u/Solid-Natural935

Bonjour,

Je voulais ici parler d'un sujet auquel je m'intéresse depuis qu'un coach en séducation m'y a initié : Approcher des gens dans parcs et rue .

En fait, le but est de gagner en confiance en sois et surtout de se rendre compte, contrairement à ce qu'on voulus nous mettre en tête certaines personnes, que non, aborder une femme ou un groupe de femme dans un bar, dans la rue ou dans un parc n'est pas du tout problématique.

Meme si je ne suis pas timide, franchement, c'était totalement hors de question pour moi avant ( confiance en sois mais surtout tout cette merde ambiante avec le féminisme).

Un coach en séduction m'a fait faire un exercice avec un autre élève, simple mais très interessant et je voulais ici faire un feedback et échanger avec des personnes qui peut etre pratiquent cela.

L'idée est simple : Aller dans un parc par exemple ou il y a du monde et répérer une femme ou un groupe de femme et aller tout simplement les voir, leur dire bonjour, leur dire que vous n'avez pas beaucoup de temps ( pour en gros "hacker" la traditionnelle réponse : " J'ai pas le temps "), et la vous dites que vous avez besoin d'un avis féminin.

Rien qu'en donnant ces deux infos : " J'ai pas bcp de temps", suivi de " c'est pour un avis féminin ", vous verrez que les femmes en questions seront tout de suite open à discuter.

Et la, vous sortez un script du genre " Vous avez un anniversaire bientot, et vous galérez avec une idée cadeau ", ou " Vous devez inviter une amie à diner mais vous chercher une idée repas sympa ", bref, ya des tas de scripts simple en mode avis féminin à demander.

Et "nourrissez" cette conversation, soyez avenant, détendu, demandez lui son prénom ou donner lui le votre, et voyez ca juste comme un échange simple, sans pression et sans séduction..... et voyez si la conversation est plaisante et peut dériver sur d'autres choses...

>>> A quoi ca sert ?

Ben...c'est juste un exercice en fait pour comprendre déja qu'aller parler a un ou des inconnues du sex opposé est en fait ultra simple si vous n'etes pas en mode agressif ou dragueur lourd.... Avant de passer à la drague il faut déja un premier contact, un début de discussion....et pendant cette discussion si vous le sentez, vous pouvez faire un ptit compliment : Que vous trouver joli son style, ses fringues, son maquillage ou son " énergie ".

Et l'étape d'après éventuellement c'est de tenter un échange de numéro ( mais rien n'empeche pour le moment de s'arrêter à la discussion sans demande de numéro).

Bref, j'ai donc été une après midi sur Paris, à pratique ça. Au début, se lancer est difficile pour la première fois, mais j'ai du faire ça à 8-10 reprises samedi dernier au jardin des tuileries.

Et franchement, même si ce que j'explique ici peut parait naz et risible pour certains et bien j'ai trouvé ça très interessant....ca permet d'adapter son cerveau, son psychisme et prendre conscience qu'on peut sans soucis parler à des inconnus sans contexte, sans pression, juste un moment.

J'avais peur de me faire direct recaler et ben, c'est pas arrivé une seule fois. A aucun moment on m'a mal regardé, ou fait comprendre que je dérangeait. J'ai parlé a des personnes de mon age, parfois aussi plus jeunes, et les personnes étaient toute dans la discussion, dans l'échange, souriante.

Pour quelqu'un comme moi qui n'ai pas une grande confiance en moi et sujet à l'anxiété sociale parfois, c'était une très bonne expérience. N'étant pas de Paris, j'ai pas tenté de demander un 06 et je pense que je vais devoir encore pratiquer mais voila...

Je voulais juste partager ce tips. Faut le comprendre mais les applis de rencontre c'est devenu ingérable....le retour aux rencontres réel est nécéssaire et bcp de femmes préfèrent le réel, le tout est de doser et de pas etre agressif dans sa facon d'etre.

Un autre conseil est des fois de juste faire un compliment à une personne...

Exemple : Serveur dans un bar, lui dire que vous trouvez bien son style, son énergie...

