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What are the odds a package is dropped off in a drop box and doesn’t get scanned for ten days and is still showing awaiting shipping in this town? Like seriously! i ordered something from someone and am not getting a refund and im trying figure out if it could be lost stolen delayed or never actually was shipped and im wondering what the odds are it shows up. Still says awaiting usps but that the label was made after 10 days…. Actually it was ordered 14 days ago but she said she mailed it ten days ago.

Where are we shopping at at like 40 ladies I am young for my age I like younger looking items but I’m lost on where to get clothes and honestly I’ve had a baby and I’m not super young looking anymore unfortunately I can’t just wear anything especially skirts that are shorter and I mostly wear the same black r shirt everyday because it’s comfortable and from shein when I get on clothing sights I either can’t find anything I like or I know I would not fit in it or or it would not be flattering what so ever I’m lost on where average people are shopping nowadays or is it like whatever we can find we think we can wear we buy? i have no style except a black t shirt and worn out shorts and crocks that’s like my uniform I’m like 230 lbs…. I chase a kids around all day need to get some more clothes in my rotations any suggestions!!

What are some ideas for things to get for a toddler who is about to be 2 her room has nursery items and I haven’t gotten her much toys she has magnetic blocks and some blocks and a few stuffed animals and books but I don’t feel like I have a good play area she has a small place need ideas!!! 🙏

I have not spoken to my husband in like 2 years and he hasn’t contacted me after i said i wanted a divorce cause I’m scared to actually file for it and ask him to sign.

So I’m really annoyed that my Virgo is in Chiron as I am a very creative person as in talented and artistic but never can seem to fully express myself I’m horrible at shopping and it just truly takes it’s tole on me I have major issues making decisions and I give too much to others instead of focusing on myself is there any way to self correct this placement Virgo is also my rising sign and it is just a toxic placement I wish I could change this placement it’s horrible I have migraines constantly bc of this placement. My ascendent is ruled by Virgo and I am a cancer and I’m perfectly happy with my cancer but the Virgo works against me in expressing myself

Two questions. How do u get shows for children without internet if you purchase tablet.
What tablet is best for young children for car rides and moments when needed not full time use.

Wondering if my 16 month old is old enough for a pillow or if anyone has a pillow they are using for there 16 month old that works well.

