u/Sad-Championship-224

Kind of depressed because I know that friendships fall apart. She’s someone that started acting strangely distant for a while and I kept asking her to hang out and she would ignore me than she finally told she didn’t have capacity to maintain all her friendships (in other words she didn’t want to be friends with me anymore).

I was on a close friends story for this person for a while and now I’m removed. It feels like I am unworthy of seeing that content. Honestly I get sad when I also don’t understand what I did wrong. No confrontation, nothing.

And this is someone generally well liked by others.

Cried my heart out today because I keep losing friends. Friendship breakups always hurt more than regular breakups. I think I just care about my interpersonal relationships too much. Should I ask her about it or not?

So I am 27 years old. Never done anything crazy in my life. Still a virgin. I am not allowed to go out after sunset. I am not allowed to do anything. I have emotionally immature parents that still track my location and go batshit crazy if I turn it off. Problem is they are also terminally ill so I listen to them. Mom ends up going to the emergency if she is too stressed out. So I have to be sneaky. How to disable Life360 when I am out and no one ever knowing?

So I read online that Ymir was around 10 when she inherited the Titans. Then she worked for King Fritz and THEN became his concubine. Online I saw that she helped him dominate neighboring countries for 8 years and then became his concubine at age 18. Having Titan powers for only 13 years since she saved him from an assassination attempt - her age must be 23 years old at death.

So she started bearing his children at 18 - meaning her eldest daughter was around 5 at the time of her death and her youngest daughter must have been 2 - maximum but probably even younger. Since being a Titan shifter only lasts for 13 years - her eldest daughter must have been 18 at the time of death and her youngest daughter must have been 15. They were told to reproduce by their father so her each of her daughters might have had kids around 13-14 and that leads to their children probably eating them at very young ages as well. So basically her daughters were baby making machines after her death. Maybe because they kept reproducing at such young ages - it is probably why there were only 9 Titan shifters instead of more. Additionally I think this all happened during King Fritz lifetime which is why he personally saw to it that 9 Titans were made.

I feel like knowing what happened with her daughters after Ymir died is super important. Especially knowing Ymir’s age at the time when she inherited the Titan powers and when she became King Fritz’ concubine.

this guy has been hitting me up pretty consistently for the past year and i only recently found out he has a girlfriend so i stopped talking to him immediately. For context, I liked him because he was handsome and I liked the attention. I also was immature and didn’t have any prior romantic experience before I met him. I also didn’t know he had a girlfriend until someone gave me a heads up recently and I’m against being the person who takes someone else’s man hence I started ghosting him.

apparently they’ve been dating since around april 2025 from what i could tell from her tiktok. they literally travel together - went all the way to another continent, go hiking together all the time, he takes her christmas shopping, gets her flowers regularly, introduced her to his parents and even brings her to public events. It’s obvious that they’re in a committed relationship.

honestly it really annoyed me because why is he talking to other girls when he has a girlfriend? and why did i have to look into him to figure that out? if he had just said “hey i have a girlfriend” and set boundaries i would’ve respected him so much more and it would’ve been way easier to let go. But now I feel confused on what to do.

I want to stay out of it. Me and him work in similar spaces where we constantly have to work with people. Although taking care of people is my main priority, unfortunately impressions mean a great deal. Even though I have not done anything wrong, this guy seems to be good at getting himself out of bad situations. I’m constantly overthinking on all the potential ways I can be harmed.

I dont know if I am doing the wrong thing by not telling his girlfriend. I can send her a message anonymously but I still don’t want it to be traced back to me. I have receipts as well but I would rather not share them for the same reason unless I absolutely have to.
i’ve actually been tempted to tell other people but i haven’t because i’ve been in messy situations before. even though it technically wasn’t my fault i still entertained situations that were already messy because i got angry. i’m trying to avoid doing that again.

What should I do? Should I let her unknowingly suffer or let karma do its course? Does karma even exist?

Hi,

So I feel like everyone hates me and most folks that I thought were my friends, I noticed that they started responding later and later. Then they said they didn't want to be friends anymore which made me depressed. I think folks around me view me negatively and the impression I left over the years due to my naivety is a bad one. I can't express it though otherwise it would seem like I am asking for attention or spreading negativity again.

I also feel like I am around a lot of high achieving people and they have the strength to keep going. Like they are disciplined, respected, and able to pick themselves back up even when life gets bad. I don’t know if I have actually met anyone who is down in the slumps like myself and managed to turn things around.

I can't really complain and I feel like I am the most hated person in my environment. I wish I could see more people who I could relate to in my environment, but most of the time, folks talk about the barriers they faced, like being poor and other things, which really isn't their fault. There aren't many people who I could relate to - like people who are neurodivergent, who have made mistakes, suffered from mental health issues like depression, and THEN turned their lives around. Because every opinion I hear among those who are neurodivergent, made dumb mistakes, or depressed makes them seem like they are weak. Has anyone here been really depressed, felt hated or rejected by everyone around them, and somehow rebuilt themselves?

Sooooo...... I think Donna becomes a monster after she wakes up from the heart attack.