J'ai commencé à le faire depuis le retour de Paris...en bar, en terrasse...juste ce genre de ptit trucs...

j'ai pas pu tenter de refaire les discussion car semaine pluvieuse et meme en sortant j'ai pas vu grand monde dans ma ville mais je vais m'y remettre...

Voila voila, c'était juste un partage comme ça ! Osez, allez y !

Dispo si des personnes veulent parler de ce sujet ici 😄

Bonjour,

Alors....je ne sais pas si cette discussion sera autorisée et si elle ne l'est pas, je m'en excuse !

J'aurais aimé savoir si des personnes ici savaient ce qu'était devenu le darknet francophone en 2026 ?

En fait j'y trainais pas mal il y a des années, notamment sur le fameux FDW qui était a l'époque le point d'entrée des Frenchies !

Et on y trouvait des tas de ressources d'apprentissage intéressantes sur le hacking, phreaking et une parole vraiment libre ( sauf les sujets de pédopornographje heureusement...).

Un internet non censuré, bref c'était fresh et cool.

Apparemment la majorité des gros forums ont fermés ou se sont fait démantelés.

J'ai remis TOR browser hier et j'ai tenté d'y faire un tour ....a part me souvenir des ressources comme " the hidden wiki " qui pointent vers des sites morts....

J'ai rien trouvé !

Ma question : des infos sur ce qu'est le darknet fr en 2026 ? Existe il encore des boards / forums pour discuter ? Un équivalent du FDW ?

Merci :)

Hello,

I harvested my mushrooms 2 days ago. Since I don’t have a dehydrator, I sliced them lengthwise and placed them on a raised rack with baking paper underneath, on top of a piece of furniture.

My goal is to dry them, grind them into powder, and store them in a brown glass jar.

Do you think everything is okay?

Are the blue marks really psilocybin bruising?

Also, some mushrooms have a white fuzzy layer, like a light cottony growth around the stems, is that okay?

How can I make sure there won’t be any rotting or toxic mold? (I definitely don’t want to poison myself 😄 ).

Sorry for the beginner question, but I’m new to this.

My goal afterward is to try microdosing or macrodosing to help with my anxiety.

Thanks.

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Hello,

I harvested my mushrooms 2 days ago. Since I don’t have a dehydrator, I sliced them lengthwise and placed them on a raised rack with baking paper underneath, on top of a piece of furniture.

My goal is to dry them, grind them into powder, and store them in a brown glass jar.

Do you think everything is okay?

Are the blue marks really psilocybin bruising?

Also, some mushrooms have a white fuzzy layer, like a light cottony growth around the stems is that okay?

How can I make sure there won’t be any rotting or toxic mold? (I definitely don’t want to poison myself 😄 ).

Sorry for the beginner question, but I’m new to this.

My goal afterward is to try microdosing or macrodosing to help with my anxiety.

Thanks.

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Hello la team,

Je souhaite racheter des t-shirt et un ou deux hoodies et niveau commerce de fringues par chez moi c'est devenu la cata...

Je suis tombé sur une pub Facebook avec des t-shirt et hoodies stylés, genre japonais / vintage , ça s'appelle oldskull...

J'étais a deux doigt de valider mon panier quand j'ai eu la présence d'esprit d'aller sur trustpilot, et en fait...très mauvaise note : les modèles sont beau sur le site mais en réel c'est ultra cheap et taillé en sac a patate...

Dommage, j'adorais le style et l'idée...gavant ce genre de commerces qui font dans du cheap.

Bref , je me demandais si vous auriez des sites ou marques a me proposer pour des t-shirt et hoodies sympa dans le style de ce qu'on peut voir sur justement oldskull.

Si vous avez d'autrs bons plans et tips pour des vêtements sur le net a bon rapport qualité / prix, je prends :)

Merci

Hi everyone,

On Friday morning, I decided to try mushrooms that I grew myself for the very first time.

To give you some context: I am 39, single, and I’ve been on 15mg Escitalopram (Lexapro) for quite a while to manage anxiety. The SSRI works pretty well, but my ultimate goal is to eventually taper off, rewire my brain, and conquer this underlying anxiety once and for all. That’s why I got interested in psychedelic therapy.

