Update from yesterday about my confrontation with the guy

So remember yesterday when i said i confronted the guy who drew some "not so nice art" and masturbated to my girlfriend? Thanks for all your words about saying how wrong i was and that i was never in a relationship.

Guess what? Today, my girlfriend said she wanna break up with me, claiming that she had trouble seeing the future between us. And instantly, she got together with the Prick. The Prick showed her his bank account and my GF forwarded the screenshot to me. She said they both will save up money for their future.......and when i asked her if she has feeling for Prick, she said yes. Previously, she said she had no feeling for him. Guess it was a lie.....

i feel very pain now. I can't believe i lost out to some online guy that drew art of her.

Good guys never win, i tell you

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u/QF_Dan — 6 hours ago

25M. Looking for anyone to talk to

Currently going through some tough moments in life that makes me rethink life decisions and would love to talk about it with someone. Other than that, i love video games, cartoons, reading and narrating. I am just a simple guy who can talk about anything and can be a good listener to your problem too.

I would love to meet new friends and if possible, create a long lasting friendship. Asia as an added bonus, anyone is welcomed

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u/QF_Dan — 14 hours ago

Am i in the wrong for confronting the guy that harassed my GF?

So basically, i have a girlfriend and we have been together for few months now. We met first IRL and lived in the same city, our relationship is really good.We tend to talk everyday in our discord server since that's our more preferred way to do so. We have each other numbers.

However, there's this guy (let's just call him Prick) whose also in the server that confessed to her that he likes her. However, she doesn't like him back. The Prick is from somewhere else that we never met before in person.

Things doesn't end here, Prick would constantly reply to her message on discord even when it has nothing to do with him, this would continue on for weeks. And then recently, he would went as far as drawing some "not so nice arts" of my girlfriend, she sent some those of me in DM and asked me about my opinions. Understandebly, i was shocked.

Obviously, i asked my girlfriend about this and she replied with "Well, it's just the internet. People will draw things about anything and it doesn't bother me." She even told me that Prick is an introverted person with no friends and so, she befriended him.

Without thinking much, i confronted the Prick in the server and my girlfriend said that he will change. We had a big fight because she told me that Prick will change, to which i say "i do not believe" and she replied with "it's not good to assume". Prick continued to type in a roleplay form where he supposedly "cried" and "wonder why couldn't i believed him?" He then left the server.

Now my girlfriend doesn't wanna talk to me and claiming i wasn't being open minded.

This whole action from that guy makes me very uncomfortable coming from the perspective of her boyfriend and i feel like no one understands my feeling.

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u/QF_Dan — 1 day ago

Some guy harrased my GF (21F) and i'm (25M) not happy about it.

So basically, i have a girlfriend and we have been together for few months now. We met first IRL and lived in the same city, our relationship is really good.We tend to talk everyday in our discord server since that's our more preferred way to do so. However, there's this guy (let's just call him Prick) whose also in the server that confessed to her that he likes her. However, she doesn't like him back. The Prick is from somewhere else that we never met before in person.

Things doesn't end here, Prick would constantly reply to her message on discord even when it has nothing to do with him, this would continue on for weeks. And then recently, he would went as far as drawing some "not so nice arts" of my girlfriend, she sent some those of me in DM and asked me about my opinions. Understandebly, i was shocked.

Obviously, i asked my girlfriend about this and she replied with "Well, it's just the internet. People will draw things about anything and it doesn't bother me." She even told me that Prick is an introverted person with no friends and so, she befriended him.

Without thinking much, i confronted the Prick in the server and my girlfriend said that he will change. We had a big fight because she told me that Prick will change, to which i say "i do not believe" and she replied with "it's not good to assume". Prick continued to type in a roleplay form where he supposedly "cried" and "wonder who couldn't i believed him?" He then left the server.

Now my girlfriend doesn't wanna talk to me and claiming i wasn't being open minded.

This whole action from that guy makes me very uncomfortable coming from the perspective of her boyfriend and i feel no one understands my feeling.

Reposted due to some errors.

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u/QF_Dan — 1 day ago
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AITA for confronting someone over NFSW arts of my girlfriend?

