I've recently been in the worst place I've ever been in with my mental health. Ever since it started to deteriorate I've been seeing number patterns non stop, specifically 111, 11, 22, 2222 and then just pattern like 18:18, 23:23, etc.
Wondering if there's any link/ signs?
Apart from buccal fat removal, what else can be done for a really round face? My face is very round even when I'm a normal weight. I tend to just hold a lot of fat in my face.
Is there anything that can be done to remove fat from jawline, sides of face, etc?
Hope this doesn't come across as whiny, just wanted to share my experience 😅
I feel like it's difficult to enjoy life and achieve things when you're unattractive.
People treat you so differently that it affects all aspects of your life.
Dating is near impossible. You can get laughed at for even having the audacity to want to date and find love.
Making friends can be difficult cause even if you are an interesting, kind, loving person as soon as someone better looking walks in the door people tend to gravitate towards them.
In the workplace attractive people get favoured. Sometimes they get away with doing less work, people are more likely to listen to them in meetings, they can easily slack off without much consequence.
You're more likely to get laughed at in the street by teenagers and have them mess with you when you're just minding your own business.
I could go on but you get the point.
People will say 'be confident' but it's kinda hard to have confidence when you have a lot of unfair situations happen to you and over time it can wear you down. I try not to be upset as I know sometimes people do it subconsciously.
These are just some experiences I have had. Would love to know if anyone can relate.
I feel like it's difficult to enjoy life and achieve things when you're unattractive.
People treat you so differently that it affects all aspects of your life.
Dating is near impossible. You can get laughed at for even having the audacity to want to date and find love.
Making friends can be difficult cause even if you are an interesting, kind, loving person as soon as someone better looking walks in the door people tend to gravitate towards them.
In the workplace attractive people get favoured. Sometimes they get away with doing less work, people are more likely to listen to them in meetings, they can easily slack off without much consequence.
You're more likely to get laughed at in the street by teenagers and have them mess with you when you're just minding your own business.
I could go on but you get the point.
People will say 'be confident' but it's kinda hard to have confidence when you have a lot of unfair situations happen to you and over time it can wear you down. I try not to be upset as I know sometimes people do it subconsciously.
Hope this doesn't come across as whiny, just wanted to share my experience 😅
Why do I keep hearing about 'male loneliness' as if everyone isn't lonely?
Not trying to downplay that some guys have had bad situations happen that have left them lonely but I really can't stand this victim mentality that men have going on right now. Besides that fact that loneliness is a big thing nowadays due to many factors of modern life, a lot of mens loneliness is self inflicted.
Having been lonely myself I have tried making friends with a lot of guys and this has been my experience:
-They pretend they want friendship but are actually looking for a relationship. Then get mad when I say I'm not interested despite making it clear in the beginning I'm looking for friendship.
-They have zero social skills and it's like talking to a wall. The lack of effort just to make basic conversation.
-They don't try to make friends with other guys.
-They use you as emotional support and will only vent about their problems, then when you suggest ways of solving their issues they shoot down every solution. Like they enjoy being a victim.
-When you vent about your problems they invalidate every experience you have as a woman. Telling us we have it easy as if the world isn't built to cater to men 🙄
I could go on and on but you get the point. It's crazy how they can't see their own privilege, they'll never have to worry about their rights being taken away, etc. Loneliness is an issue that can be fixed with a bit of effort.
A lot of celebrities have been getting buccal fat removed and they end up looking worse. Does anyone know of someone who looks better after getting that surgery?
I know this question isn't related to diet but I figured most people here are open minded and truth searchers.
I am having trouble understanding whether sunlight is actually bad for us or if this is a narrative being pushed by certain people..
I've noticed some raw vegans online don't tend to use suncreen and never really seem to have any problems. But then we have people who get skin cancer. Also people say you should wear sun glasses to protect your eyes but then I have seen people who 'sun gaze' and say that the sun heals eyes?