I’m going to break this down the best I can. This is causing me an enormous amount of anger and pain. I had an affair, which caused me to get pregnant. Once I was pregnant I was hit with a lot of guilt and sadness and so I immediately told my husband I was pregnant, abt two months into my pregnancy. At the time we were renting my grandmothers house from my mother, well he left ( obviously ) got all his stuff and left. My only options were to either go to the babies dads house or go to my parents house and I chose to go to my parents house to try to work my marriage out and cut off all contact with the baby’s dad. My husband reached back out to me during my pregnancy & agreed to work out marriage out but my MOTHER would not allow me to leave the house. He handed her rent money for the next month in her hand and she said no she can’t leave right now. I was so miserable during my pregnancy because my mother was holding me hostage I ended up having an emergency c section and my husband came to the hospital and signed the birth certificate. After the baby was born my mother refused to let me leave the house not even going to Walmart with my own child and threatened to call the cops if I left with my child. Bc my situation was so stressful & I felt like she was not allowing me to move forward with my life with my husband, not respecting him and I also felt like my husband wasn’t making an effort to find a place to live. He moved in with his sister and mother, 5 dogs in a small trailer and I felt completely trapped. I did not feel that was safe for a newborn even if I just walked out of the house with just my shirt on my back. He has made no effort to ask me what I wanted or needed from him for the baby. I told him I couldn’t do this anymore and that we needed a divorce. He stopped talking to me and hasn’t spoke to me in over a year not even r u okay or what do you need me to do to help you. My mom encourages everything that keeps me HERE. Stuck she has manipulated the situation to keep me here as long as possible. I contacted the child’s bio father and my mother is not allowing me to stay with my child’s biological father either. Threatens to tell him my husband signed the birth certificate. My child’s father lives in a low income housing and he doesn’t know my husband signed the child’s birth certificate either. I do believe I would have to sign papers he would possibly even have to find a larger place with two bedroom for the baby or else we may not be able to move in. His dad lives next door in a low income and he takes care of his dad so he is tied into that place to live. He asked me to not work he wanted me to stay home and he had got a higher paying job to support the baby but I’m not with him bc my mother is not allowing me to leave the house with my own child. It’s like grandparental kidnapping. She has been rude to both my husband and the child’s father and she won’t let me leave I feel like she has stolen my baby. My mother even scheduled my c section on her birthday this is her only biological grandchild. My sister has several adopted children as she cannot have children and I do believe this is a form of grand parental kidnapping. I just want out of this situation I’m scared to even move in any direction because everything affects everything else. What do I do!!!!!!!???? I know there may be some negative feedback but my parents are raising my child I’ve been here since I got pregnant and they won’t let me leave. Getting my own place is not an option right now cause I don’t want to live in this town I’m stuck in this town with my mom my child’s father doesn’t want me to work and he doesn’t live here. It has taken me 2 years to get the courage to even write this. It’s extremely complicated. I want my child to have her own family and not be raised by my mother in father and us not being able to leave she is 16 months old and my mom still won’t let me leave and I don’t know what to do. It’s one thing for me to get completely traumatized but my child doesn’t deserve this. She deserves to have her own dad. My mom and dad are raising her and not letting us leave. If yall woke up in this situation like what would u do??? How many moms would deal with this… Im so angry and me and my child are hurting so much and im so confused and feel completely stuck here. I just want some advice or some kinda game plan to get out of this hostage type of situation. I think bc I am still legal married and my husband signed her birth certificate and the child’s father doesn’t know that it keeps me scared to walk out the door I’m not handcuffed I just don’t have clear path out and my mom won’t let me even visit the child’s father. I have thought maby get my husband to sign divorce papers and then just run away or walk out the door???? is there another option or is that it? The anger I have is crippling me I am beyond miserable I am grown I’m 36 years old and hostage victim because I had a baby. I wouldn’t wish this on my worst enemy. My parents are “Christian’s” my mother is a Sunday school teacher she has worked for every lawyer in my town and very controlling in manipulating I’m sorry but she is literally pure evil she does all that stuff snd helps my sister with her adopted children is gone most of the time and I sit here all day with my baby bc she has threatened to call the cops if I leave. I’m pretty sure what she is doing is a felony. I really think she is mentally ill. I haven’t called the cops bc I’m scared they will take my child from me. I haven’t done anything wrong I’m just scared to get them involved. I don’t know my rights. I don’t know what will happen with the baby’s dad living in low income if I just show up with my child. I don’t know if my mom can call the cops on me for leaving and moving in over there with my baby ? I don’t know if that’s okay if I’m married. I wanna know what I’m doing is okay before I do anything. I want to know what to do to have the best chance of cutting these chains. I don’t mind my mother helping but this is insane being held hostage and she doesn’t have any boundaries she has no intention of ever letting us leave she wants the baby here with her. Whatever shame and guilt I have endured I have already surely paid the price for it and I want to do what’s best for my child. She doesn’t deserve this. She was born into this how do I fix this? It is the most horrible thing to have your child more than likely thinking that YOURE dad is there actual dad because your parents are holding you and your child hostage. It’s way too disturbing for me to handle. My child literally runs to my dad like that’s her dad and I’m stuck here listing and watching all this because I’m not allowed to leave it’s disturbing traumatizing and I’m in so much pain. When I explain this to my mom she starts yelling and screaming at me to shut up untill I go back to where I’m sleeping. I’m so confused and so angry. My mom refused to take divorce money from the baby’s dad she is manipulating the situation. I just want all this to STOP. How do I get me and my child to higher ground???? I realize this is a million dollar question and hard to answer I haven’t been able to answer it myself in 3 years but I need advice for my best option. This is hell on earth.

I have a package that I have been trying to get intercepted and it has been at the usps Pontiac distribution center and now it is showing no delivery date but the package has been there since last Friday it kept saying it would be delivered Tom for 5 days and now there isn’t a delivery date it doesn’t say intercepted I’m just not seeing a delivery date I’m not sure what to think if it’s lost or being intercepted or if it’s just because there slow as Christmas