Another important detail: the evening before (Thursday), I had my very first hypnotherapy session focused on "emotional release/cleansing."

Due to a heating failure during my grow, I barely harvested anything. People on specialized Facebook groups told me that I "wouldn't even feel a buzz with that amount," that it was essentially a microdose, and that on top of that, my 15mg of Lexapro would likely block the effects anyway.

I figured that worst-case scenario, it would act as a beneficial microdose for my BDNF. So, I made a Lemon Tek (lemon + hot water + a tea bag) and drank it on Friday at 11 AM. (They were dried mushrooms, I will attach a picture of the dose).

I definitely felt the come-up. I was outside on my patio, and it was nice and pleasant. Then, as it got really hot outside, I went indoors and laid on my couch after having a meal.

I laid down, closed my eyes, and from there, the journey became deeply introspective. I felt truly, profoundly relaxed, experiencing total inner peace.

All my social hierarchies collapsed: I felt that nothing mattered because I knew how to just be "here and now." Money, material possessions, love, or sex had no importance... Even the idea of being in a relationship and having kids (which I don't have yet, but deeply desire at 39, and which is a major s0urce of stress for me) felt completely non-urgent and non-vital. In short, it was a feeling of absolute wholeness.

https://preview.redd.it/krlbl1q4gwyg1.jpg?width=1080&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=a7060f35c09eeb9e927cb65dc09f28707e3dca95

But... at some point, the comedown started. And when I reconnected with reality... the crash hit.

I became profoundly sad, depressed, with a strong urge to cry. I was overwhelmed by intense anxiety and fear. :(

Friday evening was rough. The next day (Day+1) wasn't easy either, and waking up this morning (Day+2) was still very hard. This experience seems to have stirred everything up in my brain, and the return to reality is agonizingly difficult.

The worst part is that I am not fundamentally depressed. I felt fine before taking the dose; my only intention was to treat my anxiety (and need for control) to prepare myself for a future SSRI taper.

Long story short, since Friday evening, I am terrified by the thought of staying single forever, never finding anyone, and remaining anxious my whole life. I am scared of the future and of myself. It’s very hard to endure right now.

I don't know what to make of this "Post-Trip Blues" or cognitive dissonance.

Does this happen often?

Since the crash, I’ve been taking 2x 500mg of L-Theanine daily to try and manage as best as I can until things improve.

Do you have any advice for integrating this emotional crash?

Thank you in advance for your help.

Hi everyone,

On Friday morning, I decided to try mushrooms that I grew myself for the very first time.

To give you some context: I am 39, single, and I’ve been on 15mg Escitalopram (Lexapro) for quite a while to manage anxiety. The SSRI works pretty well, but my ultimate goal is to eventually taper off, rewire my brain, and conquer this underlying anxiety once and for all. That’s why I got interested in psychedelic therapy.

Another important detail: the evening before (Thursday), I had my very first hypnotherapy session focused on "emotional release/cleansing."

Due to a heating failure during my grow, I barely harvested anything. People on specialized Facebook groups told me that I "wouldn't even feel a buzz with that amount," that it was essentially a microdose, and that on top of that, my 15mg of Lexapro would likely block the effects anyway.

I figured that worst-case scenario, it would act as a beneficial microdose for my BDNF. So, I made a Lemon Tek (lemon + hot water + a tea bag) and drank it on Friday at 11 AM. (They were dried mushrooms, I will attach a picture of the dose).

I definitely felt the come-up. I was outside on my patio, and it was nice and pleasant. Then, as it got really hot outside, I went indoors and laid on my couch after having a meal.

I laid down, closed my eyes, and from there, the journey became deeply introspective. I felt truly, profoundly relaxed, experiencing total inner peace.

All my social hierarchies collapsed: I felt that nothing mattered because I knew how to just be "here and now." Money, material possessions, love, or sex had no importance... Even the idea of being in a relationship and having kids (which I don't have yet, but deeply desire at 39, and which is a major source of stress for me) felt completely non-urgent and non-vital. In short, it was a feeling of absolute wholeness.