I'm really just trying to find out what the truth is. There's so much conflicting information out there it's just confusing :/
Does anyone else feel like life is so pointless? I literally feel like a robot just going through my daily tasks and work.
I used to have goals and ambitions but it's becoming more unachievable by the day. Working towards things which are now impossible like owning my own house. The cost of living has made even small things like having a fun day out bowling not possible.
People are so angry and rude now, like everyone is a ticking time bomb.
Getting up every morning is becoming more difficult. I wake up and ask myself what I'm even working towards anymore. And I don't mean this in a self deleting kind of way, I'm just genuinely confused on what I'm supposed to be doing.
I want to try a pizza with bbq sauce but I cannot stand the bbq dipping sauce they have, I'm wondering if it's the same?
It seems like life is pointless when you're ugly.
All the things that you should be able to do become 100x harder.
Dating is non existent. If you put yourself out there you get made fun of. If you try to act confident people ridicule you.
You can't do the same things as attractive or average looking people cause you get laughed at. You're more likely to be made fun of by teenagers when you walk down the street.
I'm always terrified of ending up on social media somewhere if I'm just going about my life and someone in public decides to film me. Because of this I only leave the house if I have to and have become agoraphobic. People think I'm lazy and don't want to put effort into socialising but I have witnessed first hand how you can be the most social, loving, kind, interesting person but the minute someone better looking walks in it's like you don't exist anymore.
Everyday I think about the things I could have achieved if I just looked different. I would get cosmetic surgery in a heartbeat if I could afford it.
The only people who say 'looks don't matter' are people who have never had to be worried about their looks.
Life is just exhausting.
I have seen some of the podcasts with the moms and sometimes sense bitterness/ regret from them. It makes me wonder if they regret not taking their girls outside of the studio for opportunities?
Holly and Melissa are really the only ones who went out of their way to get opportunities from outside the studio. Melissa in season 1 when she took her girls to an agent in LA and Holly with Nias music in season 5. And now their girls are the only ones really working in the industry.
Now I obviously understand it's cause of Abby holding them back and they didn't want to deal with her wrath, I mean Nia literally got excluded so much in season 5 cause of it. But I do think sometimes Jill, Christi and Kelly regret how they didn't put more effort into getting their girls out there and seen.
I honestly sick of having to go to work and deal with corporate bs, bullies, having to commute, etc.
I really want to manifest working from home or having income without having to actually leave the house and go to a job.
Would love some advice on this topic.
How come whenever we shower or just go into water like pools and the ocean our skin dries out? Shouldn't more water moisturise our skin?
I randomly came across a post from a carnivore person asking how often other carnivores poop and majority of people were saying less than once a day. Some people said once a week, 2-3 a week?! 😭
How do people think it's normal? Most animals will poop after each meal they eat. Same as babies.
Even before I ate high raw I was going once a day. How are they not uncomfortable 😩
Do you think they are real? If so how do you spot one?
I've been seeing videos of people talking about this. I used to think it was insane but the more I witness things going on in the world, the more I realise just how much has been hidden.
For people who changed their appearance- how did you change your thoughts from thinking you were unattractive to believing you were beautiful?
I am listening to subs for desired appearance but really having a hard time changing my actual mindset to believing I am good looking.
I don't really have issues with my armpit hair but for some reason I'm very insecure when it comes to hair on my actual arms.
I'm south asian so the hair on my arms is black and very visible. Even on my shoulders and back/ neck area even though the hair is much thinner and more peach fuzzy, the fact that it's black means you can see it.
I haven't worn sleeveless tops or dresses since I was a child. I want to but I'm really afraid of how people in public will react and I don't want assholes taking pictures or anything :/
I never understood why Abby acted like having random girls come in and beat her own dancers was like some kind of flex? Like she would show off that other people could beat them. That literally reflects badly on her, it's basically saying her training and teaching sucks.
Especially if the only dancer she thought she could rely on was Maddie. Like you only believe you have one good student that isn't something to be happy about 💀😭