July 4th was eye opening to me!
If you want to hate me, I'm going to give you 3 reasons, I'm Indian, never had a relationship and am socially awkward, so what advice can I possibly give?
This is going to be a long post
To every man who jumps to write a hate comment when a women says something, how do you think you are going to view women in your workplace? You might not have a keyboard to type to "show" her, but do you not think women catch that aura about you? They catch that shit from a mile away. Stop doing this! I know it is hard when a man makes a post that you relate to is not shared by women makes you think they are not on your team (but you know that's not true, if women are not on your team how are you born? You parents, your mother and all the cute couples in parks do you think they secretly hate their SO?
So let me tell you what I mean eye opening, I started by looking at a friend making sub for a dating profile review (I was too shy to post it this sub for everyone to criticize). Rules I follow when I make a post:
Please do not call women as female (its cringe) when writing a post, and say your story (remember that women are on your team! Ignore the pickup artist that says don't as a fish how to fish these are cringe). I remember there were 3 people who replied, and I remember that one women was rude before I even shared my profile (i blocked her, you don't need people like that in your life!!!). The other 2 were the sweetest people and they believed in me for almost nothing.
Well I got some confidence and I started writing prompts I would have send 100 likes and did not get a single match! I was heartbroken (I could have been salty at this point but remember being salty is one of the biggest turn off to a women) but I was thinking what what is that not making women relate to me.
I don't know if you have noticed but almost every women say they want emotional maturity in their man. As a man I knew the definition but do we even know how to project this? We are not taught this but we got to learn it. And the best way (worked for me) to do it interacting with women on reddit with respect and not say something sexual. I have been working on myself, I recommend healthygamer gg (Dr K is so relatable!).
To men who share dick pics or say something sexual to some stranger on reddit who can be catfishinh as a women. Please stop, this also makes you act like a creep in real life. Again women sense the aura from a mile away!!
I came across a post yesterday on how women get these superficial compliments and the funny part is I thought I was not being superficial oh how wrong I was!!! I started commenting on their fashion, skin, makeup and I matched with a beautiful women yesterday and we are setting up a date and she complemented me (she said I'm charming 🫰🏻). If you are argument at that point she is going to ghost you? Then you are not getting the overall picture, the point is you need good pictures yes but I think women want that first message to be something thoughtful!!! And after I understood this, today I started having so many conversations with random people on streets. I don't even know if I will ever be in a relationship but I will just never think women are the enemy lol.
I think as a man with no relationship this is sucess to me and I genuinely believe that. And even if this person ghost me I think I have learnt a skill for life (and it took me 26 years lol).
And happy fourth to everyone in the US ( I know it's 5th SHUT UP)