Friends?

Hey there, the older I get the harder I find it to make friends. I’m a 39 yo lesbian who works in an engineering department during the day and does woodworking and other crafts at night along with hanging out with my dogs.

Hit me up?

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u/Pure_Border_9043 — 3 days ago
▲ 3 r/l4l

Hey there! Wisconsin single masc looking to chat

Hey, 39 yo masc lesbian looking to chat with femme ladies who have similar interests.

I like woodworking, reading, travel, hiking, and spending time with my dogs and family.

I also am a career oriented lady who has been at my job for 7+ years and seek someone who’s somewhat equally as established in their life.

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u/Pure_Border_9043 — 3 days ago

Midwest friends

39/lesbian from Wisconsin trying to build my community. I’ve moved from WI to AR years ago and lost a lot of the people who I had.

I’m into traveling, my dogs, reading, hiking, and a ton of other small hands on crafts like sewing.

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u/Pure_Border_9043 — 3 days ago
▲ 3 r/wausau

Wood Co friends

🏳️‍🌈 Hey from Marshfield! Looking for friends.

I like:
Hiking
Movies
Card games
Campfires
State parks
Playing with my dogs
Some video games
Reading
Survivalist type tv shows
Farmers markets
Drag shows

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u/Pure_Border_9043 — 3 days ago

🏳️‍🌈Community

Hey there! I don’t live super far from Eau Claire and I’ve been trying to find a sense of community somewhere.

Me:
39 single lesbian who leans more towards the masc side than anything else. Have a great job and two fur faces who follow me around. 😜😁

Anyone know any spots that i could visit in town that would be accepting?

Thank you! 😊 🫶🏼

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u/Pure_Border_9043 — 4 days ago

Dating struggles

I’m a 39 yo lesbian from Wisconsin and I’ve been noticing it’s really hard to find ladies who are established in their lives.

Me:
Woodworker
Crafter
Sewist
Homeowner
Have a career
Can drive
Love to travel
Have dogs
Have a cat
No kids
Masc 4 femme

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u/Pure_Border_9043 — 4 days ago

🏳️‍🌈new here - seeking friends

Hey there, 39 female here who is somewhat new to the Marshfield area. I like being outside, traveling, woodworking, sewing, quilting, true crime, and just hanging out playing card or video games.

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u/Pure_Border_9043 — 4 days ago

4th of July events?

I’ll be close to the valley for the holiday weekend and I was hoping to find people to meet up with. Are there any LGBT friendly events going on?

Thank you! 😊 🏳️‍🌈

u/Pure_Border_9043 — 4 days ago
▲ 175 r/madisonwi+1 crossposts

Midwestern lesbians?

Hey there from Wisconsin! Been trying to make friends for a while in the Midwest but keep falling flat. I’m not a drinker so I don’t go to bars, I don’t do “herbs” so I don’t just hang out with folks that do really, I’m 39 (about to be 40 this Nov), and just have been struggling to find “my place” in the community for what feels like my entire life.

Tips, tricks, advice?

Much love! Thanks. 😊 🫶🏼🏳️‍🌈

u/Pure_Border_9043 — 5 days ago

Over it?

Me, 39 lesbian from Wisconsin, keep having a super hard time finding women who seem to be seeking the same things in life.

Typically I lean more towards ladies who are a few years older than me as in the past I’ve discovered that I tend to have more in common with them.

The catch? It seems like all of the ladies I’ve been meeting over the last two years are either still married, newly out, or have no idea what they want.

Is this common where you live? I was hoping to be married again by 40. (Been divorced from my ex wife since 2014.) At this rate I’ll be fortunate to even have one decent woman who I’m getting to know at that point. It just hurts my heart.

I have a career, own a house, drive, have a great family, and I’m constantly told “you’re so incredible! How’re you single?” 🙄 it’s frustrating.

Any tips?

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u/Pure_Border_9043 — 6 days ago

Will you be my new mom?

No, Frieda is NOT up for adoption.

Yes, she’s looking for her second mom.

Her: 11.85 month old German Shepherd mix puppy. Me: 39 year old Wisconsinite lesbian seeking new friends or loml potential.

Hit us up?

u/Pure_Border_9043 — 6 days ago
▲ 10 r/actuallesbians+1 crossposts

Over it?

Me, 39 lesbian from Wisconsin, keep having a super hard time finding women who seem to be seeking the same things in life.

Typically I lean more towards ladies who are a few years older than me as in the past I’ve discovered that I tend to have more in common with them.

The catch? It seems like all of the ladies I’ve been meeting over the last two years are either still married, newly out, or have no idea what they want.

Is this common where you live? I was hoping to be married again by 40. (Been divorced from my ex wife since 2014.) At this rate I’ll be fortunate to even have one decent woman who I’m getting to know at that point. It just hurts my heart.

I have a career, own a house, drive, have a great family, and I’m constantly told “you’re so incredible! How’re you single?” 🙄 it’s frustrating.

Any tips?

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u/Pure_Border_9043 — 6 days ago