| Skill|

But my friend has it as:

  • proficient in skill
  • proficient in skill

Or

Key Proficiency: Skill, Skill, Skill,

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u/No_Upstairs_1732 — 3 days ago
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Is this format ATS friendly? Skill| Skill| Skill

I currently have it as:

Key Proficiency: Skill | Skill| Skill|

But my friend has it as:

  • proficient in skill
  • proficient in skill

Or

Key Proficiency: Skill, Skill, Skill,

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u/No_Upstairs_1732 — 3 days ago

Is this format ATS friendly? Skill | Skill| Skill|

I currently have it as:

Key Proficiency: Skill | Skill| Skill|

But my friend has it as:

  • proficient in skill
  • proficient in skill

Or

Key Proficiency: Skill, Skill, Skill,

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u/No_Upstairs_1732 — 3 days ago

What city could I thrive in career wise?

I’m trying to AI everything but I figured I should ask real people what they think?

It says New Zealand or east Asia could be good for me, but honestly I don’t speak any other languages and New Zealand logically doesn’t make sense.

u/No_Upstairs_1732 — 3 days ago

What city could I thrive in career wise?

I’m trying to AI everything but I figured I should ask real people what they think?

It says New Zealand or east Asia could be good for me, but honestly I don’t speak any other languages and New Zealand logically doesn’t make sense.

i.redd.it
u/No_Upstairs_1732 — 3 days ago

Fake marriage under false identity

*TLDR request:* FMC finds out MMC’s real identity in marriage and pushes him away. MMC realizes he loves her and begs for them to get married for reals. Would love to see the MMC be like “if you think I’m so crazy, I’ll show you crazy” enter kiss/spice scene LOL. Third act breakup? Yes please ✅
Ngl if anything sounds remotely like this, I would love the recommendation. I personally love miscommunication and third act breakups and all the back and forth commotion.

I was inspired by this show called “Pursuit of Jade”. Basically the MMC and FMC got together for mutual benefits. Her to save her house and him to lay low for a bit. However, the FMC did not know his reasoning and he turned out to be this high ranking officer.

There was a turning point when he revealed his status and she was like “nah that’s messed up, you’ve been lying to me this entire marriage, and our status gap isn’t right. I was married to the common man not not some ruthless commander”

I didn’t really like that he respected her decision and politely backed up but that’s a me issue. I love the begging he did and her still loving him but was holding herself back.

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u/No_Upstairs_1732 — 10 days ago

Vietnamese vloggers/streamers?

Looking for fun and popular southern GenZ Vietnamese vloggers and streamers to watch.

Mainly tryna watch to listen to more casual conversations

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u/No_Upstairs_1732 — 10 days ago

What’s with the lack of social skills?

I was responding to a post and I realized I wanted to complain here too. I have so many more examples but this is my most aggravating one.

Idk if it’s just a New York thing, but I went into a perfume shop and figured I’d strike up a conversation with these two girls who seem to be about my age.

Asked them “are yall tourists too?” And I received blank stares.

And they looked at each like they were about to laugh. I waited cause yk maybe it just takes time for people to answer and after a good 30s and a silent head shake, I was like alright cool. Ty.

Fortunately, an older family from my state was there as tourists and we talked for a little bit which was nice.

But like, I’d rather have a “piss off bitch” rather weird blank stares 🙄🙄 like what’s wrong with people.

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u/No_Upstairs_1732 — 11 days ago

How to sit for long hours?

Has anyone crack the code for sitting for longs hours 40-50hrs a week? In person/remote?

I’ve been doing some therapy and I’m slowly overcoming burnout and the mental obstacles being in corporate. But physically my body aches so bad.

I’ve got some wrist bands things for carpel tunnel but my hips/legs/back have constant dull ache from sitting too long.

I know getting up a stretching every hour is good, but honestly it feels so embarrassing/distracting when you’re the only one getting up and walking across productive people so frequently.

I go to the bathroom and do 10-30 squats every so often, but maybe I need to add different chair pillows or wear those Amazon back braces.

I’ve started to exercise too but even then, I feel like my body would still be in ache-y from sitting too long.

I know for me (23F) is too early to complain about this, but genuinely my back and hips hurt so bad.

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u/No_Upstairs_1732 — 11 days ago

Are pages of dialogue good writing?

Not really sure where to post this, but this has been on my mind for quite some time now.

I can’t tell if my attention span is disintegrating or it’s just reading bad writing. Or it’s a personal preference.

Anyway, for example, in books something would happen to the main character either it’s described explicitly/implicitly how the character feels.

Then in the next chapter, there are pages of dialogue that just reiterates what just happened. But this time the other characters are validating her (predictable) reaction.

Like I just read the scene??? Why do I need to read a summary of it? I get it. We’re seeing the connection the MC has with others, but I feel like it could be written in other ways.

Is this bad writing? Or am I just wrong?

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u/No_Upstairs_1732 — 14 days ago
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I’m not sure when this habit formed but now I fall asleep within about 5mins when my partner is next to me. However, once I’m home with my parents, I can barely fall asleep and often times staying up til 5-6am.

It’s not like I have separation anxiety, it’s more so I have too many thoughts. I would think of what to do, random questions that I should google, my future, the past, the present, maybe finishing the book I’m starting, should I take on more shifts etc etc

Just so many things!

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u/No_Upstairs_1732 — 15 days ago

I take the generic version of vyvanse and so far it’s the best fit for me. However, my dad is retiring soon and he’s planning on getting the rest of the family Obamacare after the good insurance is done.

I was planning that once I get situated with Obamacare, I’ll figure out the finance then (seeing how much the dr visits and prescriptions are)

But I realized I should ask others if they have recommendations on “good” budget insurance for control medications. And if they have dealt with Obamacare or not.

I know this is probably a wild ask considering insurance is such a pain. But I’d love any advice or direction when it comes to downgrading insurance.

My other alternative is getting in non-control meds once I’m on Obamacare but I first tried it 5 years ago, and all it did was make me sleepy.

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u/No_Upstairs_1732 — 16 days ago
▲ 2 r/China

I’m planning to go to China and although my boyfriend and his family is Chinese; they haven’t been back in 2 decades.

I’m planning how to shop right now and I’m completely confused. I think I’m using the wrong apps but I put in 斗篷** **in taobao and this heart shaped app, the results are like really bad.

Are there specific apps or ways I could search for stuff in China? Like if I put in cute tops, can it pop up specific stores I can go too?

Speaking of pop-ups, how do you find events? I would love to go to pop up events like games or shows (honkai, genshin, wuthering waves), but I’m confused on how to search for them.

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u/No_Upstairs_1732 — 17 days ago

Currently I have two cities in the DFW metroplex, and so far they balance each other out ok. I’m thinking of adding Richardson (maybe Houston if I road trip this summer)

but I’m wondering if it would actually diversify the range of books or just create more copies of what the other cities already have?

Not that more copies aren’t beneficial, but I love scrolling and finding new books I haven’t read/heard about before.

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u/No_Upstairs_1732 — 18 days ago

When I say built muscle, I don’t mean like body building. I just mean like using weights or working out in a way to strengthen your muscles. Weak glutes and pelvis to stronger glutes and pelvis.

It seems like people take it easy on their body while fasting for example walking 10-15k steps, but I’d love to use some weights. Or do like some YouTube body strength workouts.

Or is that not possible with fasting?

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u/No_Upstairs_1732 — 19 days ago