I'm struggling staying sane as well. Will my life trajectory be fine or am I going to be a sore loser?

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Okay so I don't get the Korra hate and I think folks mostly hate her because she's a woman. Like girls tend to have to work harder than guys in order to prove themselves and be protected. Having emotions makes her look bad - like Zuko is passionate and hot tempered too, but I don't see as much hate around Zuko, especially after his redemption arc. But Korra? Idk no matter how hard she tries, she seems to be never good enough. And at the end of the day, she's still a girl with emotions.

I feel like Korra's problems were just as bad as Aang's, maybe even worse. Her bending was taken away by Amon. She was forced to consume mercury and suffered a near-death experience that left her placed in a wheelchair - which if I could imagine it, seems EXTREMELY traumatizing. She has to battle Vaatu and loses her past connections to the Avatars. Like she experienced whatever a lot of other Avatars did, like Kuruk, Aang, Roku etc. but times max.

I do think she is lacking in the emotional intelligence part - where Aang has a lot more. She doesn't have the composed vibes like other female Avatars like Kyoshi and Yangchen do. But is she a terrible Avatar? No. She also has a loud and boastful personality - she definitely likes to celebrate her wins instead of keeping it cool, but I think that doesn't make her wins any less and she deserves to love herself and others in a big way - abundance mindset, you feel me?

Honestly, I am not surprised with all that she experienced, she goes through a period where she hates herself a bit. And if I was her, it would be really hard to pull myself out of it and keep going - but what can you do, she's the Avatar. She has no choice but keep going even when she is hating and doubting herself while she is at it.

Okay so just putting my thoughts out there - as a woman, I find Sokka super hot. Like my male friends don't understand how he's so popular with girls, but like he's smart, he's reliable, he's funny, he's loyal, he's a realist and he's cool with having a woman overpower him. Like Zuko and Sokka are definitely my top 2 favorites and would consider dating. Aang (he's super loyal to Katara and idk his Libra energy makes me comfortable with him as a homie but I wouldn't date him, just support him in his efforts as the Avatar).

Jet is a total dud, idk why Katara was even attracted to him. He's not hot at all. But Sokka??? Sokka is a no-nonsense, get things done, chill with being a side character type of guy. I would marry a guy like Sokka in a heartbeat.

Also I love Zuko's love towards his uncle and his daughter. He is also just a very passionate and loving dude, and he doesn't mind being the side character either, he owns up to his mistakes and tries his best to redeem himself.

the person i really like talks to too many girls and i saw some of the girls who's posts he liked and they are really pretty and cool. and they are so disciplined. i feel like i have nothing to offer in comparison.

it's fine if that person is not mine but i just feel not so great about myself. my confidence feels hurt. i want to become someone i can be proud of and i am not there yet. my adhd and depression makes things harder to do too.

So..... this is like a controversial post, but has anyone prayed for someone to become Muslim and did it actually happen? 👀 Was it just a normal dua after a regular prayer or did you do something else?

Hi everyone! I’m curious if anyone has noticed patterns between moon signs and people who display narcissistic traits. Since the Moon is often associated with emotional responses, I was wondering whether certain moon signs are more common among people who struggle with empathy + emotional accountability. This is also just a first step before delving into analyzing other potential factors at play - ex. other placements, house, aspects, etc.

This is obviously does not mean a specific moon sign automatically “makes” someone a narcissist - but I'd like to take a look into anecdotal patterns and see if there is any influence which makes them more prone to being one.

If you’ve known someone who showed strong narcissistic traits and are curious to analyze with community as well, feel free to drop their moon sign and any other major placements that you'd like!

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My chart = outer circle

His chart = inner circle

I’m trying to understand a contradiction I see in someone’s chart/personality and wanted some astrology insight.

When I read his placements, it feels like he is a solid guy. Like he is a Taurus with his sun, moon, and mercury in the 7th house. His Venus is in cancer. But he is on the tea app with 14 red flags on his profile and he is known for talking to multiple girls - often hooking up and then ghosting them after.

Career-wise, he is someone who works in public service and is known for helping the community. He is very disciplined and hardworking. So his "green flagness" is showing up here in this part of his life. But I don't understand why he's so unthoughtful towards girls - especially continuously leading them on.

I know astrology doesn’t excuse behavior, and I know people are more than their placements, but I’m curious how these contradictions can show up in a chart. Can someone seem deeply stable and caring in one part of life while being emotionally avoidant or inconsistent in relationships?

I’m partly asking because I developed feelings for him and I think understanding the dynamic a little better might help me process things.

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I feel misunderstood by others often and sometimes get into some run-ins that I don't expect.

I also often doubt myself a lot - some of the reason above. I wonder if I will turn out fine in my career and what my trajectory will look like.

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Hi I have a big exam coming up and I think I am going a bit crazy at home and also would like to socialize with people! I missed studying with my friends back when I was in undergrad and would like to experience it again. Is anyone else down?

places I tend to like to study at:

CRC or SCC

Movito Juice Bar, I'm cool w/ meeting up at coffee shops too.

Sac State library

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