So basically, i (25M) have a girlfriend (21F) and we have been together for few months now. We met first IRL and lived in the same city, our relationship is really good.We tend to talk everyday in our discord server since we aren't comfortable giving our phone numbers. However, there's this guy (let's just call him Prick) whose also in the server that confessed to her that he likes her. However, she doesn't like him back. The Prick is from somewhere else that we never met before in person.

Things doesn't end here, Prick would constantly reply to her message on discord even when it has nothing to do with him, this would continue on for weeks. ISTG, anything my GF post, he would immediately reply or react to all of them and my GF would reply to him normally. Main characters syndrome you know.

And then recently, he would went as far as drawing some dirty/NFSW arts of my girlfriend, she sent some those of me in DM and asked me about my opinions. Understandebly, i was shocked. She even told me that Prick is masturbating to her every single day which makes me even more uncomfortable too.

Obviously, i asked my girlfriend about this and she replied with "Well, it's just the internet. People will draw things about anything and it doesn't bother me." She even told me that Prick is an introverted person with no friends and so, she befriended him and would always talk to him when she had the chance.

Without thinking much, i confronted the Prick in the server and my girlfriend said that he will change. We had a big fight because she told me that Prick will change, to which i say "i do not believe" and she replied with "it's not good to assume". Prick continued to type in a roleplay form where he supposedly "cried" and "wonder why couldn't i believed him?"

Now my girlfriend doesn't wanna talk to me

Did i do something wrong? Am i wrong for arguing with that Prick? This whole action from that guy makes me very uncomfortable coming from the perspective of her boyfriend and i feel no one understands my feeling.

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u/QF_Dan — 1 day ago

AITA for confronting the guy over some arts of my girlfriend?

So basically, i (25M) have a girlfriend (21F) and we have been together for few months now. We met first IRL and lived in the same city, our relationship is really good.We tend to talk everyday in our discord server since we aren't comfortable giving our phone numbers. However, there's this guy (let's just call him Prick) whose also in the server that confessed to her that he likes her. However, she doesn't like him back. The Prick is from somewhere else that we never met before in person.

Things doesn't end here, Prick would constantly reply to her message on discord even when it has nothing to do with him, this would continue on for weeks. And then recently, he would went as far as drawing some "not so nice arts" of my girlfriend, she sent some those of me in DM and asked me about my opinions. Understandebly, i was shocked.

Obviously, i asked my girlfriend about this and she replied with "Well, it's just the internet. People will draw things about anything and it doesn't bother me." She even told me that Prick is an introverted person with no friends and so, she befriended him.

Without thinking much, i confronted the Prick in the server and my girlfriend said that he will change. We had a big fight because she told me that Prick will change, to which i say "i do not believe" and she replied with "it's not good to assume". Prick continued to type in a roleplay form where he supposedly "cried" and "wonder why couldn't i believed him?"

Now my girlfriend doesn't wanna talk to me, claiming i am not open minded like her and that person.

Did i do something wrong? Am i wrong for arguing with that Prick? This whole action from that guy makes me very uncomfortable coming from the perspective of her boyfriend and i feel no one understands my feeling.

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u/QF_Dan — 1 day ago

Is it normal to not have any friends in our life?

Ever since i was a kid, people have been saying i acted very weird, don't behave like other kids and even went as far as saying if i am mentally challenged just because i was quiet. As a result, i don't have friends till i grow up.

Even till this day, i struggled to have any friends and when someone at work asked me about that, they seem to have a sideeye regarding my life, making me look like as if i am in the wrong for not talking much or social much.

Was i in the wrong?

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u/QF_Dan — 2 days ago
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AITAH for confronting the guy who drew NFSW art of my girlfriend?

So basically, i have a girlfriend and we have been together for few months now, our relationship is really good.We tend to talk everyday in our discord server. However, there's this guy (let's call him Prick) whose also in the server that confessed to her that he likes her. However, she doesn't like him back.

Things doesn't end here, Prick would constantly reply to her message on discord even when it has nothing to do with him, this would continue on for weeks. And then recently,, he would went as far as drawing NSFW arts of my girlfriend and admitted to actually j*rking off to my girlfriend every single day.

