As a spaniard I didnt expect them to randomly come to smaller cities which rarely get concerts so Im happy for people from those cities who dont need to come to Madrid to see them this time. Spain is extremely hot that time of the year though
There was no queue until 11 am and I entered at that time and there were just a few seats left and each time I selected one it dissapeared.
It really sold out in 3 minutes?
Im 21 year old and I feel like I still havent made a real and mutual connection with anyone in my whole life. And I don't mean only romantically. I havent been lucky with relationships either, nobody has ever liked me and the closest I have been to romantic love was a bunch of weird situationships and a single date after a year of trying online dating, with someone I thought I really connected with, but it wasnt mutual.
But as I said, this doesnt only apply to romance but friendships. I always had difficulties making friends since I was little, and being bullied in school when I was 11-13 didnt help either to make me feel wanted by others. I have maybe around 3-4 long term friends who, even if I have fun with them, I feel like I cant 100% be myself around them, as they dont share any of my interests, and the same applies to anyone I personally know (not that I have very niche interests, but anyways), so I cant never talk about what I like with anyone, and that doesnt only make me always feel alone even when Im surrounded by people, but I also feel like even my closest friends dont really know me as a person.
Outside of that few friends, I have had more casual "friendships", with people I have shared common places like school, uni, neighbours etc and with them, I have always felt "used". For example, with classmates, even if we get along well,our relationship only exists because uni, it has never moved outside there and will dissapear when uni ends. It feels like they only socialize with me so they are not alone in class, and not because they genuinely like me
Also, most of my relationships (including long term friendships, short term, situationships etc) ended with ghosting. I have had friends from years who stopped talking to me without any apparent reason a random day. It always made me feel very insecure about getting attached to others and worried it could happen to me with anyone in any moment
About my family, even if I dont have a bad relationship with them and feel very privileged to have two loving parents, I dont really care about my extended family and dont think they care about me. Family meetings always felt obligatory more than desirable, hanging out with people I see from time to time and dont know much about me just because we are related
I feel like my parents are the only people who really love me and when they die, I will be alone in this world without anyone else. I think Im a nice person, others at least say I am, but I dont know. If its true, why the only two people who have showed me love are people who are biologically programmed to love me ?
Hola! Soy un chico de 21 años del este de Madrid y me encantaría hacer amigos (ya sea por mi zona o por el centro) de edad parecida para hacer planes, ya que en la uni o el gym se me hace practicamente imposible conocer gente nueva y mis amigos no tienen mucha gente para presentarme. Tambien voy frecuentemente a conciertos solo, pero no he conseguido socializar mucho alli.
Mis hobbies son principalmente la música (mas tirando para rock alternativo, aunque escucho casi de todo y toco varios instrumentos) , el cine sobretodo mas tirando a clásico, los videojuegos, la lectura (desde novelas a manga) , el fútbol (solo verlo, jugando parece que no tengo piernas lol) y también soy muy friki de historia/politica/filosofía
Si alguien quiere quedar un día para tomar algo o sabe donde podría encontrar gente o grupos para ello que me diga :)
I (M21) just had my first date ever (F20). We matched 20 days ago and in that time we talked about literally everything and it was going so well we even planned future dates without even having the first one. In person I felt the same, we spent almost 3 hours talking non stop while having a walk and later drinking. She felt very comfortable, to the point I had to leave at an specific time for a concert and we didnt look at the time and ended up leaving 30 min later.
I was suspecting that she wasnt feeling anything romantic because she wasnt responding to my flirting (she didnt look uncomfortable about it either) and when I invited her she said it wasnt neccesary and later offered me to pay her part. At the end of the date I told her "It was very nice meeting you and I would like to see you again", and she said she feels bad about it but didnt feel anything romantic and wished me luck with my matches. I asked her if we can remain friends (as she mentions in her Hinge profile she is open to friendships too), she said yes and we have chatted a bit after the date ended.
Honestly it hurt a little because in one year of using Hinge is the only date I ever got and its one of the girls I have met who were the closest to my ideal partner. I think the biggest possibility is that she didnt like me physically, even if she matched with me and saw how I look like (and honestly I think Im not very photogenic and look better in person)
Has anything of this ever happened to you? I dont know how common it is, but as someone who never had luck with this things, I dont even know if I feel good continuing to try online dating
Im having the first date of my life tomorrow with a girl and we have been texting at least a bit everyday for 20 days and we both have even discussed things we could do in future dates , so it seems she is interested in having them before even having the first one
My question is, if it goes well, should I ask her at the end of the first date, when I arrive home or a few days after?
As I have time next weekend but will be busy the rest of the month, I was planning on saying at the end of the date something like "I had a lot of fun with you and would like to see you again if you want to too" . Or should I wait a bit ?