u/Ok_Barracuda_6997

I love this show so much, but I can acknowledge it’s not for everyone. My mom also really likes Ted Lasso, but I would never watch it, because it’s just not something I think I would like. I feel like some people think because a show isn’t for them that it must be bad. Like I don’t think Ted Lasso is a bad show, I just don’t think it’s for me.

If you are heavy in 12th house, I’ve learned that other people’s advice doesn’t apply to you. Because often people will project themselves onto you, their advice will be malsuited to what you really need.

The true gifts with this placement come when you learn to trust your own intuition and feel things out for yourself.

Average Reddit conversation:
"These are collectibles. If you crack one, you're a fucking idiot."
"NO DUDE, I SWEAR THEY FUCKING WORK"

Ok, so that movie freaked me the fuck out. But the truth is, I actually saw some similarities. Like when he was on the phone, and she got up to look at him, that's like something I would do. Or when he was in bed with her and wanted to get up, and she was like, "NOOO," I was like, yeah, that's something I would do. The scene with the duct tape was fucking hilarious, and I would never do that, but I feel like I have wanted to. Actually, she reminded me so much of myself, and in her scariest moments, she reminded me of my BPD mother. Obviously, neither my mother nor I have ever murdered anyone, so I'm not talking about that. But in my craziest moments, I was like her. When I really let loose, let the mask down, and just was honest about how crazy obsessed I was.

I've seen a lot of posts lately about how Vox SAed Alastor. And I think it's really important that we have these conversations. Forcing him to watch him have sex with Val was definitely super violating. I'm not denying that.

I think what I want to address is that it feels like a subtle form of criticism of radiostatic shippers. Like, oh, you must be so toxic to like this ship.

I had to go through this with people about the hands-on shoulder thing. Yes, Vox is wrong for being a creep, but in many of these conversations, I see people infantilizing Alastor.

Alastor is a serial killer who eats people, dead or alive (or however alive you can be in Hell). I'd say that's a pretty violating experience. And he also smacked Vaggie on the butt in the pilot with his staff. My point is simply that people like the ship because they are both toxic, which makes them kind of cute together in a way.

It doesn't mean that, in real life, I'd ever encourage two people like that to be together, or that I even believe it will be canon. It's just fun to fantasize about. If you don't get it, that's fine. But don't use an important conversation about SA awareness to criticize a ship.

"BuT tHe PiLoT iSn'T cAnOn"

Yes, it is. Spiritually. Those are Viv's words. Just specific things changed, and she never specified what. So, it's pretty much canon what you want to believe is canon. Al has always been Ace. That's his headcanon. So, he just does weird stuff sometimes, and as much as I love him, he needs to be held accountable just as much as Vox.

I frequently feel disgusted with other people and angry.

Any advice on coping?

So basically I bite my nails and the skin on my thumb doesn’t have an open wound but the skin is more open and I touched a rusty object so I’m paranoid some rust got in there and it could get infected.

Should I get a tetanus shot, or am I paranoid? My last tetanus shot was in 2020.

I never forget about an ex or even just someone who made me fall in love a little bit. What is the cacophony? It’s so confusing to fantasize about so many different people. Men, women, I like both, and every time someone makes me feel something I never forget about them. They are just added to my repertoire of beaus. So, I just fantasize about several different people at different times. I don’t know if I could ever settle down. How could I spend my life with one person while I still fantasize about 20 more? Don’t say poly. I’m so possessive and jealous considering my situation.