u/Responsible_Exit_815

Season 10 cast was so good! I adore KJ, Ciara, and Mia’s friendship, Lindsay has really matured and grown into herself, same with Carl, and you can see how good of a friend Ciara is to unfortunately Amanda in this season. I also think Bailey was quirky and had a unique personality. I thought the cast was really good, that’s it’s tragic that West and Amanda had to ruin the rapport between everyone. Yes their scandal made for great TV, but the bond that everyone portrayed this season was better.

If/when I quit my current job to start a new one, is it really unprofessional to not give a two weeks notice? I’ve had enough there in which my mental health has been affected by many things and I know I won’t have the energy to fulfill a two weeks notice. The environment and experience has been so bad that I’ve looked into employment lawsuits. I also need to visit family members before I start this new job that I have not been able to visit since working at this place. So, it’s familial-related things along with personal issues. If I spell this out in my resignation letter and also verbally, is that better? I would probably only give one week’s notice rather than two. I also plan on not using these people for references or future connections, so is it that big of a deal?

Do men think about past women they’ve had sex even if it’s been years or they’re with someone else? As a woman I’m curious if they picture me fucking them or if it’s more of a “oh shit yeah I remember I hooked up with her”.

I’ve been casually sleeping with this guy for almost two months. I could tell that he wasn’t interested in something super serious based on the way he was moving, but I didn’t really care and I also didn’t really know yet what I wanted out of this. I knew he was still talking to other women but not really seriously. Didn’t love it, but also didn’t really bother me. Last Sat night 7/25 I texted him if he was at work (he works at a restaurant late on weekends) but really it was a “u up?” Kind of text and he didn’t respond until the next day with a really vague message. So I didn’t reply back until he texted me this weekend. He came over and we were hooking up and he repeatedly goes, “do you really think I’m fucking other girls?” because I had made a joke asking who he was with last weekend. Then he wouldn’t let it go, said he wasn’t sleeping with anyone and hasn’t since we started, and got kind of mad and basically went to sleep. He also said I accused him of having STI’s, which I didn’t- I had said I want him to tell me if he’s seeing anyone so I can get tested. His reaction was telling that he was lying. Because he’s asleep and being extremely suspicious, and he doesn’t have a password on his phone (which is insane), I decided to go through it. I found a ton of messages of him texting girls from bars (nothing super telling that he ever has sex with him, in fact a lot of them had stopped responding to him lol), but then, I found messages from what it seems like to be a long distance girlfriend!! They were dropping “I love you’s”, using really mushy-gushy language, and I found out that that weekend when he gave me a really dry answer, he was visiting her!!

I’ve never had to send a “hey girlie” text before because frankly I just don’t really get involved with men that much, but I’m afraid of two things- 1.) that he’s going to try to ruin my life. He knows where I live, and he hasn’t shown any red flags regarding violence, but he’s a lying cheating loser and who knows what men are capable of. And 2.) i feel really guilty and bad but, if I were her, I would 1000% want to know that the man I’m saying I love you to is fucking other girls across the country!!

How do i go about it? I want to maybe wait a few days so he can’t really prove it was me, and I want to make a fake account to send her the info and then say she can call me for more info if she wants. I don’t want him to know it was me that told her. I have to tell her, right? I’m obviously not sleeping with him ever again but should I stay out of it or tell her?

Lindsay calling Carl aggressive when she’s literally one the most aggressive people in the house is absolutely insane!! However, though I don’t like Lindsay most of the time because she never takes accountability for anything and is super reactive and annoying, she clearly is still triggered by Carl’s past which I can empathize for. Carl was pretty awful when he was drinking and she is holding on to that, which isn’t fair to either of them. He can’t grow and let it go and she can’t get past it whenever there’s slight disagreement or conflict in their relationship. They work better as friends and the romantic relationship they were in caused them to want to control each other too much based on their past experiences.

Hey girls, question that may be a silly one: are you legally supposed to tell a sexual partner if you have an STD like herpes or AIDs? Or, if a sexual partner has it and they don’t tell you, can you sue them? I knew a few people in college that got herpes from sexual partners and the partners claimed they didnt know they had it. Could they have legally sued?

I messed something up at work that was pretty big (missed an important deadline to submit a permit application) and we thought we had fixed it, but it’s still causing issues. I work for a small company and we’ve had a ton of turnover within less than a year, so much where at one point I was only one on my team. So, this thing that I messed up would’ve been totally caught in time with my old team. So, yes it was my fault, but the turnover and chaos didn’t help. I haven’t been able to feel any remorse for my new-ish manager now having to deal with this issue. If it was when I first started, I would’ve felt so bad and cried for days and been profusely apologizing. But now? after all the mess I’ve been put through at that job- being taken advantage of, working too much, no appreciation from owners of company, not listening to my ideas, firing and eliminating people all the time with no formalities, etc, I just can’t care about this. I’ve don’t so much here that i just…don’t feel bad. Do other people get to this point of their jobs as well? Where you just stop caring about stuff?

