Update..

2 weeks ago my wife (9yrs married 11yrs together) got fed up and moved out while I slept.. it broke me into a million pieces because I lost my favorite person.. non stop crying.. couldn't eat, lost weight.. i started making changes with my body and seeing a therapist to help me become a better person..

Yesterday she asked if I wanted to go see our favorite movie at the local cinema (drive with ryan gosling lol) I agreed. We ended up kissing talking for 3 hours instead then went to see the movie lol

Today we talked on the phone for 4 hours about everything. She basically wants to make sure I will change and stop doing shenanigans that hurts our marriage. Big part of it was my gas lighting and mocking her like a pos I was and being a fat slob..

She wants me to better myself and get healthier for our future..to continue seeing a therapist etc..

I agreed and will not fail my wife and myself because i love her with all my heart. The fact that she is willing to work things out with me instead of just divorcing me makes me happy..

Thank you to all of you for helping me through this, because i spoke to many of you in DMs. You helped me get through a dark time in my life..

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u/Spacejampants — 11 days ago

Today i woke up to my dogs gone and a short letter

My wife of 10 years left me today. She was supposed to just take the dogs to the dog park. Instead I get a text message saying she wasnt happy in our marriage and moved out.

I blame myself.. years of drinking, ruined me and her. I finally got a year sober and made changes in my life that included weight loss and starting a small company.

We discussed moving to the coast of California.. and also for her to pursue her RN career that she wanted..

We were doing well.. then suddenly shes gone for good. Im 37yrs old and I dont know what to feel because I wish she could have talked to me instead of abandoning me.. i would have been fine if she mentioned divorce and done it. instead she took everything

Im scared of how I will feel at night.

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u/Spacejampants — 1 month ago

Thank You, Turbulent_Pattern263

Just wanted to give a genuine thank you to u/Turbulent_Pattern263 for everything he does for the Starship Troopers: Extermination community.

He keeps us updated with news, helps answer questions, provides support, and actually listens to our feedback and passes it along to the dev team.

Good comms makes a huge difference, and having someone who keeps us informed and makes sure our feedback is heard is really appreciated.

Thanks for all the time and effort you put into the community, Turbulent. 🫡

The Federation thanks you, Trooper.

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u/Spacejampants — 1 month ago

Why? Why cheat on a game where you fight bugs?

I just don't understand.. you are fighting the computer or whatever. Youre not fighting against other players.. what do you get out of it? Locking the refinery so other people wont take canisters? Carrying 3 canisters at once. Shooting nukes from a rifle. Im so tired of this..

i know it can be funny once but on the long term? Im sure ppl will disagree with me especially those that need to cheat. It ruins the fun of the game.

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u/Spacejampants — 1 month ago

Xbox not launching games freezing and much more..

Updating a game freezes the update. Apps wont launch.. screen goes black then get an error code about why YouTube closed.. launch a game wont work. If it does i have to wait 5min delay launch. Or get an error with controller blinking im going crazy. I held the power down for 10 seconds. Unplugged it from power. Etc.

*My Xbox is 6 years old. Won it at taco bell before it came out*

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u/Spacejampants — 2 months ago
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Mounjaro pens

Anyone know if its actually illegal to donate unused mounjaro pens? I have 3 unused 10mg and 1 7.5mg..

I checked on google and it says yes then no lol

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u/Spacejampants — 2 months ago

2.5mg minoxidil and hypertension

Does anyone take 2.5mg oral minoxidil and also take blood pressure meds? Was your doctor okay with it right away or raised concerns? Thank you...

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u/Spacejampants — 2 months ago

Loading screen..

Would they ever add like a dropship loading screen where you are sitting with other players landing on the planets at the beginning like in the movie? Or is it a bad idea.

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u/Spacejampants — 2 months ago

Proxmity radio with enemy

I feel like im going crazy here. I haven't played hell let loose in awhile. But I remember hearing the enemy team and talking to them briefly on proximity radio.. . I was telling my friend this and he agrees that he also remembers this. Someone please confirm there was no known bug or something. Its bothering the hell out of me.

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u/Spacejampants — 2 months ago
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Support your local shops

I just want to say that we should all support our local business a little bit more instead of going for national ones.. there are so many good people here in fresno that deserve a bit of help so they dont close down..

I know its tough times for all of us. But if you have a few to spend check something out thats local..

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u/Spacejampants — 3 months ago

security

If you’re vibe coding or using AI to build projects, please audit your site for security issues ....frontend and backend. Don’t assume the generated code is safe. cuz holy hell lmao.. just be safe bros!

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u/Spacejampants — 3 months ago

I want to say...

Don’t give up on your project or your goals just because people online try to bring you down.

When I started promoting my site, I had people leave nasty comments, use throwaway accounts, and then delete what they said. Even when the comments disappeared, I’d still see them in my email. Some of it honestly got to me.

But I kept building.

I reminded myself that not everyone is going to understand what you’re making. Some people will judge it early. Some people will mock it. Some people will be negative just because they can.

But there are also good people out there.

I kept improving my site, kept posting, kept learning, and now people are slowly but steadily signing up. It’s not huge yet, but it’s real. And that matters.

So if you’re building something and you’re getting discouraged, please don’t quit just because a few people were loud and cruel.

Listen to useful feedback. Ignore people who only want to tear you down. Keep going.

You got this.....

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u/Spacejampants — 4 months ago
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Reconnect with old Ragnarok Online friends

Posted with mod permission.

Hello everyone!

For anyone who played Ragnarok Online and lost contact with old friends, guildmates, or people from your old servers, I help run a small site called LostLobby.

You can search by character name, username/gamertag, server, guild, game, era, and region to help reconnect with people you used to play with or help them find you by creating an account.

It’s mainly free to use and meant for nostalgia/reconnecting, not spam.

I hope you all like it, and I hope it helps someone find an old friend.

https://lostlobby.gg

Thank you all for allowing me to post this!

u/Spacejampants — 2 months ago