Obviously, i confronted my girlfriend about this and she replied with "Well, it's just the internet. People will draw things about anything and it doesn't bother me." She even told me that Prick is an introverted person with no friends and so, she befriended him.

I confronted the Prick in the server and my girlfriend said that he will change. We had a big fight because she told me that Prick will change, to which i say "i do not believe" and she replied with "it's not good to assume"

Did i do something wrong? Am i wrong for arguing with that Prick?

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u/QF_Dan — 2 days ago

What's the first episode that you remembered watching that got you hooked?

it doesn't need to be the first episode of the show, it could be any episodes that you watched and said to yourself "yeah, i'm gonna watch this show"

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u/QF_Dan — 26 days ago
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AITAH for calling out my friend over an insensitive joke?

So one of my female friend in her discord server went to watch a movie at her local theatre. She (20F) told everyone that which was true.

But then after few hours, she came back online to say that she was gr*ped by some random guy in the theatre. The way she typed her message sounded like she was in trouble. Everyone were panicking if she's alright and wondering if she needs any mental support.

But guess what? she told everyone that it's just a prank to make people scared. She said the reason she made that joke was because of some Insta reels she watched and also i kid you not, she made that joke due to intrusive thoughts and that she couldn't think of something better at that moment.

Obviously, i didn't take the news well because gr*pe jokes were never funny. I proceed to lash out at her, calling her out for being insensisitive and childlish with that joke. She constantly denied that she couldn't think of something better to come up with a joke. I continued to scream at her (Caps On) and told her that she went too far with it and that her joke was never funny. Others joined in to agree with me.

But guess what? Instead of admitting her mistake, she proceed to say she hate all of us especially me. She got upset because i wouldn't forgive her over the joke and she proceed to leave the server. Her friends told me she will never return until i apologize to her. Of all the things she could've made fun of, she picked the one that was never funny to begin with.

Now i'm questioning if i did the right thing.

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u/QF_Dan — 26 days ago

I'm kinda scared that i might lose my girlfriend.

So my girlfriend 20F (Lydia) is a lesbian, she is a Filipino that dated a girl 21F (Eva) from America. But they broke up due to long distance and lack of similar interests between each other. I am a straight guy 25M that lives nearby Phillipines and i'm planning to visit Lydia soon.

Lydia then said she liked me and we became a couple. She doesn't care if i'm straight, she still likes me.

However, Lydia reinvited the American Girl back to the server we are currently in. I know Lydia said she likes me more but i'm scared that she and Eva would get back together again.

I don't know, i'm just scared that i might lose her because of someone from the past.

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u/QF_Dan — 29 days ago

RIP Kyle "Rowdy" Busch, just two images that i took for my tribute drive.

second image was unexpected but i post it because it reminds me of an incident between them

u/QF_Dan — 2 months ago
▲ 436 r/amphibia

On this day 5 years ago, season 2 finale "True Colors" premiered.

First image credit - Gina Garavalia

The episode that got delayed and then leaked, the one with lots of twists and the one with that "frame".

Can't believe it has been 5 years.....

u/QF_Dan — 2 months ago
▲ 133 r/amphibia

On this day 4 years ago, the finale "The Hardest Thing" premiered.....you know the rest.

I don't think i've ever cried that much at a show since a long time ago. What a beautiful conclusion with a perfect message.

u/QF_Dan — 2 months ago

I feel like she may have manipulated my feelings.

I (25M) met this girl (20F) in a discord server, we talked a lot and was able to know each other pretty well for a month. Apparantly she had DID and she constantly played three characters in her server that pretended to be her siblings. So sometime it's hard to distinguish what she was doing, but she always say she is being real about her messages in the server and in dm.

But she did told me it was because of a sad past that almost made her do something bad to herself and that she only pulled through because of a cartoon that she watched. She had a dark past and she ended up doing bad things.

She did say she wanna change and she is doing (taking Spino meds and going to counsellor)

Then last Friday, she asked me if i wanna be her girlfriend, i was hesistant at first but i accepted her because it looks like she was genuine to me. We talked a lot as usual and we even had plans to move to another country because she had an abusive parents. We got so many plans and even wanted to meet within next year.

