u/Right-Equivalent9548

I don't know why this should be said. It is fucking wild! People just snark on profiles without them knowing? I feel like face, name should be covered always.

I'm starting to be intentional with my wardrobe, that means I want to buy the absolute necessary piece of clothing/footwear and want to spend money on quality.

I want advice on shoes.

I'm going to start by buying two shoes.

I was thinking of buying a white leather sneaker and an everyday shoe.

What do you consider an everyday shoe to look like? I don't want to wear my white shoe everywhere since I will walk to my office and it has been raining lately and don't want to ruin it.

If you can point me to a type of shoe and which brands excel in it, that would be great. Anything around 200$ for a pair thank you!

Hello! I'm just a bit too shy and also don't want my pictures in public lol. I'm 26 M Indian living in the US and have been trying to find my one. I'd love if anyone can take a look at my profile and give a review. I'd prefer women's opinion as I'm trying to attract women. Thank you so much!

I honestly am not sure, I go to the gym pretty regularly (for about 5 -6 years) and have I would say as a bonus developed a pretty physique. However, I have been told that putting a shirtless picture (not selfie, well lit tripod) is not a good idea, since it makes you look shallow. Is this the case? Because I have seen a few profile reviews with these pictures and they seem to be working for them. I would love some input on this. I 'm too shy to put my pictures for a profile review lol. Thank you.

I'm 26 M, Indian living in the US for reference.

I met this women on a dating app, I really liked her intelligence but didn't fall for her physical appearance. It sucks I told her we are not a good fit, didn't want to waste her time. But I am confused and probably going to miss a great gal. Sad face.

I (26M) used to be super edgy online. I don't know what changed but after I started shifting from that language online (used to think, since no one can see me I can truly show what I feel), it genuinely feels like an aura change in real life. I smile a lot more now , I asked a girl out for the first time in real life (she gave me the look)!!! And I had a date before this.

Dr. K videos surely helped me understand the theory of a lot of things but I never truely put them into practice until like two weeks back. I am super aware of the people around me and it is great!

Also I think I'm relatively successful in life have a great family and a great fucking career, social life was one I did not have / knew how to build, now I think I can. Thank you for that!

I wanted to take care of my skin a bit. But when I use sunscreen, I just sweat even more when I'm outside and sunscreen just mixes with the sweat and it's a big ol mess. How to properly put on sunscreen? Using a spf 50 sunscreen lotion (brand eucerin).

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Women and men!! Please help, I (26M) met this person (22F) on hinge two days back and we are meeting today! I'm so excited.

I'm writing this post because This is my first date and I have zero dating experience.

What should I be doing?

Should be sending goodmorning text?

We did not text much on the app, so I'm not sure which flowers she likes.

I know I should open doors for her, what else.

How do you guys keep the conversation on her, I have heard this is very attractive, to direct the conversation on the gal! Spill the tea, help your boy out!!

I'm from India in the US. She is from the US.

Women and men!! Please help, I met this person on hinge two days back and we are meeting today! I'm so excited. This is my first date. What should I be doing?

Should I be sending goodmorning text?

We did not text much on the app, so I'm not sure which flowers she likes.

I know I should open doors for her, what else. How do you guys keep the conversation on her! Spill the tea, help your boy out!! 😂

If you want to hate me, I'm going to give you 3 reasons, I'm Indian, never had a relationship and am socially awkward, so what advice can I possibly give?

This is going to be a long post

To every man who jumps to write a hate comment when a women says something, how do you think you are going to view women in your workplace? You might not have a keyboard to type to "show" her, but do you not think women catch that aura about you? They catch that shit from a mile away. Stop doing this! I know it is hard when a man makes a post that you relate to is not shared by women makes you think they are not on your team (but you know that's not true, if women are not on your team how are you born? You parents, your mother and all the cute couples in parks do you think they secretly hate their SO?

So let me tell you what I mean eye opening, I started by looking at a friend making sub for a dating profile review (I was too shy to post it this sub for everyone to criticize). Rules I follow when I make a post:

Please do not call women as female (its cringe) when writing a post, and say your story (remember that women are on your team! Ignore the pickup artist that says don't as a fish how to fish these are cringe). I remember there were 3 people who replied, and I remember that one women was rude before I even shared my profile (i blocked her, you don't need people like that in your life!!!). The other 2 were the sweetest people and they believed in me for almost nothing.

Well I got some confidence and I started writing prompts I would have send 100 likes and did not get a single match! I was heartbroken (I could have been salty at this point but remember being salty is one of the biggest turn off to a women) but I was thinking what what is that not making women relate to me.

I don't know if you have noticed but almost every women say they want emotional maturity in their man. As a man I knew the definition but do we even know how to project this? We are not taught this but we got to learn it. And the best way (worked for me) to do it interacting with women on reddit with respect and not say something sexual. I have been working on myself, I recommend healthygamer gg (Dr K is so relatable!).

To men who share dick pics or say something sexual to some stranger on reddit who can be catfishinh as a women. Please stop, this also makes you act like a creep in real life. Again women sense the aura from a mile away!!

I came across a post yesterday on how women get these superficial compliments and the funny part is I thought I was not being superficial oh how wrong I was!!! I started commenting on their fashion, skin, makeup and I matched with a beautiful women yesterday and we are setting up a date and she complemented me (she said I'm charming 🫰🏻). If you are argument at that point she is going to ghost you? Then you are not getting the overall picture, the point is you need good pictures yes but I think women want that first message to be something thoughtful!!! And after I understood this, today I started having so many conversations with random people on streets. I don't even know if I will ever be in a relationship but I will just never think women are the enemy lol.

I think as a man with no relationship this is sucess to me and I genuinely believe that. And even if this person ghost me I think I have learnt a skill for life (and it took me 26 years lol).

And happy fourth to everyone in the US ( I know it's 5th SHUT UP)

Hello! I'm sorry if this was asked before. I go to the gym regularly and over the months I cut and now have had a pretty nice physique. However, I have heard it is not a good idea to add shirtless pictures on dating apps. So women who use dating apps: how much does a guy having a good physique (abs showing but not too much) pushes you to match ? And also which number the picture should be ?

Also, gym is not the only thing that I do but it has just been big part of my life, outside of gym I go out to restaurants or local events. What I'm trying to say is that I don't consider myself as the only thing I know is something to do with gym.