u/That-Lawfulness1201

Normal ba na tumanggap ng 2 na manliligaw habang nasa getting-to-know stage pa lang? Or once na pumayag ka na manligaw yung isang guy, does that already mean you’re choosing him, so entertaining another guy becomes disrespectful?

Ang understanding ko kasi, panliligaw is exactly the stage where both people are figuring out if they’re compatible. Wala pang commitment or exclusivity unless napag-usapan na. So technically, both are still free to get to know other people.

Pero may nababasa rin akong opinions na kapag may isa ka nang pinayagang manligaw, dapat sa kanya ka na lang mag-focus. Otherwise, unfair daw sa effort at expectations niya.

Anong pumapasok sa isip niyo before hitting send? Validation ba, confidence boost, or tingin niyo effective siya?

Thank you in advance!

Like for example nahuli mo sarili mong nakangiti habang nagsasandok ng kanin. 😂 As in wala namang kausap, bigla ka lang napapangiti.