I messed something up at work that was pretty big, and we thought we had fixed it, but it’s still causing issues. I work for a small company and we’ve had a ton of turnover within less than a year, so much where at one point I was the only one on my team. So, this thing that I messed up would’ve been totally caught in time with my old team. So, yes it was my fault, but the constant turnover and little knowledge on things from the top doesn’t help. I haven’t been able to feel any remorse for my new-ish manager now having to deal with this issue. If it was when I first started, I would’ve felt so bad and cried for days and been profusely apologizing. But now? after all the mess I’ve been put through at that job- being taken advantage of, working too much, no appreciation from owners of company, not listening to my ideas, firing and eliminating people all the time with no formalities, etc, I just can’t care about this. I’ve don’t so much that i just…don’t feel bad. Do other people get to this point of their jobs as well? Where you just stop caring about stuff?

I messed something up at work that was pretty big, and we thought we had fixed it, but it’s still causing issues. I work for a small company and we’ve had a ton of turnover within less than a year, so much where at one point I was only one on my team. So, this thing that I messed up would’ve been totally caught in time with my old team. So, yes it was my fault, but the turnover and chaos didn’t help. I haven’t been able to feel any remorse for my new-ish manager now having to deal with this issue. If it was when I first started, I would’ve felt so bad and cried for days and been profusely apologizing. But now? after all the mess I’ve been put through at that job- being taken advantage of, working too much, no appreciation from owners of company, not listening to my ideas, firing and eliminating people all the time with no formalities, etc, I just can’t care about this. I’ve don’t so much here that i just…don’t feel bad. Do other people get to this point of their jobs as well? Where you just stop caring about stuff?

I messed something up at work that was pretty big, and we thought we had fixed it but it’s still a lingering issue. I work for a small company and we’ve had a ton of turnover within less than a year, so much where at one point I was only one on my team. So, this thing that I messed up would’ve been totally caught in time with my old team. So, yes it was my fault, but the turnover and chaos didn’t help. I haven’t been able to feel any remorse for my new-ish manager now having to deal with this issue. If it was when I first started, I would’ve felt so bad and cried for days and been profusely apologizing. But now? after all the mess I’ve been put through at that job- being taken advantage of, working too much, no appreciation from owners of company, not listening to my ideas, firing and eliminating people all the time with no formalities, etc, I just can’t care about this. I’ve don’t so much here that i just…don’t feel bad. Do other people get to this point of their jobs as well? Where you just stop caring about stuff?

Hey bitches!! I want to go out and dance tonight- are there any special events or things going on a different bars or clubs tonight in the city? I’m looking for more of club vibe! Thank you 💋💋

Penetrative sex with men hurts in many positions. The last two sexual partners I had made me sore and it kind of hurt. I didn’t have sex for really long periods of time in between each, could that be why? They said I was wet enough, so I don’t think it was due to friction? Could it be their sizes? Is there a way to fix this slightly? I want to enjoy it without it hurting?

I need a hair trim and a bang trim, but I don’t know where to go in the city!! I have curly hair so I am VERY picky about who does my hair, and I only want a trim. If anyone has any suggestions help a girl out🩷✨

SF bitches with taste, we need a social media page dedicated to evil SF men!! We need to see who to avoid and stay away from! Is there a page like that already???

The new Noah kahan album is making me nostalgic and missing my old friends. A year ago, I had to let go of my best friend for almost 10 years because she disrespected me so bad. For a long time, I was mad and able to detach from her very quickly because the disrespect was so loud. Now after a year since cutting her off, I just miss what we had. She was my “Dan”. I hate that she did that to our friendship. However I know I wouldn’t be able to trust her again fully and it would never be the same, so it had to be done and over with.

My boss knows I’m OOO and at a graduation across the country today. I noticed earlier today that she tried to huddle with me on slack, which is pretty uncommon and unusual for her to do. Should I reach back out and ask what’s up? Or is it appropriate for me to just not engage or respond? I want to keep my job, but I also want to actually treat my PTO like PTO. What should I do? I have had a history with jobs and employers walking all over me.

Heyy bitchesss🍸has anyone ever taken a line dancing class before in SF? Is that even a thing here? I want to take one but idk if/where it happens! 🤠👢

Does anyone know what time Nic from Love island’s dj set is today? I saw it started at 2, how long do sets usually last and what time do people usually get there? I’m new to dj shows and raves.

Does anyone know what time Nic from Love island’s dj set is today? I saw it started at 2, how long do sets usually last and what time do people usually get there? I’m new to dj shows and raves.

I had a Dan, but we’re not best friends anymore. Is it normal to still miss them? It’s been 2 hears and I still think about them everyday. I still haven’t
had a friend like her since. I hope she still remembers me too <3