But today, when she asked me about my parents, i told her that mine are very strict and might be skeptical of her due to her mental issue. She got scared and proceed to tell me that we should be just friends, a good friend but without the labels.

I was fine with it....but then on the same night, she proceed to hook up with another guy from the same server and now she has a new boyfriend.

Part of me was relieved that i'm off the hook but part of me felt cheated because i was actually caring for her and her situation. Oh yeah, she also told me she dated another guy before me but they broke up already.

Idk if she's manipulating my feelings or that she was scared of my family. I'm not sure how far to an extend her DID condition look like but i'm kinda worried about her as well, she does sound genuine and was crying for help.

But this just doesn't sit well with me and i'm kinda frustrated now. Should i still remain hopeful or should i just give up?

I know i'm dumb and naive so go ahead and flame me in the comments. But do tell me if i'm in the wrong.

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u/QF_Dan — 2 months ago

I think i may have been manipulated by her

I (25M) met this girl (20F) in a discord server, we talked a lot and was able to know each other pretty well for a month. Apparantly she had DID and she constantly played three characters in her server that pretended to be her siblings. So sometime it's hard to distinguish what she was doing, but she always say she is being real about her messages in the server and in dm.

But she did told me it was because of a sad past that almost made her ||sh|| and that she only pulled through because of a cartoon that she watched. She did say she wanna change and she is doing (taking Spino meds and going to counsellor)

Then last Friday, she asked me if i wanna be her girlfriend, i was hesistant at first but i accepted her because it looks like she was genuine to me. We talked a lot as usual and we even had plans to move to another country because she had an abusive parents. We got so many plans and even wanted to meet within next year.

But today, when she asked me about my parents, i told her that mine are very strict and might be skeptical of her due to her mental issue. She got scared and proceed to tell me that we should be just friends, a good friend but without the labels.

I was fine with it....but then on the same night, she proceed to hook up with another guy from the same server and now she has a new boyfriend.

Part of me was relieved that i'm off the hook but part of me felt cheated because i was actually caring for her and her situation. Oh yeah, she also told me she dated another guy before me but they broke up already.

Idk if she's manipulating my feelings or that she was scared of my family.

But this just doesn't sit well with me and i'm kinda frustrated now. Should i still remain hopeful or should i just give up?

I know i'm dumb and naive so go ahead and flame me in the comments. But do tell me if i'm in the wrong.

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u/QF_Dan — 2 months ago

Do you think this girl is manipulating me? 25M and 20F

I met this girl in a discord server, we talked a lot and was able to know each other pretty well for a month. Apparantly she had DID and she constantly played three characters in her server that pretended to be her siblings. So sometime it's hard to distinguish what she was doing, but she always say she is being real about her messages in the server and in dm.

But she did told me it was because of a sad past that almost made her do bad things that affect herself and that she only pulled through because of a cartoon that she watched. She did say she wanna change and she is doing (taking Spino meds and going to counsellor)

Then last Friday, she asked me if i wanna be her girlfriend, i was hesistant at first but i accepted her because it looks like she was genuine to me. We talked a lot as usual and we even had plans to move to another country because she had an abusive parents. We got so many plans and even wanted to meet within next year.

But today, when she asked me about my parents, i told her that mine are very strict and might be skeptical of her due to her mental issue. She got scared and proceed to tell me that we should be just friends, a good friend but without the labels.

I was fine with it....but then on the same night, she proceed to hook up with another guy from the same server and now she has a new boyfriend.

Part of me was relieved that i'm off the hook but part of me felt cheated because i was actually caring for her and her situation. Oh yeah, she also told me she dated another guy before me but they broke up already.

Idk if she's manipulating my feelings or that she was scared of my family.

But this just doesn't sit well with me and i'm kinda frustrated now. Should i still remain hopeful or should i just give up?

I know i'm dumb and naive so go ahead and flame me in the comments. But do tell me if i'm in the wrong.

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u/QF_Dan — 2 months ago
▲ 188 r/amphibia

On this day 4 years ago, All in premiered.

Also the first and only standalone episode to reach beyond the 30 minutes length. They could even put The Beginning of The End, All In and The Hardest Thing together to make it look like a movie if the show was being made today

u/QF_Dan — 2 months ago