Hot take: Being listed on a project and actually doing the project are two completely different things.

I've noticed a growing trend where people add every major project their company touched to their LinkedIn profile, and unless you ask follow-up questions, it reads as though they designed, led, or delivered the whole thing.

In reality, there's a huge spectrum of involvement:

Leading the concept/design

Preparing drawings and DPRs

Coordination

Quantity estimates

Documentation

Compilation

Helping during a submission crunch for a few hours

None of these roles are "less important." But they're also not the same thing.

Professional credibility comes from accurately representing what you actually did, not simply listing the biggest project your name happened to be associated with.

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u/Puzzleheaded-Cat2603 — 5 days ago

One day, the longing for my ex just disappeared

It's the strangest feeling.

After my breakup at the end of May, I missed my ex every single day. Then I got really sick with a high fever and spent one horrible night with severe body aches.

Ever since then, it's like a switch flipped. The longing is just... gone. I can look at his profile picture and not feel the ache I used to. Even weirder, I can barely remember most of the relationship. It feels like those memories have been packed away somewhere I can't reach.

Has anyone else experienced such a sudden shift after a breakup, where the attachment and even the memories seemed to disappear almost overnight?

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u/Puzzleheaded-Cat2603 — 6 days ago

One day, the longing for my ex just disappeared

It's the strangest feeling.

After my breakup at the end of May, I missed my ex every single day. Then I got really sick with a high fever and spent one horrible night with severe body aches.

Ever since then, it's like a switch flipped. The longing is just... gone. I can look at his profile picture and not feel the ache I used to. Even weirder, I can barely remember most of the relationship. It feels like those memories have been packed away somewhere I can't reach.

Has anyone else experienced such a sudden shift after a breakup, where the attachment and even the memories seemed to disappear almost overnight?

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u/Puzzleheaded-Cat2603 — 6 days ago