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So yesterday me (M22) & my gf (F21) were having sex. usually when we do it, we routinely do it in the missionary position and i usually finish and she’s able to have a good time too, but yesterday something unusual happened. As I was thrusting, I was having difficulty finishing – which is not common, since I usually am able to finish with no problem; but yesterday it just wasn’t clicking for some reason and I was thrusting for like 10-15 minutes. Then as I was continuing thrusting, all of a sudden I feel an enormous heavy pressure on my penis – the feeling was so heavy that, it was as if my Penis was being squeezed from all sides. With this enormous pressure on me I was finally at last able to finish & it was one of the best feelings ever. I looked over at my gf and I asked her what the hell just happened? & she just laughed and said “magic”

I’m still confused on what happened even after a day just passed since. Because we've been doing missionary for so long and nothing like this has ever happened. What do you guys think?

I’m honearly curious how women here view this, and I’m not trying to start a gender war in the comments.

There are subreddits where women share pictures of men and discuss their looks, bodies, or attractiveness. I’ve sometimes wondered how people view that in comparison to similar communities where men do the same thing with women. Part of what makes me curious is that I feel like if the genders were completely reversed, there would probably be a lot more outrage and criticism surrounding it. 

I understand that the purpose is essentially to appreciate male attractiveness, and I don’t have a problem with people finding others attractive. What I wonder about is the double standard. If the genders were reversed and there were a subreddit where men regularly posted pictures of women specifically because they found them attractive, I feel like there would be significantly more outrage and accusations of objectification or misogyny.

I’d genuinely like to hear different perspectives, especially from women who participate in or have experience with these kinds of communities.

I’ve read and heard many times that a lot of women are left unsatisfied with their sex lives because their partners either don’t know how to satisfy them or don’t put much effort into their pleasure. But what if you had a partner whose only goal was making sure you enjoyed yourself and got off, but he genuinely didn’t want you to pleasure him in return? He enjoyed giving more than receiving and was completely happy focusing on you.

If you had to pick one superhero (Marvel, DC, or any other universe), who do you think is the hottest?

It could be because of their looks, physique, personality, confidence, voice, or just the overall vibe they give off. Who’s your pick, and what is it about them that makes them so attractive?

When the Symbiote first bonds with Peter in his apartment, he gets knocked unconscious almost immediately. But later, when it bonds with Eddie in the church, he doesn’t pass out or seem affected the same way. He just screams for a second and then it cuts to him already fully suited up as Venom.

Is there an explanation for why Peter got knocked out and Eddie didn’t?

I’ve read and heard many times that a lot of women are left unsatisfied with their sex lives because their partners either don’t know how to satisfy them or don’t put much effort into their pleasure. What if you had a partner whose only goal was making sure you enjoyed yourself and got off, but he genuinely didn’t want you to pleasure him in return? He enjoyed giving more than receiving and was completely happy focusing on you.

Would that make you feel appreciated, or would it make you feel uncomfortable or even a little guilty because you’d want things to be more reciprocal?

My girlfriend only orgasms when she’s on top. We’ve tried plenty of other positions over time, and although she enjoys them, she never actually reaches orgasm unless she’s the one on top. It’s become pretty predictable at this point. No matter what else we try, if she wants to finish, it always ends up being the same position. Because of that, I honestly feel like we should probably just have her be on top from now on, since that’s the only position that consistently works for her.

Part of me wishes there was a bit more variety and that other positions could have the same result, but that’s just how things seem to work for us right now.

What should I do in this situation? Should I just accept that this is the only way she finishes and stick with it, or is there usually a way to change or improve this over time?

We’re doing everything we can to maximize our chances. We track her ovulation every month, pay close attention to her fertile window, and make sure we have sex on the days when she’s most fertile. We’ve both read about timing and fertility, so we’re trying to do everything we can to conceive. The thing I’ve been struggling with is how TTC has changed the way sex feels. During her fertile window, she’s suddenly much more interested in having sex, and understandably we make the most of those days. Once ovulation has passed, that urgency disappears.

I know she’s not doing anything wrong, and I know timing is incredibly important when you’re trying for a baby. I also know this process can be stressful for both of us. But emotionally, I can’t help feeling reduced to a sperm machine. It sometimes feels like my main purpose is to provide sperm at the right time each month, rather than to share an intimate moment with the woman I love. The best comparison I can think of is feeling like a cow being milked; needed because of what I can produce rather than because of the connection itself. I know that’s probably not how she sees me, but that’s honestly how it feels from my perspective.

I feel guilty for even thinking this because I know we’re both working toward the same goal, and I know she isn’t trying to make me feel this way. I just miss when sex felt more spontaneous and less like something scheduled around a calendar.

the symbiote originally turns into what appears to be fabric, becoming Peter’s black suit. But after Peter rips the black suit off in the church, the symbiote falls onto Eddie Brock and bonds with him.

At that point, what exactly is it? Is Eddie technically wearing a suit made from the symbiote, or has the symbiote become part of his body? It no longer seems like regular clothing, since it completely envelops him and can change shape at will. So after bonding with Eddie, is Venom essentially a living organism attached to him, or is Eddie still just wearing an alien suit in a different form?

I’ve noticed that whenever my girlfriend is on top during sex, she’s constantly touching me all over. She’ll run her hands over my chest, stomach, arms, shoulders, and hair, and she also sometimes grabs my face throughout the experience.

I know a lot of people would probably see this as a positive thing, and I don’t hate it, but it kind of bothers me a bit. It can feel distracting at times, and I find myself wondering why she does it so much. What’s interesting is she doesn’t really do this when I’m on top, she’s a lot more passive and doesn’t touch me nearly as much in that position.

I never really think about it until I’m in the moment, and then I realize I’m not sure what I should be doing with them. Are most people constantly touching their partner, holding them, caressing them, or does it just happen naturally without much thought?

For example, when one partner is on top, what do you usually do with your hands?

Peter is asleep in his bed when the Symbiote crawls over to him and bonds with his body. Throughout the Raimi trilogy, Peter’s spider-sense seems to warn him of danger, even when he’s not directly looking at a threat.

So why doesn’t it activate when an alien organism is literally crawling onto him and attaching itself to his body while he’s sleeping?