But... at some point, the comedown started. And when I reconnected with reality... the crash hit.

I became profoundly sad, depressed, with a strong urge to cry. I was overwhelmed by intense anxiety and fear. :(

Friday evening was rough. The next day (Day+1) wasn't easy either, and waking up this morning (Day+2) was still very hard. This experience seems to have stirred everything up in my brain, and the return to reality is agonizingly difficult.

The worst part is that I am not fundamentally depressed. I felt fine before taking the dose; my only intention was to treat my anxiety (and need for control) to prepare myself for a future SSRI taper.

Long story short, since Friday evening, I am terrified by the thought of staying single forever, never finding anyone, and remaining anxious my whole life. I am scared of the future and of myself. It’s very hard to endure right now.

I don't know what to make of this "Post-Trip Blues" or cognitive dissonance.

Does this happen often?

Since the crash, I’ve been taking 2x 500mg of L-Theanine daily to try and manage as best as I can until things improve.

Do you have any advice for integrating this emotional crash?

Thank you in advance for your help.

Hi everyone,

On Friday morning, I decided to try mushrooms that I grew myself for the very first time.

To give you some context: I am 39, single, and I’ve been on 15mg Escitalopram (Lexapro) for quite a while to manage anxiety. The SSRI works pretty well, but my ultimate goal is to eventually taper off, rewire my brain, and conquer this underlying anxiety once and for all. That’s why I got interested in psychedelic therapy.

Another important detail: the evening before (Thursday), I had my very first hypnotherapy session focused on "emotional release/cleansing."

Due to a heating failure during my grow, I barely harvested anything. People on specialized Facebook groups told me that I "wouldn't even feel a buzz with that amount," that it was essentially a microdose, and that on top of that, my 15mg of Lexapro would likely block the effects anyway.

I figured that worst-case scenario, it would act as a beneficial microdose for my BDNF. So, I made a Lemon Tek (lemon + hot water + a tea bag) and drank it on Friday at 11 AM. (They were dried mushrooms, I will attach a picture of the dose).

I definitely felt the come-up. I was outside on my patio, and it was nice and pleasant. Then, as it got really hot outside, I went indoors and laid on my couch after having a meal.

I laid down, closed my eyes, and from there, the journey became deeply introspective. I felt truly, profoundly relaxed, experiencing total inner peace.

All my social hierarchies collapsed: I felt that nothing mattered because I knew how to just be "here and now." Money, material possessions, love, or sex had no importance... Even the idea of being in a relationship and having kids (which I don't have yet, but deeply desire at 39, and which is a major source of stress for me) felt completely non-urgent and non-vital. In short, it was a feeling of absolute wholeness.

But... at some point, the comedown started. And when I reconnected with reality... the crash hit.

I became profoundly sad, depressed, with a strong urge to cry. I was overwhelmed by intense anxiety and fear. :(

Friday evening was rough. The next day (Day+1) wasn't easy either, and waking up this morning (Day+2) was still very hard. This experience seems to have stirred everything up in my brain, and the return to reality is agonizingly difficult.

The worst part is that I am not fundamentally depressed. I felt fine before taking the dose; my only intention was to treat my anxiety (and need for control) to prepare myself for a future SSRI taper.

Long story short, since Friday evening, I am terrified by the thought of staying single forever, never finding anyone, and remaining anxious my whole life. I am scared of the future and of myself. It’s very hard to endure right now.

I don't know what to make of this "Post-Trip Blues" or cognitive dissonance.

Does this happen often?

Since the crash, I’ve been taking 2x 500mg of L-Theanine daily to try and manage as best as I can until things improve.

Do you have any advice for integrating this emotional crash?

Thank you in advance for your help.

Bonjour,

J'ai ce jour pris de la psylocibine a 11h40, a cette heure je suis juste entrain d'atterrir.

C'est la première fois que je fais ça.

Le voyage et beau, et très instructif mais le retour à la réalité est pas simple.

Je me sens triste, anxieux, incertain.

Je ne sais même pas pourquoi j'écris ça.

Pour en parler avec quelqu'un....

Ce n'est pas très agréable en tout cas cet atterrissage